posted October 18, 2014 01:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:
Hanna, I think I remember you showing a picture of your eyes once, and they were stunning! I'm not very active on here, but your eyes left quite an impression on me. Green with amazing eyebrows, if I remember correctly. The most memorable eyes I've seen on here! So many of your posts are filled with self doubt. Many people that don't have anything to offer in the looks department have successful relationships, so looks certainly help, but it's not the most important thing.

#1-Forget about your boss, he doesn't like you in that way. I've had that feeling for a while, sorry.
#2-Work on your self worth. I know this is easier said than done. I was just thinking about that today, guys that are painfully insecure, no matter how physically sexy they are, it's a turn off to me. I don't like cocky guys either, but a person that is comfortable in their own skin is sexy as hell! It trumps looks anyday!

This wouldn't be the best time to enter a relationship, when you're feeling down on yourself, because you're likely to settle. You deserve so much more, so don't settle!

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AWWWWWWWW. I am so appreciative you took the time out to write this for me. And yes those are my eyes, lol! I take pride in my eyebrows (if anyone wants tips ask me, I love talking make-up!) Thank you!

#1. No you're completely right, and I know he doesn't like me in that way but I like having something to chase and he's the only one around.
#2. Omg (exasperated) I guess I don't realize I sound that way 'til someone points it out to me. Guys ARE painfully insecure, and I'm not good at recognizing that so my ribbing probably doesn't help! I like to tease and poke fun, because I can handle that from someone. That's "affection" to me.

I completely agree about not entering a relationship too, I really do. My friend even asked me today when I was going to get in the dating pool again but I'm just not FEELING it. It's annoying because I love the chase, getting to know someone, and having the bond deepen... but I feel so lazy emotionally. I've been working out more and that helps lift some of the negativity but not all of it. Other than working out and telling myself "I deserve X, Y, Z," (which I don't really like because it makes me feel entitled even though I like to operate on the principle of "earning" what you want...kind of.) I think my worth is the same because I keep having unsuccessful relationships. Just today I asked my best friend "Why do I always get it f%*#ing wrong? EVERY single time?"

posted October 18, 2014 01:36 AM            

ITA with bluejay on the boss, just didn't want to say it because sometimes when I speak honestly about someone's situation, they get defensive and keep the rose colored glasses on (and deflect). You're cool, so I wasn't sure how you would react to my concern.

Honestly, just do what is best for you. If taking time away from dating is going to help you, then do it. It sounds like you've been through some things lately- I've been there and I am kind of going through it now. But the most important thing to remember is that you do deserve X, Y, and Z! Never put yourself down and think you deserve less: you will attract situations, opportunities, and guys that ultimately manifest your self-fulfilling prophecy. It isn't entitlement, it is making sure you are receiving your emotional, physical, and spiritual needs.

Remember, it is a 2 way street: no one is entirely to blame for something going on.

posted October 18, 2014 01:44 AM            

Oh with me don't ever be afraid to speak your mind...as long as you say it in the right tone and you're genuine. People underestimate their voice across an internet board, I think. But in any case, like I said - the boss? Nbd. At all. He's not even my type personality wise and physically (but he has a cute face, and I think Aries ruling the head and all...we're suckers for cute faces =p)

I will keep all this in mind when having my standards. I think having Sun square Neptune and Sun square Saturn is rearing it's ugly head. Yes I've been through things lately and it's like I want to keep talking about it over and over, but that doesn't help so I thought I was digging deep with these questions.

posted October 18, 2014 01:53 AM            

Sags are cool, I would be down to be a Sag for a day.

Neptune= illusions

Saturn= limitations

posted October 18, 2014 01:56 AM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Light brown hair and Aqua Sun.

Sags are cool, I would be down to be a Sag for a day.

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I know! I totally agree.

posted October 18, 2014 02:06 AM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
No, lol I was by myself. I am first house venus, taking pictures with other people would take the spotlight away from me.

Truth though: I am sooo paranoid about putting pics on this site that I a pic up for an hour maybe and took it down.

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posted October 18, 2014 02:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:
I would love some eyebrow tips! They've been growing wild for years now! Luckily they're blonde, but that's no excuse! I used to get them waxed years ago, and loved the look.

Your green eyes stick out in my mind!

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Ahhh where to start, where to start. First what's your eyebrow goal? The way I do mine is by getting a brush that looks like this: http://janeiredale.com/us/en/mineral-makeup/makeup-tools/makeup-brushes.htm?gclid=Cj0KEQjw_IKiBRD7rPqut_OZ4qgBEiQASm4GApog2ZXLgEiQRDKqPvHFDRwGpBIs5d5tcIokCTW-ukgaAg5v8P8HAQ#18036

Then find a creme liner that's a shade darker than your eyebrows (if they're blonde, brown will do. I haven't seen varying shades of brown at the drug stores so I just use Elf's creme eyeliner in whatever brown shade it is.)

What we're doing is underlinining the brow to help shape and give it definition, so you'll take the brush and the creme liner and follow the shape of your brow (actually you can use it to draw whatever shape you like - explanation to follow) but just on the bottom, and preferably near the tail because in the process we're also creating an ombre brow.

Next you want to take a small flat brush like this: http://janeiredale.com/us/en/mineral-makeup/makeup-tools/makeup-brushes.htm?gclid=Cj0KEQjw_IKiBRD7rPqut_OZ4qgBEiQASm4GApog2ZXLgEiQRDKqPvHFDRwGpBIs5d5tcIokCTW-ukgaAg5v8P8HAQ#18011

And dip it in foundation that matches your skin color, OR concealer that's a shade lighter than your skin color. Either way it's going to look great! This step is beneficial because it cleans up any smudges made from the creme liner step and will seal the definition in your brow. You basically outline your brow shape with the concealer (starting from the inner corner where your brow begins and following to the outskirts where the brow tail ends.) It covers up any stray hairs underneath the brow since it's the same color and makes your brows look really clean and sharp.

posted October 18, 2014 03:16 AM            

We're having a talk about progressions/prog synastry at Interpersonal astro.. there's some interesting stuff there. I KNOW there is some loving out there for me soon.. I am having pVenus conj NN as we speak.. later it will trine Pluto and Saturn.. And if nothing works, in 4 years I am having the famous pSun conj nVenus. I say something's gotta give. I may still be single on New Years though.. that sucks. But it's not too long until I'll find my person. I hope. We have to keep on hoping, girls.. have to. Says Sag Moon.

posted October 19, 2014 01:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
You are both gorgeous, ladies - talking about Hanna and Bella because I have not seen Bluejay (yet ). I agree that unattractive women get guys ALL the time.. I don't think I am horrible to look at, but I'm in the overweight group too. I still think I look nice I'd do me lol. But truth is we have to see how we're making it hard on our love life. I'm pretty unapproachable and standoffish I was told. I don't go out of my way to meet guys, or look gorgeous on a daily basis (only on dates, then I put on the whole arsenal), I'm a Cap riser for goodness's sake. And I am uncompromising. *sighs* Guys find me difficult to be with.. I guess.

We're having a talk about progressions/prog synastry at Interpersonal astro.. there's some interesting stuff there. I KNOW there is some loving out there for me soon.. I am having pVenus conj NN as we speak.. later it will trine Pluto and Saturn.. And if nothing works, in 4 years I am having the famous pSun conj nVenus. I say something's gotta give. I may still be single on New Years though.. that sucks. But it's not too long until I'll find my person. I hope. We have to keep on hoping, girls.. have to. Says Sag Moon.

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You are also a Cap Rising? I know that struggle! Can I have your Sag moon though, Pisces isn't that much fun.

posted October 19, 2014 04:38 AM            

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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
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You are also a Cap Rising? I know that struggle! Can I have your Sag moon though, Pisces isn't that much fun.

It looks like there is a lot of potential for you to meet someone though.

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My Sag Moon is exactly conjunct my Neptune at 29 Sag, it functions a lot like a Pisces Moon. Are you sure you want it?

Idk, I will believe it when I see it. Relationships have been such a struggle for me and I always end up in tears. Part of me doesn't want to get back on that carousel, know what I'm saying? Oh but my sappy romantic heart does..