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Topic: Are men proud to be my boyfriend (cont'd.)
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hannaramaa
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posted October 17, 2014 12:54 AM
  
I say continued because that's not really how I wanted to phrase the question. In my head I was thinking "Am I pretty enough for men to be proud to be my boyfriend?" thinking along the lines of making our relationship public, meeting the parents, etc. but it came out like that. Anyways, I wasn't sure where to look regarding this question. Where do you look in regards to physical appearance, or do you use your 1st and 7th house? They're not even aspecting so (according to the horary chart) I guess not?  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 17, 2014 12:54 AM
I think it's funny my Moon ended in Leo with this question.IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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posted October 17, 2014 02:02 AM
LMAO.I just casted a horary asking what impression I make on men- I guess I am on the same page as you.  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 17, 2014 02:30 AM
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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
LMAO.I just casted a horary asking what impression I make on men- I guess I am on the same page as you.
You can post yours here so we can compare, if you want!  I wasn't sure if I look the my 6th house ruler for appearances or not. IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted October 17, 2014 07:24 AM
Hmmm, this is a tough one...not really sure how to answer it. As far as houses go, physical appearances is the 1st, self esteem and self-worth is the 2nd...I think we're all going to be learning here IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted October 17, 2014 11:31 AM
Tough one, I agree. My first instinct was to use the reception.. but if we have to look at an "official" house, I'd look at the 10th. So, 10th from the 7th - 4th. Mercury Rx, combust and intercepted. I think it might be mixed impressions here, the combustion I would take as a yes (as in blindly in love haha), but the retrogradation and interception as a no. Rx means they would second guess themselves and interception I would interpret like.. they think you wouldn't fit in with their friends/family, like you're from a different background. Not sure if I did this right, so take it with a grain of salt. I have been crying all day, my head hurts. ------------------
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hannaramaa
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posted October 17, 2014 11:57 AM
Awww what's wrong DM? You can email me if you like. Aries to Aries. 💛IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted October 17, 2014 12:04 PM
Ahh.. it's actually along the same lines. Well.. not exactly, but sort of lol. Except with more self pity  What is wrong with me, why can't I get a guy, why do guys turn cold after they know me better? Am I really that much of a b#tch???!!!! *CRIES* I'm feeling better now though, I watched funny cat videos lol. I am so relieved I have a Sag Moon! lol
Nah, I am still sad, but at least not crying anymore. It kinda annoys me nowadays. I am just tired of being alone, and tired of nothing working out for me, romantically. And I don't want to end up an old cat lady. 
Meh. It's been an emotional day. ------------------
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tgem
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posted October 17, 2014 12:10 PM
Aww, DM..keep your chin up. We all have days like this  IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted October 17, 2014 12:25 PM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Tough one, I agree. My first instinct was to use the reception.. but if we have to look at an "official" house, I'd look at the 10th. So, 10th from the 7th - 4th. Mercury Rx, combust and intercepted. I think it might be mixed impressions here, the combustion I would take as a yes (as in blindly in love haha), but the retrogradation and interception as a no. Rx means they would second guess themselves and interception I would interpret like.. they think you wouldn't fit in with their friends/family, like you're from a different background. Not sure if I did this right, so take it with a grain of salt. I have been crying all day, my head hurts.
I was definitely thinking receptions as well. DM why do you think the 10th house would be involved? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 17, 2014 12:39 PM
Oh DM don't say that...I think the guy I reaaaallly liked, who treated me badly, is seeing someone. And good riddance right? But....I'm still single. And I have a cat. And I literally thought that same thing to myself this morning.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 17, 2014 12:40 PM
I wondered about the 10th house too. And different backgrounds? I have Gemini ASC / Sag DSC. Yay me... 👎IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted October 17, 2014 12:46 PM
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Originally posted by tgem:
I was definitely thinking receptions as well. DM why do you think the 10th house would be involved?
Because it's his public house, his reputation, how society views him and what he shows to society. That's why I thought of it, but could be wrong. I got the idea from synastry, since couples that become officially involved (married or steady for a long time) have MC rulers activated, because they make their relationship "public"..
That's where I was going with it. ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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posted October 17, 2014 12:50 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Oh DM don't say that...I think the guy I reaaaallly liked, who treated me badly, is seeing someone. And good riddance right? But....I'm still single. And I have a cat. And I literally thought that same thing to myself this morning.
Good riddance, yes! I was actually thinking, between sobs (lol) it is probably because I'm an Aries, and I don't yield. Yielding women don't have relationship problems, because they compromise.. and I don't want to do that. And I thought it really sucks that we Aries women are so awesome (and I honestly think that we are, f#ck modesty) but we rarely seem to find someone that TRULY appreciates us and our fire.. Because most men just want women who would do what they want them to. I love my Aries pride. I will probably end up alone but at least I will know I didn't settle. It's a sour win, but I'll take it. ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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posted October 17, 2014 12:55 PM
Hanna, who is the guy in your present though, he showed up in your Lenormand. Is it your boss?BTW after I did that spread, I asked a horary myself. Didn't want to post it, but maybe I should. I sometimes lack objectivity with my own charts. ------------------
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hannaramaa
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posted October 17, 2014 01:21 PM
Post the horary! And you see someone in my present in the horary chart I casted? Or you're referring to the GT only? If there's somebody in my present I don't see him because last time I checked I've still been paying for my own meals.... and my own gas. And my own bills. It would have to be my boss since he's literally the only man around me now. But he has a girlfriend, wah wah.IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted October 17, 2014 01:25 PM
I was referring to the GT when I wrote that. In the horary, you're separating from Saturn by antiscion (opposition), so you're moving away from him. But you are applying to conjunct this nice Mr. Jupiter here.. who happens to rule your 6th and 10th.. Hopefully he's someone new and not your unavailable boss. I'll post my horary but the Asc is early (I still read it though ). ------------------
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BellaFenice
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posted October 17, 2014 07:42 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
You can post yours here so we can compare, if you want! I wasn't sure if I look the my 6th house ruler for appearances or not.
I would but its only 15 minutes later than yours. Nothing is really different. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 17, 2014 10:03 PM
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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
I would but its only 15 minutes later than yours. Nothing is really different.
Do you find that's true then, that you don't fit in with your interest's background, etc.? I'm such an in-betweener it's ridiculous. I'm overweight, so I don't fit in with healthy and fit people, but I'm striving for health so I don't fit in with people who like to party and drink all the time, and I don't smoke or anything but it's almost like I "attract" that because I'm overweight (unhealthy meets unhealthy). Plus I come from a strict household, my parents are still together, I never go without... but the people I meet are self-reliant / self-sufficient etc. and it just creates another wedge. Can a horary chart tell us how to fix our problems? IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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posted October 17, 2014 10:21 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Do you find that's true then, that you don't fit in with your interest's background, etc.?I'm such an in-betweener it's ridiculous. I'm overweight, so I don't fit in with healthy and fit people, but I'm striving for health so I don't fit in with people who like to party and drink all the time, and I don't smoke or anything but it's almost like I "attract" that because I'm overweight (unhealthy meets unhealthy). Plus I come from a strict household, my parents are still together, I never go without... but the people I meet are self-reliant / self-sufficient etc. and it just creates another wedge. Can a horary chart tell us how to fix our problems?
Oop at me. Mine is a little different-how would Moon in 1st change the answer? That is interesting- the only thing I can relate to is that I typically attract people from different ethnic backgrounds. I do attract people that are a little wild and unfortunately want someone to mother them. I ain't about to be someone's mom! lol. Other than that, I couldn't relate to the interp. I make really good impressions on boyfriend's families. I think it is because I am very career oriented that men get doubts, like "oh she is so busy/invested in work, is it really worth it?"  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 17, 2014 10:34 PM
One thing that stuck out to me was a) you being in your 1st house, but you also being in Leo (I think?) and the "men" (which I'm using Mars for. I have no idea if that's technically correct) are in their 12th house. This automatically made me think yes, you have your s*it together while these guys have issues. You're proud of yourself and you have a healthy confidence but these guys are in the 12th house which makes me think they're receding, shrinking wallflower types, weirdly enough. I know you said you attract wild ones...are they low key wild?On to look more. IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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posted October 18, 2014 12:33 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
One thing that stuck out to me was a) you being in your 1st house, but you also being in Leo (I think?) and the "men" (which I'm using Mars for. I have no idea if that's technically correct) are in their 12th house. This automatically made me think yes, you have your s*it together while these guys have issues. You're proud of yourself and you have a healthy confidence but these guys are in the 12th house which makes me think they're receding, shrinking wallflower types, weirdly enough. I know you said you attract wild ones...are they low key wild?On to look more.
Maybe wild wasn't the best word- in college yes, but now its always the shy, tentative times that have some sort of issue (alcohol problem, passive-aggressiveness, money issues, etc.). Or are low key crazy that doesn't come out for a little bit. IDK, its just frustrating because these aren't the type of guys I want to date. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 18, 2014 01:09 AM
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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Maybe wild wasn't the best word- in college yes, but now its always the shy, tentative times that have some sort of issue (alcohol problem, passive-aggressiveness, money issues, etc.). Or are low key crazy that doesn't come out for a little bit. IDK, its just frustrating because these aren't the type of guys I want to date.
Welcome to the club, sister. What guys do you want to date? Where's Mars in your natal chart? Your description fits what I said about Mars being in the 7th houser's 12th. IP: Logged |
Bluejay
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posted October 18, 2014 01:11 AM
Hanna, I think I remember you showing a picture of your eyes once, and they were stunning! I'm not very active on here, but your eyes left quite an impression on me. Green with amazing eyebrows, if I remember correctly. The most memorable eyes I've seen on here! So many of your posts are filled with self doubt. Many people that don't have anything to offer in the looks department have successful relationships, so looks certainly help, but it's not the most important thing.#1-Forget about your boss, he doesn't like you in that way. I've had that feeling for a while, sorry.
#2-Work on your self worth. I know this is easier said than done. I was just thinking about that today, guys that are painfully insecure, no matter how physically sexy they are, it's a turn off to me. I don't like cocky guys either, but a person that is comfortable in their own skin is sexy as hell! It trumps looks anyday! This wouldn't be the best time to enter a relationship, when you're feeling down on yourself, because you're likely to settle. You deserve so much more, so don't settle! IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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posted October 18, 2014 01:13 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Welcome to the club, sister. What guys do you want to date? Where's Mars in your natal chart? Your description fits what I said about Mars being in the 7th houser's 12th.
Oh god lol. Honestly, I just do not want the Stage-5 clingers. Is that too much for a girl to ask!?!? But important fact I forgot to mention: the question I asked was what kind of impression do I make on guys (hoping they would want to show me off/feel proud)? So similar to what you asked but a little different. Mars in Taurus 4th house BUT.... Sun square Mars
Venus square Mars
Pluto square Mars I am going to die alone, right? IP: Logged |
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