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Neptunian Venus
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posted November 07, 2016 07:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Neptunian Venus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What in the natal chart or Navamsha would indicate that the native will never be in a relationship or marry?

I feel like that might be me.

I'm 22 now, never had a real relationship, never even kissed a guy. I've been in love a few times, but things have always ended in heartbreak, bitterness and resentment.

Now I've sworn off ever falling for another man again because of all the heart ache and trouble it's brought me. I've even started wearing a fake wedding ring to ward off male attention, although it doesn't really seem to be working.

So does anyone know any chart significators that would indicate a completely single life, or a life of purity?

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posted November 08, 2016 11:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't ever want to get married.

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kinslayer
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posted November 09, 2016 02:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kinslayer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can you post your birthchart or
Your birth details ( i.e birthdate
, time and place)

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posted November 09, 2016 03:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for NikiVenus6     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Neptunian Venus:
What in the natal chart or Navamsha would indicate that the native will never be in a relationship or marry?

I feel like that might be me.

I'm 22 now, never had a real relationship, never even kissed a guy. I've been in love a few times, but things have always ended in heartbreak, bitterness and resentment.

Now I've sworn off ever falling for another man again because of all the heart ache and trouble it's brought me. I've even started wearing a fake wedding ring to ward off male attention, although it doesn't really seem to be working.

So does anyone know any chart significators that would indicate a completely single life, or a life of purity?


Look out for a pisces rising in the Navamsa and/or Saturn in 7th house.

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Neptunian Venus
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posted November 11, 2016 08:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Neptunian Venus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by kinslayer:
Can you post your birthchart or
Your birth details ( i.e birthdate
, time and place)

Here's my main birth chart, Navamsha and Moon chart.
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Neptunian Venus
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posted November 11, 2016 08:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Neptunian Venus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by NikiVenus6:
Look out for a pisces rising in the Navamsa and/or Saturn in 7th house.



I don't have any of that in D1 or D9, however, in my D60 I have Saturn in 7th.

I read Saturn gains dikbala in the 7th though, since it's sitting in the house of its exaltation sign..

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posted November 14, 2016 02:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Neptunian Venus:
I don't have any of that in D1 or D9, however, in my D60 I have Saturn in 7th.

I read Saturn gains dikbala in the 7th though, since it's sitting in the house of its exaltation sign..


yeah and your saturn is in it's own house, so I wouldn't worry. Cancer ascendants usually don't find a real partner till their early 30s. There is a certain emotional maturation process required. I know you can find a partner if you would like one, just take things slowly. Figure out who you are so that you can understand what you really want. I have saturn and rahu in the 7th in Capricorn and have already been married.

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posted November 15, 2016 12:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by missblyss:
yeah and your saturn is in it's own house, so I wouldn't worry. Cancer ascendants usually don't find a real partner till their early 30s. There is a certain emotional maturation process required. I know you can find a partner if you would like one, just take things slowly. Figure out who you are so that you can understand what you really want. I have saturn and rahu in the 7th in Capricorn and have already been married.

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posted November 15, 2016 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
I don't ever want to get married.

lol, I've been married before and it's taken me a long time to reconsider it and still not sure.

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posted November 17, 2016 06:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Neptunian Venus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by missblyss:
yeah and your saturn is in it's own house, so I wouldn't worry. Cancer ascendants usually don't find a real partner till their early 30s. There is a certain emotional maturation process required. I know you can find a partner if you would like one, just take things slowly. Figure out who you are so that you can understand what you really want. I have saturn and rahu in the 7th in Capricorn and have already been married.

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posted November 18, 2016 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Once bitten, twice shy.

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posted November 19, 2016 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Neptunian Venus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
Once bitten, twice shy.

My life right now

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posted January 31, 2017 02:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for start6030     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
lol, I've been married before and it's taken me a long time to reconsider it and still not sure.

lolz... n here i am .. with venus in my 7th house - bitterly in opposition with Uranus in first (and they call it a marriage breaker) . No wonder I had a divorce after a mere 3 months on marriage . Ah ! but how I wanted to get married and fall in love all these last 6 years - n ended up in heartbreaks .
I loved my Dsc at Gemini though (lolz... it calls for two marriages they say) .... and a venus in seventh (i wish uranus didn't afflict it ) - so didnt leave hope.
But two heartbreaks later , and people behaving mysteriously , I am kind of finding it sooo hard to like someone. I would have said a hello to nearly 20 who proposed....or so many many many proposals my mum and friends tried to find me - But just a simple hi or a brief conversation and something in me says - It doesnt click . I was never dat moody/ picky/ closed .

And lately , I have started saying , I donot want to marry . I wonder though if I am actually gonna marry ever? coz i so badly wanted kids and a family with their father being present in their lives...and somewhere deep down , i crave a partner - but someone CONSISTENT ... and HONEST. A lil back n forth - and i lose interest and say goodbye - except for someone who i know is reallllly not right for me .
lolz..when and where that second marriage of mine is ! (Giggles)

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posted January 31, 2017 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AutumnNight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus aspecting Uranus....doesn't deny marriage/committed relationship. It causes you to have non-traditional relationships.

This non-traditional relationship is based on your country and social background. For someone a non-traditional marriage is not legally getting marriage, but being committed.

It can also indicate homosexual marriage which is still taboo enough. But, if you aren't homosexual/bisexual this won't be your non-traditional.

It could be a polyamorous relationship or just an open relationship (committed but have sex with other people outside of a relationship)

It could be that you will get divorced and then remarried to the person you divorced at some later time.

It could be that your future husband will have 4 children from a previous relationship and you will have children from a previous then you two will come together and have like a brady bunch family.

Marrying someone outside of your religion or ethnicity (but other stuff in the chart would indicate if that is true)

It can be anything... but it would be non traditional for your cultural and country.

Having saturn in your 7th house or aspecting it doesn't exactly mean you won't have a committed relationship. It can just mean after your saturn return or an older person. It can even mean something very traditional because Saturn rules traditions. There has to be other things in the chart showing the client chooses the wrong partners or is unable to maintain a relationship.

For the original poster: You are 22. I don't think 22 and never having a serious relationship is bad. There are people that don't enter into a serious relationship until older. There are people that don't have some form of intimacy with someone until older.

This is just a novice's two cent.

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posted January 31, 2017 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AutumnNight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus aspecting Uranus....doesn't deny marriage/committed relationship. It causes you to have non-traditional relationships.

This non-traditional relationship is based on your country and social background. For someone a non-traditional marriage is not legally getting marriage, but being committed.

It can also indicate homosexual marriage which is still taboo enough. But, if you aren't homosexual/bisexual this won't be your non-traditional.

It could be a polyamorous relationship or just an open relationship (committed but have sex with other people outside of a relationship)

It could be that you will get divorced and then remarried to the person you divorced at some later time.

It could be that your future husband will have 4 children from a previous relationship and you will have children from a previous then you two will come together and have like a brady bunch family.

Marrying someone outside of your religion or ethnicity (but other stuff in the chart would indicate if that is true)

It can be anything... but it would be non traditional for your cultural and country.

Having saturn in your 7th house or aspecting it doesn't exactly mean you won't have a committed relationship. It can just mean after your saturn return or an older person. It can even mean something very traditional because Saturn rules traditions. There has to be other things in the chart showing the client chooses the wrong partners or is unable to maintain a relationship.

For the original poster: You are 22. I don't think 22 and never having a serious relationship is bad. There are people that don't enter into a serious relationship until older. There are people that don't have some form of intimacy with someone until older.

This is just a novice's two cent.

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ihaveaquestion
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posted February 01, 2017 05:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ihaveaquestion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

God, your story is exactly my story. Got divorced in 2014 and since then been through 2-3 heartbreaks. One big one actually. I finally thought I met someone I connected with in a deep sense but apparently not. I don't know anything about astrology to tell if your and my stars are the same. Although my chart can be seen here - http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum38/HTML/000148.html

I can relate to your struggle... wish you lots of love and happiness!

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Originally posted by start6030:
lolz... n here i am .. with venus in my 7th house - bitterly in opposition with Uranus in first (and they call it a marriage breaker) . No wonder I had a divorce after a mere 3 months on marriage . Ah ! but how I wanted to get married and fall in love all these last 6 years - n ended up in heartbreaks .
I loved my Dsc at Gemini though (lolz... it calls for two marriages they say) .... and a venus in seventh (i wish uranus didn't afflict it ) - so didnt leave hope.
But two heartbreaks later , and people behaving mysteriously , I am kind of finding it sooo hard to like someone. I would have said a hello to nearly 20 who proposed....or so many many many proposals my mum and friends tried to find me - But just a simple hi or a brief conversation and something in me says - It doesnt click . I was never dat moody/ picky/ closed .

And lately , I have started saying , I donot want to marry . I wonder though if I am actually gonna marry ever? coz i so badly wanted kids and a family with their father being present in their lives...and somewhere deep down , i crave a partner - but someone CONSISTENT ... and HONEST. A lil back n forth - and i lose interest and say goodbye - except for someone who i know is reallllly not right for me .
lolz..when and where that second marriage of mine is ! (Giggles)



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posted February 01, 2017 10:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
I don't ever want to get married.

Sometimes I wish I was like that too

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posted February 03, 2017 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for start6030     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ihaveaquestion:

God, your story is exactly my story. Got divorced in 2014 and since then been through 2-3 heartbreaks. One big one actually. I finally thought I met someone I connected with in a deep sense but apparently not. I don't know anything about astrology to tell if your and my stars are the same. Although my chart can be seen here - http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum38/HTML/000148.html

I can relate to your struggle... wish you lots of love and happiness!

[QUOTE]Originally posted by start6030:
[b] lolz... n here i am .. with venus in my 7th house - bitterly in opposition with Uranus in first (and they call it a marriage breaker) . No wonder I had a divorce after a mere 3 months on marriage . Ah ! but how I wanted to get married and fall in love all these last 6 years - n ended up in heartbreaks .
I loved my Dsc at Gemini though (lolz... it calls for two marriages they say) .... and a venus in seventh (i wish uranus didn't afflict it ) - so didnt leave hope.
But two heartbreaks later , and people behaving mysteriously , I am kind of finding it sooo hard to like someone. I would have said a hello to nearly 20 who proposed....or so many many many proposals my mum and friends tried to find me - But just a simple hi or a brief conversation and something in me says - It doesnt click . I was never dat moody/ picky/ closed .

And lately , I have started saying , I donot want to marry . I wonder though if I am actually gonna marry ever? coz i so badly wanted kids and a family with their father being present in their lives...and somewhere deep down , i crave a partner - but someone CONSISTENT ... and HONEST. A lil back n forth - and i lose interest and say goodbye - except for someone who i know is reallllly not right for me .
lolz..when and where that second marriage of mine is ! (Giggles)


[/B][/QUOTE]

Awww...thx ! Wish u the same !!

Forgot the vedic chart placement but m a leo born with asc sagi nd 0 degrees sun ... in western astro.

Yeah...heartbreaks hurt....esp when we r tryng hard to gain trust in rships in situations like after divorce...

I dnt knw why, bt ended up writing a 'gth' nd stay away msg to one of those today...lolz..after being cool for more than a year.

I wish we all gain our trust back ! :**

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posted February 03, 2017 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for start6030     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ people outside of a relationship)
It could be that you will get divorced and then remarried to the person you divorced at some later time


All other things i could easily rule out...so only this one was left. And omg !!! Marrying him again ??!! ( haha... no wonder i alws hav a feelng he s gonna apologise to me sm day fr wt all crap he did ).... bt wont even want the universe to unite us ever again. I wish venus opp uranus is - Divorce FOREVER only 😄

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posted March 14, 2017 05:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted March 24, 2017 01:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 06, 2017 10:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 10, 2017 12:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by start6030:
@ people outside of a relationship)
It could be that you will get divorced and then remarried to the person you divorced at some later time


All other things i could easily rule out...so only this one was left. And omg !!! Marrying him again ??!! ( haha... no wonder i alws hav a feelng he s gonna apologise to me sm day fr wt all crap he did ).... bt wont even want the universe to unite us ever again. I wish venus opp uranus is - Divorce FOREVER only 😄


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