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Topic: She Love Me or Not ?
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Randall
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posted July 18, 2018 09:40 AM
  
No, it's just logical. You've tasted attraction now, so you are much more open to it happening again.IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted July 18, 2018 09:58 AM
Oh, I see.
I'm may be 36 but I'm really an idiot. 😅IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted August 13, 2018 03:46 AM
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
Recently heard(spying) that she might Quit her job.
I guess I was wrong(got wrong info).
She still working here. IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted September 06, 2018 06:33 AM
Please help me to clarify one thing.
I was attracted/obsessed with this woman cos my 8th house cusp conjunct(2° orb) her north node ? IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted October 12, 2018 10:28 PM
Nothing happened to her.
She just ignored me to the END.
End of Sad Story.------------------
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Randall
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posted October 13, 2018 05:20 PM
I'm sorry. IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted October 13, 2018 11:18 PM
It's Destiny and I'm a miserable person.  ------------------
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Randall
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posted January 18, 2019 05:06 PM
Things will get better.IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted January 25, 2019 06:36 PM
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
I guess I was wrong(got wrong info).
She still working here.
No I wasn't wrong.
She left this job.
It's confirmed after five months.
Last time I saw her before eclipse on Friday the 18th. IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted January 25, 2019 07:56 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Things will get better.
Thanks but I guess things will get better for her instead me. She join job at new place with better salary, familiar environment and it's near her home(2km distance). She started job at new place on 21th Jan 19 on the of eclipse. IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted January 25, 2019 08:13 PM
Already two eclipse happened. Three more to come. I have NN 13°, Mercury 18° and Sun 26° in Cancer. Also Saturn 16°,Mars 21°, Pluto 24° and Vertex 25° in Libra. Eclipse will not happen over any of my natal planet but will be close.IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted June 02, 2019 09:25 PM
Lot of activity(Transit) gonna happen in my 2nd/8th axis in this June to very beginning of July. But no 5th,7th house activity. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted June 05, 2019 07:41 AM
@Somna7H,
I remember you said you have Saturn in 5H? I'm trying to understand why love seems to be so scarce and hard for you.
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Randall
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posted June 05, 2019 10:05 AM
No transit-- it just gets easier the second time. Be a little more aloof.IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted June 05, 2019 12:00 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
No transit-- it just gets easier the second time. Be a little more aloof.
Better luck next time then.
Do I need to boost up my Ego to be more aloof.
What exactly have to do to be more aloof ? IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted June 05, 2019 12:03 PM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
@Somna7H,
I remember you said you have Saturn in 5H? I'm trying to understand why love seems to be so scarce and hard for you.
I never understand either.
How One Saturn can be so heavy ?
There are other planets who are also part of Chart. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted June 06, 2019 02:03 AM
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
I never understand either.
How One Saturn can be so heavy ?
There are other planets who are also part of Chart.
Do you mind if I look at your chart? I've a friend also with 5H Saturn. He harbours a secret crush on someone for 2+yrs but never really made a move. He said he did but IMO his approach was too cautious, and when he didn't receive a response from the gal, he gave up, but continues to like her from afar. He was in a relationship before but it was the gal who pursued him. Now you may wait for that to happen but what are the chances? I don't know about your culture but in my culture, it is usually men who do the pursuing. The r/s game is always a little bit of tug & pull... like flying a kite. Too aggressive and you might scare her away. Too subtle and she might not even get your hint. You need to play it cool yet make sure she knows you're interested. I wonder what you indirectly told her that made her start avoiding you? If you say the wrong thing she might feel offended or thinks you're creepy. Backfire. People with Moon square/opposite Saturn/Pluto may not be so easily taken by emotional display. From what I know, Moon-Saturn people are emotional mature and resonate with people who are like them.
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Somna7H
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posted June 06, 2019 04:50 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Do you mind if I look at your chart?
Why should I ?
I should be thankful to you. You are trying to help! I never had any relationship before.
Similar story from my side. Yes two years ago I was attracted to a girl. I approached cautiously. I tried to tell her but I think my wasn't right from her perspective. She thought I'm a creepy. Social and economic different were there too. I just couple of months ago gave up when she never responded to me after more than a year. Now I have to wait to get persuade by girls. But men do the things here too. No difference here.
Finally I would say one thing to motivate myself only. I was the right person at wrong time, wrong place with wrong girl. As you mentioned it's a game. So I'm a player here. I'm waiting for my next turn. Game not be over yet or at least I'm not retired. I should get another chance... IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted June 06, 2019 05:11 AM
^ I'm guessing... perhaps you've been attracted to the wrong type or people who are unattainable?I know people like this... they'll fall for people who are clearly out of their league but they seem happy to just love them from afar, and because they'll never get them they can continue this "fantasy".... just like idolising a movie star. Do you tend to be like this? I'm guessing because you have Neptune hard aspects. So where is your chart? Lol. IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted June 06, 2019 06:21 AM
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My Chart :
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Somna7H
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posted June 06, 2019 06:28 AM
Can you see the Chart clearly or is it small ?
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
^ I'm guessing... perhaps you've been attracted to the wrong type or people who are unattainable?I know people like this... they'll fall for people who are clearly out of their league but they seem happy to just love them from afar, and because they'll never get them they can continue this "fantasy".... just like idolising a movie star. Do you tend to be like this? I'm guessing because you have Neptune hard aspects. So where is your chart? Lol.
unattainable?
I'm not sure.
Cos she was first girl I tried.
Until similar cases happen several times we can't be sure.
But yes anyone will say she was out of my league from my current job situation. If I change my job and I get what I really deserve then I will not say she were beyond my league.
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Somna7H
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posted June 06, 2019 06:38 AM
Current Progressed Chat of 2019.  IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted June 06, 2019 12:14 PM
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
unattainable?
I'm not sure.
Cos she was first girl I tried.
Until similar cases happen several times we can't be sure.
But yes anyone will say she was out of my league from my current job situation. If I change my job and I get what I really deserve then I will not say she were beyond my league.
By unattainable I mean she could be unavailable or not interested. Or out of your league perhaps. Your Saturn in 5H has hard aspect to Sun. Like I said before, this placement can make someone very hesitant in love and from my observation, Sun-Saturn hard aspect people easily get depressed so this may have been the cause of your gloomy outlook in love. Your Neptune in 7H opposes Venus/Moon. This is very similar to my placement (I've 7H Neptune conjunct Moon, opp Venus). We tend to have an image of a "perfect" partner which makes it hard for us to fall in love. Either that or we fall in love with an ideal image of someone and we become too forgiving of their flaws, not seeing who they really are. Uranus in 7H seek freedom & friendship in a partnership. It can also bring sudden beginnings & endings, or one seek feelings of a wildly passionate encounter (esp. your Uranus also conjunct Dsc). A partner with strong Uranian qualities will suit you. However, you also have a Scorpio Dsc + Pluto aspects. You also seek an intensely passionate and loyal partner. Pluto is all-consuming while Uranus seeks space so your partnership may have both energies. All these combined may have caused you to have difficulties in finding the one, but I don't believe it cannot be overcome. First, perhaps start by overcoming your shyness and try to make friends with the one you adore. Friendship first.  IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted June 06, 2019 09:13 PM
Yes, when you need to fulfill so many points then very hard to find any suitable match. Also shyness etc negative points are there. But I will try to overcome my negativity and will take your advice to make friendship first. Thank you!IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted June 07, 2019 01:21 AM
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
Yes, when you need to fulfill so many points then very hard to find any suitable match. Also shyness etc negative points are there.
But realised that since those are your own limitations and it's within oneself, we can change. why should we allow our chart to doom us? E.g. I've learned to manage my "rose-tinted lens" syndrome. Also, shyness isn't a negative point IMO. I tend to find shy guys adorable. But if you're faced with another shy gal (or someone more hard to reach), then you have to shed that shyness to get her. That's what I'm saying... IP: Logged |
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