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Topic: Will we get together or am i better off letting go?
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dustib Knowflake Posts: 41 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 01, 2015 07:31 PM
Am wondering if Eugene and I will come together in a committed relationship. We met in Dec and instantly hit things off but I pushed for too much too soon. We haven't really spoke since the middle of February and the "relationship " ended the beginning of Feb. I found out a week ago I'm pregnant and told him Wednesday and it's been silence since then. I care deeply for him and would Love for us to be together. But if there is no chance of that then I would like to know that as well so I can let go and move on. Thanks! http://s296.photobucket.com/user/rmshrmgr/media/astro_61gw_02_01_geno_dusti.52523.24531_zpsqtjlbdgk.gif.html IP: Logged |
ikja Knowflake Posts: 858 From: London, UK Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 01, 2015 07:53 PM
You're using a synastry chart hun x We cannot help you to answer your question with this type of chart.You need to create a "natal" chart for the question you want to know the answer to. READ THE CONTENTS OF THIS THREAD http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum36/HTML/000431.html IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 41 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 01, 2015 08:21 PM
I am sorry about that...I'm new to all of this. Edited this post with what I hope is the correct chart. [IMG]http://i296.photobucket.com/albums /mm182/rmshrmgr/astro_2gw_03_will_eugene_and_i_get_in_a_relationship_hr.5867.36135_zpsso66i6st.gif[/IMG] IP: Logged |
ikja Knowflake Posts: 858 From: London, UK Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 01, 2015 08:32 PM
Hi hun,You're still using the wrong charts. You need to go onto Astro and create a completely new natal chart specifically for the question that you want to know the answer to. 1. Think of a specific question and make this the title of your new natal chart for this question. 2. The DOB entered should be for example 02/03/2015 and the TOB 01:28am or whatever time/date it is where you are when you think of the right question. Instead of providing/selecting a gender for the chart, click on 'event'. 3. Make sure you use the Regiomontanus house system. 4. Save the chart and then come back here and tell what the question is that prompted you to create the chart. If in any doubt, go back to the link I initially posted and read it again x IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 41 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 01, 2015 08:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by ikja: Hi hun,You're still using the wrong charts. You need to go onto Astro and create a completely new natal chart specifically for the question that you want to know the answer to. 1. Think of a specific question and make this the title of your new natal chart for this question. 2. The DOB entered should be for example 02/03/2015 and the TOB 01:28am or whatever time/date it is where you are when you think of the right question. Instead of providing/selecting a gender for the chart, click on 'event'. 3. Make sure you use the Regiomontanus house system. 4. Save the chart and then come back here and tell what the question is that prompted you to create the chart. If in any doubt, go back to the link I initially posted and read it again x
Edited the above post with the chart IP: Logged |
ikja Knowflake Posts: 858 From: London, UK Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 01, 2015 08:50 PM
Well done!That's the right one. The only thing I would do is change the date of the question. You've said that the last contact you had was Wednesday, so you want to know about the current possibility. Not the past. So have a go at changing the time and date to where you are right now x IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 41 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 01, 2015 08:54 PM
There were a few texts Thursday morning from him so I put that time down as time. IP: Logged |
ikja Knowflake Posts: 858 From: London, UK Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 01, 2015 09:05 PM
The answer to your question that I am giving is: Yes, but i am not 100% sure because it is a separating aspect.You're represented by Jupiter and he is represented by the Moon (I think / as he is just your "lover" at present). These planets are trine, but they are separating. It is also worth adding that because you are retrograde, the situation could change. You could change your mind about something once Jupiter goes direct. Can anyone else shed some light on this? IP: Logged |
appleberry Knowflake Posts: 1736 From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 02, 2015 03:00 AM
By your words, and by looking at the chart, am I right in assuming that you've already had some kind of fling and you actually want to date him? Make it committed?If I'm reading correctly, many things are saying that you have and that it's been a kind of secret. If that's the case, I see that a part of each of you is interested in this, and there is a possibility (but with much effort) that it could happen, though as already stated, you may change your mind and/or regret it... IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 41 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 02, 2015 07:19 AM
Yes we were together before but it was never really a secret on my part. ....the secret right now is I'm pregnant and it's his. He knows but there is silence right now and yes I do want to be with him...the regret is the situation bc it's an Oops. We are both old enough to know better IP: Logged |
appleberry Knowflake Posts: 1736 From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 02, 2015 01:54 PM
Wow... I guess that's why we're seeing Uranus in the first house, Chiron/Neptune in the 12th... Not an easy situation and I wish I had a more positive response to give you... Everything is pointing to the applying opposition between Mercury (him) and JupiterRx (you), which are also the significators for the final outcome of the situation... so this isn't great - it's not going to be an easy ride for you, be prepared for that. Looking at 'your wishes' (11th house), I also don't see you getting what you want - but Pluto right on the cusp of the 11th also might mean that what you really want is in a state of change - which might lead to your Rx or change of mind. I hope things work out for you in the end. Once the baby is born, I'm sure you'll feel blessed. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 41 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 02, 2015 01:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by appleberry: Wow... I guess that's why we're seeing Uranus in the first house, Chiron/Neptune in the 12th... Not an easy situation and I wish I had a more positive response to give you... Everything is pointing to the applying opposition between Mercury (him) and JupiterRx (you), which are also the significators for the final outcome of the situation... so this isn't great - it's not going to be an easy ride for you, be prepared for that. Looking at 'your wishes' (11th house), I also don't see you getting what you want - but Pluto right on the cusp of the 11th also might mean that what you really want is in a state of change - which might lead to your Rx or change of mind. I hope things work out for you in the end. Once the baby is born, I'm sure you'll feel blessed.
So you are seeing him and I not getting together then? Yeah it's going to be a bumpy ride....I already expected that. Had just hoped him and I would reconnect and help each other thru it. IP: Logged |
dustib Knowflake Posts: 41 From: USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 02, 2015 02:10 PM
Also, should the birth town be the birth town or where I was at when I had the thought?IP: Logged |
appleberry Knowflake Posts: 1736 From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 02, 2015 10:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by dustib: Also, should the birth town be the birth town or where I was at when I had the thought?
ALWAYS where you asked the question. Never anything to do with your personal natal information. It's the "birth of the question". IP: Logged |
appleberry Knowflake Posts: 1736 From: Venusian, w/Cancer MC Registered: Jun 2011
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posted March 02, 2015 10:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by dustib: So you are seeing him and I not getting together then? Yeah it's going to be a bumpy ride....I already expected that. Had just hoped him and I would reconnect and help each other thru it.
Oppositions don't prevent you from getting together as much as no connection at all prevents... It's just very unlikely because it would require so much effort, and it's not recommended because it implies you will just break apart and regret everything in the end anyway. So, the chart is basically saying it doesn't recommend you making the effort. IP: Logged |