posted September 16, 2020 09:25 AM            

He was from a foreign country and he spoke of other women often, so it's very likely that he had a woman back in his native country that he still attached to.

Speaking of Saturn, though, his religious traditions were the main reason it didn't work out with us (and possibly the same reason he was attached to this other woman back in his country). When he realized that I was looking for something serious with him (and after he'd had his fun with me) he let me know that marriage was not an option for us because of his tradition. His family wanted him to marry one of his cousins (yeah, I know... it's one of those things). So I'm inclined to think that the Saturn portion of the chart was more about his attachment to his family traditions than anything else.

So, ultimately he was just looking for fun with me because he thought all American women "just want to have fun," but backed out once he realized I wasn't like that and also that his family would never accept me.
He was, at the time, very much in conflict with his desire for freedom (which he associated with living in America) and his attachment to his family traditions.

I'm glad he was honest with me eventually, but he still wanted to pursue the "fun" relationship together, so I was the one to break it off, since at that point I knew it wasn't going anywhere.

Well, I hope that was educational in some respect. Thanks to everyone who gave a reading!

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Hmm, looking at his significator in your horary, Venus is in Libra in his turned 5th house - he seems preoccupied with love,r omance, fun and a loveinterest, could be you or another.
But Venus is in the exaltation of Saturn AND is going to conjunct Saturn! To me it seems as if he has an intense interest in whatever Saturn represents. (I read it can often be an ex).
Is there someone looming in the shadows?
Sun, the significator of the manīs "mojo" is also in Libra in his sign and again putting Saturn onto a pedestal

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Now what about you?
You are Mars in Leo, since Sun represents him, you are very much into him, strong attraction.
Usually you would also be given Venus as the woman, but this one is already taken by him.
But Moon is your cosignificator in 11th house, so you are very much occupied with your hopes and wishes, and in libra, ruled by Venus (him) it shows again your attraction toh im.

Moon is the main significator for the results of your question though. It is void of course, which means nothing is going to happen. At least not in the next months.

Saturn is in his 5th house and ruling his turned 9th house - so I get the feeling he has got an interest in someone else, maybe someone who is far away, travelling or even from college / university or similiar institutions.

BTW I do not see any aspect betweeny our significators.

I am sorry. I really do not see a positive answer in this horary.
But then again, I could be totally wrong.
maybe hera can jump in here.

EDIT:
I know some would consider the ruler of 5th house as his significator. I donīt. The OTHER in a direct relationship is always represented by the 7th house, the house the querent (1st house) can see best. This is who we encounter.
Also, the natural ruler of the 7th house is Venus, THE relationship planet.

But if I am wrong about it, and he IS the 5th house the chances might be better. In this case Mars and Venus and Moon would be assigned to you, and Jupiter and Sun to him.
Meaning that Jupiter is pretty much interested in Venus and puts the Moon onto a pedestal. 8which would be your significators).
In this case though I would be asking you, who is Saturn?

Venus will be conjunct Saturn before the aspect bewteen Mars and Jupiter will perfect, and this is also a conddition, in which the answer often is No, usually because one party loses interest.
It is like Saturn captures your interest, before something really can happen between Mars and Jupiter.
On the other hand I just see that Sun, him, is sextile Mars, you. Hmm, this is a very complex, interesting situation indeed.

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