posted June 07, 2019 02:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
But realised that since those are your own limitations and it's within oneself, we can change. why should we allow our chart to doom us? E.g. I've learned to manage my "rose-tinted lens" syndrome.

Also, shyness isn't a negative point IMO. I tend to find shy guys adorable. But if you're faced with another shy gal (or someone more hard to reach), then you have to shed that shyness to get her. That's what I'm saying...

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Shyness only issue for first approach. If I get green signal from other party then it would not be much of an issue I guess. Looking for similar traits not good idea always. Some time we have to find what we lack to balance.
I already using lens so no need another rose-tinted lens on that.

posted June 07, 2019 08:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Somna7H:
Shyness only issue for first approach. If I get green signal from other party then it would not be much of an issue I guess. Looking for similar traits not good idea always. Some time we have to find what we lack to balance.
I already using lens so no need another rose-tinted lens on that.

I was trying to find quantities/traits for future partner according to Astrology. But different opinions at different places. Why ? My Chat always same.

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I realised that astrology that only do so much. U can't help who you're attracted to. We can only manage our own flaws if we're made aware of it through our own self-awareness or astrology.