posted February 17, 2023 04:01 PM            

I thought he was a better match for you when you posted with the wrong ASC being Aquarius and your Moon was on his ASC. I really thought then that you really found him ... but this is not your guy.

posted February 17, 2023 04:53 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
ChildofVenus, dont be mad at me, but no... You are better off and looking for someone else.

I thought he was a better match for you when you posted with the wrong ASC being Aquarius and your Moon was on his ASC. I really thought then that you really found him ... but this is not your guy.

Being nice when it is, its not enough...

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posted February 17, 2023 05:13 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
its not a deeper connection, its only on the sexual part, and even that part its reversed... you are being the initiator with your mars on his venus, and he is on the receiving end, which is uncomfortable for men.

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posted February 17, 2023 05:16 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
My Moon is conjunct his North Node I’ve read that this indicates a deep connection. When we first got sexual it was something that we both wanted. I don’t think he had an issue with me wanting sex. Because he wanted it too my Mars is in his 8th house.

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posted February 17, 2023 05:21 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
and its uncomfortable for you too.. thats why you lashed at him the first time

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posted February 17, 2023 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
yes, but im pretty sure you initiated it... he feels the energy, but its uncomfortable for him. he has a well placed mars, he is very masculine, if he had other placements, maybe i would have thought that he is more feminine and likes to be approached, but no.

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posted February 17, 2023 05:30 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
That’s not why I lashed out at him the first time it had nothing to do with sex.

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a lashing out at someone has to do with Mars. Thats why i've mentioned it.

I dont have to know the details of what its going on between you two because im seeing it in the synastry. You asked if you should try more, i think not... its only a sexual connection nothing more, and that sexual connection its still in reversed and its uncomfortable for him and for you too because you felt the need to lash out instead of him coming to you...

posted February 17, 2023 05:38 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
a lashing out at someone has to do with Mars. Thats why i've mentioned it.

I dont have to know the details of what its going on between you two because im seeing it in the synastry. You asked if you should try more, i think not... its only a sexual connection nothing more, and that sexual connection its still in reversed and its uncomfortable for him and for you too because you felt the need to lash out instead of him coming to you...

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posted February 17, 2023 05:55 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Dont you see the things that you are saying? and you are wondering why he calls you only on those times? and if you should try more?

Look, i wanted to help you because ive seen you being stuck and that you keep attracting to you only affairs and people that are with their venus on your mars or in opposition to your mars when it should have been in reversed, but you dont get it... you are in masculine energy with this guy and with the sagittarius that you posted before and so on and so forth... switch your energy or at least start to think differently if you want things to change....

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posted February 17, 2023 06:02 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
OK then, do as you wish...

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posted February 17, 2023 06:09 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Mare opposition Venus is a bad aspect?

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Sun/Moon and Venus/Mars are pairs to each other, one is feminine, one is masculine. Opposition or conjunction between them its really good.

It only good when the genders are matched between the people... if you want a good relationship, where there is a deeper connection, and with physical attraction... those have to be in pairs. Meaning, your Venus - their Mars, your Moon - their Sun.

posted February 20, 2023 02:50 PM            

I never said that it couldn't work out being in reversed. I just said that the only significant aspect between you and this guy its just a conjunction from your Mars to his Venus. There should have been Sun/Moon/ASC, Saturn, something that could show a commitet relationship, the 7th house to fit with each other. You have your 7th ruled by Saturn, his is ruled by Mars with actually Mars in it. Different energies, different paths of life, different ways of relating to other people.

If you look at past posts in the last months and there have been a few with guys that wanted to know if their significant other its interested in them and they have Sun/Moon reversed conjunction, or Mars/Moon reversed... they are in passive energy waiting for an answer, and the girls dont act out because it's cultural, it's our biology. The guy with Moon/Mars was really really sad that nothing turned out, althought that its crazy attraction when its the man's mars to a woman's Moon. He won't stay away.

posted February 20, 2023 07:11 PM            

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Moon/Mars its beyond any other aspect of attraction in synastry. Im sure they have other supporting aspects because this one needs commitment so they can be together.

I never said that it couldn't work out being in reversed. I just said that the only significant aspect between you and this guy its just a conjunction from your Mars to his Venus. There should have been Sun/Moon/ASC, Saturn, something that could show a commitet relationship, the 7th house to fit with each other. You have your 7th ruled by Saturn, his is ruled by Mars with actually Mars in it. Different energies, different paths of life, different ways of relating to other people.

If you look at past posts in the last months and there have been a few with guys that wanted to know if their significant other its interested in them and they have Sun/Moon reversed conjunction, or Mars/Moon reversed... they are in passive energy waiting for an answer, and the girls dont act out because it's cultural, it's our biology. The guy with Moon/Mars was really really sad that nothing turned out, althought that its crazy attraction when its the man's mars to a woman's Moon. He won't stay away.

And, I have my Mars in Gemini too. I dated a guy with Venus in Gemini, he had Mars in Taurus too conjunct my Venus. SO both ways conjunction, with no other significant aspects, also that his Moon conjunct my North Node. It turned really bad. If your Mars behaved as my Mars, and I guess it does because we have the same ASC, and Mercury in Aries too, I want to change the energy of it because I don't like it. I lashed out at him too, crying and saying lots of bad things to this guy because I was hurt and ignored by him, and as I was typing the messages I was wondering what's wrong with me cause I never felt that way before. He's actually the reason for me studying astrology because I wanted to protect myself against him, but it's not this conjunction to blame. The first guy I dated, with who I slept the first time, I had with him this conjunction and his Moon opposite my Sun, nothing turned out of it. after I met my long term partner at that time, and we had Sun/Moon opposition, Venus/Mars opposition with the right genders and I didn't had to do all the stuff that its wrong when its in reversed. It could work out , but not as a singleton.

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Just because a man’s Mars is conjunct's a woman's Moon doesn't automatically mean they are going to be together. A guy has his Aquarius Mars conjunct my Moon and I don't want to be with him. I get what you are saying about the Sun/Moon aspect. But I don't see how it's only sexual because we've cuddled together, cooked and cleaned together etc. My Moon being in his 4th house is emotional I've read about this overlay in synastry.

posted February 21, 2023 01:55 AM            

You're not the problem, and he is not either. Just not each others thing.

posted February 21, 2023 05:41 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Sassqua is right... there's too much hassle to make you understand.

You're not the problem, and he is not either. Just not each others thing.

Don't blame yourself for it.

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If that were the case I’d never be each other’s thing with anyone. Because I’ve never had good synastry with anyone. My ex was the most decent and that ended in a disaster we were compatible. You told me to date a Leo yeah well my ex of seven years was a Leo so no that didn’t work out either. Want to know what happened with the Leo? He ended up threatening my life he was BOTH verbally and physically abusive. He even told my parents he was going to harm me.

And we had Moon trine Moon, Sun trine Sun, Sun trine Venus all those wonderful aspects and yet it ended up being horrible. Things actually did get physical a few times.

This Cancer guy was never verbally or physically abusive. He actually showed me physical affection (not sex) which is something I’ve never really experienced. Astrology doesn’t tell two people how they feel about each other. And it also doesn’t dictate if two people will work out or not either.

He has so many great qualities. He’s a hard worker I admire his work ethic, he’s caring yet serious has a good personality he’s intelligent. I treated him horrible because of my insecurities and past trauma that I’ve never dealt with.
But I am starting therapy to get help with my issues. I assumed he was like every other guy I was involved with.

posted February 21, 2023 12:33 PM            

You have Moon in the 7th. You are way different than him.

Relationships are built, but not all will work out. At the end, there's only if we were one for the other. And in astrology, you can see this. If you and him were meant to be together, there would have been some obvious signs, like same ASC or opposite or if they were trine, the ASC of the others matches with the 7th house of the other one, like mirroring each others chart, having the same difficulties, having the same blessings, having the same energy basically.

I don't really want to go further on this right now. Mars is in Gemini right now and usually I'm getting fired up when its there. The last time I had a dissagrement with some people from a restaurant that its near me and I don't want to get nervous.