posted October 16, 2018 08:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
The afflicted Venus will show itself in your life nevertheless.

You don't have to relate to any of the generic descriptions.

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you seem to think i'm arguing the placement or saying i have to relate to the generic descriptions, i said neither

that doesn't mean i wouldn't like to see what offsets it or see someone who's actually able to read it properly

i have my own guesses

edit: to elaborate i would argue it shows itself as drug issues in my case

rather than relationship, because i dont expect perfection

there's always things that are imperfect but i dont really care

always curious to see if others see what i do

posted October 16, 2018 12:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I would attribute your drug abuse issues with your afflicted moon and sun.

On a side note I dont think you are arguing nor was I responding to an argument. If I read your post correctly you said you dont relate to what everybody says about Venus in Virgo I said you dont HAVE to relate but since it is debilitated and its ruling your lagna and 2nd and 9th I believe -it will affect these houses.

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it's also there with the sun and moon yeah, but venus/ketu conjunction is also an indicator on its own, debilitated... just an additional factor

my chart is loaded in indicators for that

i would say my love life has been volatile, but i wouldnt say that had anything to do with perfectionism

the worst of it is impulsive stupidity

i suppose i prefer dating two people at the same because one person cant exactly be everything and it's nicer anyway (as long as it's mutual between everyone) if that counts

posted October 16, 2018 02:11 PM            

Venus in conjunction with ketu in lagna is not an indication of drug abuse.

posted October 16, 2018 03:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I dont agree.

Venus in conjunction with ketu in lagna is not an indication of drug abuse.

The main karak for drug abuse is rahu.

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it's a combination i've seen mentioned in books for it

but i agree about the other indicators

how would you interpret my venus then?

posted October 17, 2018 01:16 AM            

Since the conjunction is in the ascendant, it will also influence the appearance of the person that could be not within the norms OR that stand out in a crowd.

Relationships may be the kind that are tagged as not within the norms as will the person's sexuality. Relationships may be unsteady, disconnected, unemotional or an emotional roller coaster or it could be a steady relationship as long as there is some kind of weirdness involved. Whatever it is the relationship is not within what society feels is normal.

sex could be perverse but not to the person involved, or the person could turn totally asexual and totally fine with it.

posted October 17, 2018 08:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I just had a quick look at your chart, there are other factors to see, venus is the faster moving planet I don't know whether venus is getting away from ketu or is approaching the latter in your chart, I believe the conjunction happens only once a year if I am not mistaken, since you don't connect with generic descriptions I won't waste my time giving them to you, I will only give what Ketu represents being the ascendant and in contact with the planet that rules love and relationships like I said before 2nd and 9th house matters will be affected.

Since the conjunction is in the ascendant, it will also influence the appearance of the person that could be not within the norms OR that stand out in a crowd.

Relationships may be the kind that are tagged as not within the norms as will the person's sexuality. Relationships may be unsteady, disconnected, unemotional or an emotional roller coaster or it could be a steady relationship as long as there is some kind of weirdness involved. Whatever it is the relationship is not within what society feels is normal.

sex could be perverse but not to the person involved, or the person could turn totally asexual and totally fine with it.

Ketu also rules Bisexuality or homosexuality.

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my venus isnt retrograde so i imagine it's approaching ketu rather than moving away

appearance wise i stand out yeah (i had a guy hit on me in a hospital while taking my blood tell me i was "exotic" , people generally think i'm really attractive (i've heard every male and female synonym for "hot" and at worst im just not someone's type) but i'm also fairly androgynous and do stand out

i'm bi yeah, and my longterm relationship isnt traditional

we're both bi and like having a third person

emotional rollercoasters definitely

i end up having very intense friendships (wheneverive gotten really close to people they end up telling me theyre in love with me and things end up getting intense from there and either need to end immediately or continue with a lot of emotional outbursts... usually from them towards me)

but also disconnected sexual relationships, there's people that have been just sex for me and i have a friend with benefits i have no feelings one way or another towards

those are usually just people who i drink with though

i can be disconnected in general really, i'm typically distracted by well... everything

i could never be asexual, i get depressed if i don't have sex frequently

have had plenty of varied sexual experiences and i dont have many boundaries i wouldnt cross there

if something might feel good or be enjoyable for the other person i'm down

there's a few things i would only do within an intimate relationship that are reserved for my fiancee, and i suppose those are things that would be very weird for a lot of people

people get odd about blood though i think, i never think anything of most things though

posted October 18, 2018 06:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Ketu is always in retrograde motion.

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posted October 18, 2018 07:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
that would just mean my venus was moving towards it faster

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posted October 19, 2018 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
that would just mean my venus was moving towards it faster

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posted October 19, 2018 11:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
I like the way you think.

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