posted November 17, 2021 06:42 AM            

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Originally posted by angryant2021:
Can I ask how you prevent yourself from doting on one daughter more than the other?

My mother is biased towards me (she feels connected to me but it doesn't go both ways), and this bias has hurt the relationship between my sister and I.

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I don't know that I show bias? I love them equally, but it's different. And ironically, when my oldest was still at home with us, I usually sided with her in arguments. But that was out of what I hoped was fair judgement.... Maybe my Cap moon helps me out here, but I am not overly emotional outwardly anyway.

My oldest, as I can see pretty clearly now, is a mastermind at manipulating and playing situations. Smart. brain/logic oriented, Gem Sun and Moon. My youngest is Sun square Pluto, so she is reactive. She always ended up getting in trouble as a result! Now that my oldest is out of the house, I can see how much she instigated and manipulated the situation to her advantage.

I still love and choose each of them equally, I just feel a more powerfully harmonious connection with my second child. It is easier to hang out with her, and I just have to work harder to keep the connection going with my oldest.

posted November 17, 2021 11:12 AM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
I don't know that I show bias? I love them equally, but it's different. And ironically, when my oldest was still at home with us, I usually sided with her in arguments. But that was out of what I hoped was fair judgement.... Maybe my Cap moon helps me out here, but I am not overly emotional outwardly anyway.

My oldest, as I can see pretty clearly now, is a mastermind at manipulating and playing situations. Smart. brain/logic oriented, Gem Sun and Moon. My youngest is Sun square Pluto, so she is reactive. She always ended up getting in trouble as a result! Now that my oldest is out of the house, I can see how much she instigated and manipulated the situation to her advantage.

I still love and choose each of them equally, I just feel a more powerfully harmonious connection with my second child. It is easier to hang out with her, and I just have to work harder to keep the connection going with my oldest.

I feel like I just rambled, so hopefully it makes more sense to you than it does me...

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Sorry, I didn't mean to accuse you of anything that wasn't my intention

My mother is also Cap moon and believes I'm the reincarnation of her mother. She would always say things like "You're the better daughter, you love mom the most." or "Why does she do everything wrong, only you do things right. My youngest daughter, you're my blessing!"

posted November 17, 2021 06:44 PM            

My partner isn't pregnant and doesn't plan on it in the foreseeable future. There was an interesting confluence of events that happened years ago (don't remember how long exactly at this point). The first thing that happened was that she was laying in bed relaxing one time and then started to have a waking dream about our future daughter post collapse.

Sometime later, not too long after, I bought her a reading (for her b-day) with a professional intuitive that I had had a reading with a month previous. During the reading, she just asked generally, "what about children?" The intuitive started to describe a daughter in all the same ways (physical looks, vibe/personality, etc) that she had seen in her in the waking dream previously. More over, she said that our daughter really reminded her of another child of another client who was also a "star child" in her perception. She asked the mother permission to share a photograph with us. The mother ok'd that, and there was a lot of resemblance minus the gender difference. Both with large, bright, blue gray, hyper aware/intelligent eyes, and both with strawberry blondish hair (in her waking dream, she called our daughter, "little strawberry" because of that and because my partner loves strawberries and so will our daughter).

Later on, I was wondering about all the above, and had the intuition/feeling that this incoming Soul was likely going to be my mom returning. A couple years or so later, I asked another intuitive about it, and she confirmed that my mother is on deck waiting, so to speak.

posted November 17, 2021 06:59 PM            

And what do you think about telepathy? Is it somehow correlated with being soulmates or it happens either way?

I just experienced it again. And the guy is now on another continent. So wondering if it's just me who is getting over-sensitive. Or it happens always in relationships?

posted November 18, 2021 12:14 PM            

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Originally posted by angryant2021:
Sorry, I didn't mean to accuse you of anything that wasn't my intention

My mother is also Cap moon and believes I'm the reincarnation of her mother. She would always say things like "You're the better daughter, you love mom the most." or "Why does she do everything wrong, only you do things right. My youngest daughter, you're my blessing!"

I just find it a bit scary how people take so positively towards terms like soulmates but gosh my mother's behavior had ruined our family relationships for 20+ years.

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posted November 18, 2021 02:05 PM            

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Originally posted by AlmaRegulus:
Is attraction instant in Twin Flames, Soulmates and Karmic relationships?

Can you share your experience?

In the same vein - if the attraction wasn't instant, how would that define a relationship?

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posted November 20, 2021 09:03 AM            

Here it is (first come their planets, second mine; all conjunctions unless specified otherwise; orb in brackets):

PLEASE DON'T QUOTE

No1
Moon - IC (<6*)
Draco Moon - Asc (<3*)
Draco IC - Draco Moon (<3*)
Moon - Draco Vertex (<6*)
Antivertex - Draco Moon (<3*)
Draco Dsc - Draco Mars (<6*)

No2
Draco Dsc - Draco Moon (<7*)

No3
MC - Moon (<6*)
Draco Moon - Draco Asc (<1*)
Draco MC - Moon (<6*)
Moon - Draco Antivertex (<6*)
Sun - Asc (<4*)
Venus - Asc (< 5*)
Asc - Venus (5*)

No4
Moon - IC (<5*)
Draco Dsc - Draco Moon (<2*)
Draco Antivertex - Moon (<6*)

No5 (current)
Vertex - Moon (<4*)
Draco MC - Sun (<1*)
Sun - Draco IC (<5*)
Draco MC - Sun (<5*)
Venus - MC (<4*)
MC - Venus (<3*)
Draco Mars - Draco MC (<1*)

Well by contacts to the Moon No1 is the winner. It's true that it was the most emotionally close relationship.

posted December 02, 2021 11:59 PM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
One soulmate of mine, yes- absolutely. A friend set us up, but she got my approval beforehand. She showed me a picture and the feeling of knowing him was intense. I said yes without a doubt. When I met him, I was immediately attracted. And he felt the same. We are not together, but to this day he has the same effect on me. It's something about his eyes. He's the only person I have been with, ended a relationship with, and yet pray that I come back in another life to actually be with.

I think my ex-husband is a karmic soulmate as well. And I don't remember being too attracted to him physically, but drawn to him maybe.

No twin flames for me.

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Would you mind posting the charts of your soulmate? Sounds interesting. I’ve been gathering data and looking at charts to find common denominators that indicate “soulmates”.

Just start a new thread with my name 😊.