posted January 12, 2023 06:58 PM            

Maybe actually i’m too cold for a Venus Pisces.. because my only credible water.. moon in cancer squares my Saturn and my already cold Venus in Aries also squares Saturn 🪐 dannnnngggggg ruuuuunnnn hahahah jk

posted January 12, 2023 08:11 PM            

In this synastry, the only positive actual aspects that are significant are Suns are trine, ASCs are opposite each other, his Venus in your 7th house, Mars in 1st, your Jupiter opposite his Moon which will make for a very happy interaction,

I read your charts looking at the overall themes between you two. He has the same signatures as you have in your chart. Mars in the 7th, you have it conjunct your ASC, also Venus in Aries which is the same theme as Mars in 1st/7th house. Having opposite ASC it's also a sign of a high attraction. The 7th house has to fit with the other persons 1st house or there has to be a theme in the chart of that energy so there's a chance of long term relationship, so that is what overwrites the lack of classical aspects between Sun/Moon/ASC and Venus/Mars. Although, even for this the 7th house has to fit with the other.

He has Mars (passion) and Saturn (commitment and seriousness) in the 7th house and Pisces ASC, you have Mars conjunct ASC (passion), Venus in Aries opposite Saturn (seriousness in relationships) and Virgo ASC.

posted January 13, 2023 05:51 PM            

You are correct I felt that yin/yang mirroring effect even before I learned hi birthday. These aspects could well override the lack of classical compatibility expectations.. or maybe as we get older.. we know what we will put up with and not.. for example.. security is impt.. no relationships are perfect, compromise is needed but overall I might settle.. he might be dissatisfied (I’m not touching his moon and eventually I might get suffocated)

Very good description of my Venus also.. it describes me to T as you put it.. 😉

Here’s a chart from astrotheme maybe it would be clearer..

https://ibb.co/gZDXgtR

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posted January 14, 2023 05:53 AM            

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Originally posted by CuriousCat333:
By the way.. this is bad but.. I also tend to pursue someone then when I can have them.. I don’t want them anymore.. it’s very bad cause I’m a woman.. does that have something to do with my Venus in Aries?
I’m also a bit commitment phobic.. if u see similar placements to mine.. ruuuunnnn hahahah

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it does have to do with Venus in Aries ))) Venus it's passive energy, for a woman, they come to her, and it's about devotion and commitment and that comes after "you got them". If you want to work with it, you can take it one step further after you are in a relationship with him. Stay there and continue the relationship instead of leaving. It would be tempting to go after a new chase.

posted January 15, 2023 04:06 PM            

I question all these classical interpretation of synastry..

Because with these 2 guys example.

I feel at home and very open, mind, body, soul with the aqua guy who I don’t have a good synastry with..

While the Sagittarius ♐️ guy , I feel uncomfortable around and not very open too.. I tend to run away from his energy the even if we have better synastry like sun/Venus trine double whammy and mars/Venus conj double whammy moon/Jupiter conj etc.. I find him not very attractive.. I don’t know the saggi birth time.

while the aqua guy I’m very attracted to him, he is like a magnet to me.. but we have no good synastry.

But I’m wondering if the other one.. have good start but bad if we start a serious relationship…and the other one may not be off to a good start with the saggi but .. down the road it could be a better relationship.

posted January 15, 2023 05:31 PM            

The last guy I dated had Mars in Taurus. Perfect match!!! but since we don't have compatible Sun/Moons, or to ASC, with my Moon, it just feels empty.

The "classical aspects" as I refered to them are really good, you really notice when they are missing.

For example, with this guy we had:
- opposite ASCs
- my Venus-Moon in his 4th house - we have the same families, the same story, the same uncles, our parents have the same profession, his father has a step brother, just like my father, it was really weird, I thought only I have this kind of family )) his mother is a Pisces just like me, he has almost all his family living abroad, just like mine )), we both have small pets, he calls his dog as being a little loser, I call mine as being a little idiot )) crazy
- his Sun/Mars/Saturn conjunction conjunct my Venus - I liked very much this combination
- his Moon conjunct my Saturn
- his Moon opposite my ASC - this makes him being emotional, connected to me emotional, but since it's the gender reversed, I feel that I need to express emotional and I can't connect to him
- my Sun same sign as his Venus/Jupiter conjunction in Pisces
- I have Saturn in the 7th and he has Sun/Mars/Saturn conjunct in natal chart
- he has Leo 7th house and I am a leo ASC conjunct Jupiter, he has Venus/jupiter conjunction

And he is an Aries, with Aquarius Moon/ASC
And I'm a Pisces, with Taurus Moon and Leo ASC

Sun/Moons are not compatible, Moons are even square by sign, trine by degree.

So even with those very good other aspects that bind people together, the missing Sun/Moon compatibility is showing. We are not together, we talked for a year and I fought for him this year, but with no success, and now I'm ghosting him because I can't take this further anymore. He doesn't get me and I can't get him.

posted January 17, 2023 04:51 PM            

Also I’m thinking individual charts and as a whole should be considered… because as with Sagittarius guy, who have same air/Fire combo and good synastry with me.. overall I wouldn’t choose him for a relationship I wouldn’t feel secure.. with too much freedom in a relationship even if our synastry says I need a lot of space and he needs too.. I think him being too outgoing (aqua Venus) would give me a huge headache. He easily talks to everybody that would be a threat to me.. while aqua guy is more introverted like me.

posted January 18, 2023 12:26 AM            

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Originally posted by problematique:
i’d be very careful about his mars in your 12H. that never gives me a good vibe. i had it and it can be volatile. you might end up as the hurt one here considering your natal placements. you are very sensitive.
i’d say be very careful in this relationship and keep your boundaries. for some reason he doesn’t inspire me as trustworthy (aquarius sun and mercury in 12H) and his neptune conjunct his MC… and a pisces rising. too much neptune going on here. he seems shady. just keep an eye out.
i can’t say if he loves/likes you or not but i have a feeling he’s too caught up in his own world even tho you share 5H synastry - which is nice and exciting. just be careful with this guy and check on his state of drug/alcohol abuse if there is any. there isn’t a single mix of an aquarius/pisces guy i’ve ever know who wasn’t an addict and/or very shady as a person.

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posted January 18, 2023 01:37 AM            

He shows all the characteristics of an empath..

posted January 18, 2023 02:22 AM            

I do completely agree with your description (well, I don't know him, but I know myself, lol ! ), he's Aqua 12th house with Pisces ASC like me!!!

posted January 23, 2023 09:27 PM            

Here’s the composite if you have a chance!
Thanks! Other expert inputs would be appreciated as well.

posted January 24, 2023 03:21 AM            

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posted January 24, 2023 04:28 PM            

So yes Juno falls exactly on the Pluto/Saturn-Jupiter midpoint as I had imagined... This whole aspect looks very powerful. Since it's in the 10th house, do you work together? In any case, it looks like potential powerful achievements together, as that this connection empowers confidence and fuels great ambitions. It also shows potential committment or strong common goals/common cause. This is opposite Sun/Venus, and means that your relationship is all about this synergy of pursuing a goal or achievement together, like a great team.
Also, the Moon/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct the Node in the eight house! Again a powerful connection meant to achieve something or commit in a very ambitious way. The Juno/Jupiter midpoint is trine to Moon, so this whole picture would tell me that a committed relationship at romantic level is very possible and would actually play out in a powerful way.
The concerning aspect is again the Neptune/Mars-MC square, with Eros square to to Mars/MC... this would unfortunately suggest some kind of "escapism" from the man's side, usually not up for committing romantically, or potential infidelty, or potential unavailability for being in another relationship, and so this could potentially show one sided love... otherwise, there could be other issues linked to cultural differences or even addiction issues. With this aspect is also possible that the relationship is very frivolous and plays out only about partying together and in a friends with benefit mood... But since the other aspects of potential union are so strong, my feeling is that either:

1) your relationship would work best at work/business/career level with no romantic involvement

or

2) that you get in a longterm relationship which is quite loving/affectionate and longterm, but there will be infidelty

and or

3) that despite the attraction and potentiality, the man is not up for committment.

posted January 24, 2023 10:44 PM            

Composite

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Synastry

posted January 25, 2023 12:48 AM            

I think that your last assumption is the closest to what I see in the composite chart, the block to committment, otherwise, whether he'd be up to commit, the risk of infidelty or strong trust issues could be there....

posted January 25, 2023 04:07 PM            

With Aqua/Pisces guy, I maybe have got an idea of what the issue is... this is so sad!!! If you still want to share in private just ask for my email address to the admin and write me right away!