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Topic: Your experience dating the different descendant signs
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Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4429 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 01, 2018 01:45 AM
Venus cancer mars leo sounds like a better placement than venus virgo mars libraLeo is grand and cancer is loving. Leo is a fixed sign so it’s nore inclined to follow through 😁 Realistially, I do have incredibly high standards. But what I value should really be in question. I’m trying to figure out what’s worth valuing these days because it seems like what should matter doesn’t and the other way around. I think truly it’s because I believed I was a libra for so long. I was so superficial, it was almost as if there was some depth there. Oh right! There was. It’s pathetic, really. I dislike the whole scenario! Lol IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5429 From: saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 01, 2018 06:36 AM
LOLIn western I have Mars in Virgo and the stellium of planets move into Leo. I don't relate to Mars in Virgo at all though. yes indeed mars in leo is a very good placement, I owe mars my self confidence,boldness, fearless nature, perseverance when faced with challenges,the strength of choosing to stand alone so that I can respect what I believe, I do have very strong opinions and quick witted. Nobody can change my mind once it's made up. My voice will be heard no matter how many people are in a room. I've noticed that I feel disdain for people who are weak,( I can't help it) who prefer to hide behind others instead of fighting for what want. they want other people to do their battles just so they can reap the profits. I hate tyranny but will become a tyrant if I detect weakness. I honestly don't know which placement causes that except that it could be my leonine mars. I feel huge respect for guys who have a sense of ethic, who are strong in their minds, and character and who can show compassion and kindness to animals. If not they do not count for me, I mean I don't even see them..Now I feel I'm a little wiser though.. I try to manage the ambivalent feelings.. especially if the person is a friend. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4429 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 01, 2018 05:08 PM
As a Mars in Libra energetically I am wishy washy. I can passionately want something one day and not the next. I don’t have the follow through. I change my mind about things I want to pursue. I will be very interested in something one day and not the next. Because I can imagine all of the possible realities that one can’t triumph another for too long. I believe in comfortable living and I have this horrible mentality that if something is worth my attention it should come naturally of easy to me. If I have to work for it it isn’t meant for me and a lot of things in life you are supposed to work for... so it’s. Bad mentality. But at the same time it’s been working for me kind of well so I guess it’s not all bad. 🤷🏻♀️ Maybe I’m astro influencedLike I know I am influenced by the wrong astrology because I thought I was an idea person but I’m not cuz compared to a libra moon I’m not ... IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4429 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 01, 2018 05:14 PM
I’d consider my mars a coward. My scorpio moon is very controlled and when it comes to aggression if someone lashed out at me I can pretend as if they did nothing wrong and become very tight lipped and just act very casually And if my mars were in another sign and was more reactive maybe I would want to argue back but my libra mars keeps the peace and my scorpio moon conceals any mishaps
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Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4429 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 01, 2018 05:35 PM
I’m not that wishy washy. If I love something I have the capability to love it for life. My feelings are solid. But what I mean is I won’t put out the effort for anything I don’t see worth my time. My time is valueable and I am picky with how I spend it. And who I spend it with and why.IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4429 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 01, 2018 09:40 PM
The guy I set my frIend up with from the Internet raped her. 😡IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5429 From: saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 02, 2018 09:38 AM
That's horrible!!Did she report it to the police?? IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4429 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 02, 2018 10:16 AM
No we both are forgiving souls and we both understand that humans can be selfish and/or evil in their pursuit of desires... But it’s still wrong he violated her. She said they were both drunk but he was more conscious than her because she passed out and he was doing things to her while she was out. I called the police on him but ultimately it’s her if she wants to press charges... I wanted to be a voice to the voiceless. A hero for the downtrodden. But at the end of the day It’s life.. It’s either a blessing or a lesson and I’m trying to explain to her that she should take some responsibility for the actions she took that caused her to end up in that situation and to learn from her mistakes. But she wants to blame me. I understand why she would want to blame me but it doesn’t make sense to because I can’t predict how he will treat her. I just thought they sounded like they’d be a good match. I couldn’t tell he was sinister. he has moon conjunct Pluto. I should’ve known... 😩 Got my best friend drunk then raped her. Sick sick sick.
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Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4429 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 02, 2018 10:25 AM
That’s enough of that. I’m chief topic changer.
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Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4429 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 02, 2018 10:26 AM
Anyway thank you for your posts in this thread Jessica! IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4429 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 02, 2018 10:29 AM
Sometimes our views are detrimental to the core of the situation. If we had a fighting no nonsense spirit we would seek justice. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5429 From: saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 02, 2018 12:57 PM
I'm sorry that she had to go through something as abominable as rape.Nothing ever can justify the taking of someone's body sexually without consent. Nothing.Nevertheless we are solely responsible of our well being and safety, nobody else can ever be more responsible of either our own actions or decisions. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5429 From: saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 02, 2018 01:04 PM
I never used to check out the charts of potential suitors. I basically counted on my intuition.Hubby has his descendant sign almost on my ascendant and mine (descendant) on his ascendant. In Vedic however the nakshatra lords are more important when gauging compatibility he's is in venus sign and mine in mercury. All of which I knew after accepting his marriage proposal  IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4429 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 02, 2018 06:34 PM
I know another couple with the asc-desc compatibility!!! It’s great  Happy for you!!!It was a really big shock because astrologically they are said to be really compatible! I guess I didn’t realize something. Although they shared similar signs in most areas , her main planets did fall in the 8th house. So thT must mean that’s where his planets went and maybe that’s why it was so .. idk. Every Aquarius nakshatra I meet is like a genius. Lol If I could decide on my next life’s chart it would be a nakshatra Aquarius mars scorpio/aries and I really want the aspect mars conjunct Jupiter or mercury conjunct Jupiter because I have that transiting now and I absolutely love it.. 😍
This thread is quite random. Lol
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Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4429 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 02, 2018 06:40 PM
I LOVE vedic friends and you seem very nice!  The one problem I struggle with is labeling certain peoples personality traits when they have them. I know the trait but detecting that trait in action is something I’d love to master. Got any ideas on how one could go about learning that?
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Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4429 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 02, 2018 06:44 PM
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Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5429 From: saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 04, 2018 02:50 AM
You mean the usual description of zodiac signs? how to relate it to the person.I don't think every aspect to a person's personality can be related to a single aspect or an isolated planetary location, I think the whole chart plus the way the person has been brought up, the kind of experiences they had to face in life, our personality keeps changing every day,every month and every year. If we used to be impulsive in our younger days, we'd become more wise, we try to adapt and adopt traits that are not essentially ours initially that's why in vedic we talk about maturation of planets. They do become mature as we grow older and they will show through the ways we choose to handle conflicts. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4429 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 04, 2018 03:10 PM
Interesting!IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 102368 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 07, 2018 11:39 AM
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Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 15, 2018 09:50 AM
im in a ltr with someone who has a cancer descendant (where my mercury is) and a pisces moon and north node (where my moon, north node, and descendant are) we cant seem to stay away from each other even when things havent been good, there's a very deep attachment there i've been with other people, but that was mostly just sex except this thing that didnt last with a sagittarius sun who had what i'd guess was an air ascendant IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 15, 2018 11:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: Venus doesn't like being in Virgo, she is picky, and very critical at times of potential suitors not because she wants to criticize it's mostly because she is nervous, cautious. She has standards and or she sets standards. it's much easier for them to be friends than start a romantic relationship with someone they just met. Once someone is romantically interested they have this internal and mental scanner through which they scan the person and keep a file somewhere Mr X.jpg Associated with her friend nevertheless Mercury, it's more than normal to dwell on all the desired traits (and preferably flaws -free but will allow very tiny flaws but AFTER they've become a trusted suitor) from the guy who's going to become her second half. Venus in virgo THINKS about the 'perfect' guy more than going out there and finding herself a guy she is comfortable enough to enjoy his company 24/7. And I've noticed Virgo moon/venus females are quick to reject a potential suitor based on very silly reasons( for me they are but for them it's really a big deal). Like for instance they can reject a guy because he was late on the first date or because he wore sneakers under tailored pants or because his hair was 'all over the place' or because he didn't open the door to the restaurant for them.
https://imgur.com/a/PqTx7ew i have a virgo venus, granted i'm not female, but either way i have one and honestly i can't relate i really don't care if someone is perfect or not, there's no such thing, and i'm not particularly critical i actually dont even really have preferences when it comes to most things (gender, age, ethnicity, look, interests etc) i just care about whether or not i like the way they feel my older brother who also has this placement does however reject women for weird stupid reasons all the time though so that's not just a female venus in virgo thing necessarily he's broken things off for reasons like: "she sent me nudes before 7:30 when my daughter is in bed" (actual thing that happened) or "she put her feet up on my dashboard so i kicked her out of my car and broke up" and is overly critical of appearance and has this ideal in his head the things people say virgo venus cares about are always unrelateable to me
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Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5429 From: saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 16, 2018 02:51 AM
It was a generic description of venus in virgo regardless of whether it's male of female. Venus is debilitated in the sign of Virgo, therefore is uncomfortable, it can make the person uncomfortable in either their own skin/personality ( especially if located in the ascendant) or when they are trying to forge a romantic relationship with another person. The affliction can be enhanced (or can be mitigated) depending on the placements of the lord of the nakshatra and the lord of the house respectively or whether the house opposite venus is strong. IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 10400 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted October 16, 2018 04:52 AM
Hi everyone... DS-- What happened to your friend was horrible. And, you should NOT take the blame for that?, although, I do understand dynamics that are in-play there. Rape can really psychologically twist a person. I don't know if men can really understand that? It seems so innocuous, right? I mean, it's "just" your body.. and maybe you would have gone ahead and consented anyways??.. in whatever moment you would get caught-up in???.. but 'the way' he did that, was SO WRONG!. Been thinking about you. Glad to see you posting.Jessica, thank you for your fine advices. What I wanted to share---------- I came across a video the other day. It's really a fine video, and, it's a 'taster' for a class he will give soon (Oct 20-21, online course, via Zoom). (If you have 179 dollars???, I bet it would be a good class. This guy is a great teacher!) I could relate to what he was saying about his scorpio rising sister... I have scorp rising and Vedic 8th house placements too (in Gemini). (topic) Your true nature, childhood, astrology and psychological patterning (Sam Geppi) [24:10] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jRAFtZ9_7KY Another person who gives insightful messages is Michael Reed. - http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgQie10vFH5Sp-qcIDww1DQ Blessings .. {{ }} IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted October 16, 2018 07:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: It was a generic description of venus in virgo regardless of whether it's male of female. Venus is debilitated in the sign of Virgo, therefore is uncomfortable, it can make the person uncomfortable in either their own skin/personality ( especially if located in the ascendant) or when they are trying to forge a romantic relationship with another person. The affliction can be enhanced (or can be mitigated) depending on the placements of the lord of the nakshatra and the lord of the house respectively or whether the house opposite venus is strong.
since you said female specific i wasnt sure if you were implying that, like i said it fits my brother well i'm aware venus in virgo is debilitated regardless, i'm just saying i can't relate to it personally i'm pretty comfortable with myself and in relationships i'd date me, and i actually don't know what being single as an adult really is (i havent been since hs) there isnt a description of that venus that fits the most i can say is it being in hasta has helped people with predictions like me gardening, playing guitar, and messing around with healing energy work otherwise no, unless you dont use it to guage relationships and look at it as drug use i do have a pronounced 7th though https://m.imgur.com/a/0ffLVYY
im aware you need to look at entire charts btw to get a full picture of every placement, i still cant relate to those descriptions of venus though IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5429 From: saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 16, 2018 07:45 AM
The afflicted Venus will show itself in your life nevertheless.You don't have to relate to any of the generic descriptions. IP: Logged |