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posted April 14, 2015 01:41 AM            

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I was thinking of all the people I've cut ties with this year - people who at one point meant something to me, and I wondered if any of them thought of me as intensely ever. I'm not asking if they'll come back, I just want to know if the chart shows they miss me, hate me, whatever. I regret putting "exes" in the title because now that I think of it they are probably best suited as "friends." Alas, I'm still fumbling around with horary though. I don't know if we use the 7th house for "others" for questions like this, or do we use Saturn to represent the past?

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posted April 14, 2015 04:27 AM            

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Are they "ex-friends" or were they "friends with benefits"?

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posted April 14, 2015 10:22 AM            

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Ex-friends and friend with benefits.

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posted April 14, 2015 10:53 AM            

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Using the 11H:

They miss the fun times they had with you
(11H/their ruler in your 5H)
but although they feel like contacting you, and it seems you're considering contacting them too,
(you're their 3H, ruled Jupiter)
they probably won't contact you anymore.
(Jupiter in applying square to Mars, their ruler)

Did one of the friendships break up because of an argument about a girl?

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posted April 14, 2015 01:15 PM            

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I deleted one couple and their friend, and their friend was the friend with benefits. It wasn't an argument so much as he came back promising friendship and then didn't live up to it, so I deleted all of them. And no I don't think they'll contact me at all.

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posted April 14, 2015 01:41 PM            

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I think Moon op. Jupiter is interesting because I have wrestled with excising them, but ultimately just decided to stick with it.

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posted April 15, 2015 10:03 PM            

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you can tell if someone's missing you???
can someone explain to me how that works? what event do you create? this is all new to me!

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posted April 15, 2015 10:19 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
you can tell if someone's missing you???
can someone explain to me how that works? what event do you create? this is all new to me!

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You can ask in a Horary event chart what you want to know, like what OP asked.
If you don't know how it's supposed to be done, you can check this http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum36/HTML/000431.html

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posted April 15, 2015 10:27 PM            

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thanks midnightvenus that's amazing!

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posted April 18, 2015 09:13 PM            

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Thank you MV and AB, does anything in the chart point to me blocking or really preventing these people from contacting me again?

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