posted October 19, 2002 07:46 PM              

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It's because the act is more than just a physical union. It involves physical, mental, emotional, spriritual, everything. If you ever just have "sex" with someone, no matter how good it does or doesn't feel, there is always something missing because you are only looking at one aspect. In my opinion that is what makes it "wrong".
That is the unenlightened way of the world.
Some religions try to encompass these things, but the milleniums have warped the truth.
Physical union is not wrong. It is a beautiful expression of all that is love. (Although I'm still waiting to have that ultimate experience) It is the abuse of this that is so horrendously obscene and causes so much pain and misery.
You are joining yourself with someone more than just physically. You are a part of each other. That's why "the two shall become one". That applies even if it's just one night. That is a misuse of a precious thing.

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posted October 19, 2002 09:06 PM              

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I think sex outside of marriage is wrong. thats what I think.

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posted October 23, 2002 08:56 AM              

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It's great to have morals, but sometimes there isn't a conscious choice. People who have been raped for instance. I'm sure they have some heavy karma to deal with, but it is still a horrible experience. What you believe has nothing to do with it.
Especially if you're not enlightened.
It took me many, many years of mistakes and S-elf-abuse before I became enlightened. It wasn't in this life, but in another that I must have caused one or more people horrendous pain.
At least now I can take responsibility for it and forgive.
I don't like the word marriage anyway.

MARRIGE
I MARR An IMAGE
RAGE
A MIRAGE
A GAME
I AGE

There should be another name for it!

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posted October 23, 2002 11:44 AM            

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Sagaquari, Indeed that is what God says in His book.

When you mate physically, mentally and spiritually you would be deeply fulfilled, and you wouldn't be hungry for pleasure. That is one reason why Masters never get (physically) hungry.

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posted October 23, 2002 01:25 PM              

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Well, I have a long way to go!
I'm just getting started in this lifetime.
I feel like I'm starving in every area. I can't seem to absorb my lessons fast enough to satisfy my hunger in any area.

I'm still waiting for him, wherever, and whoever he is. I thought I found him, but I was wrong.

I know that if I just give the desire up, it will happen. I just don't seem to be there, yet. I still have the very deep longing to be with him.

All I can do now is learn as much as I can, so I can move on to the next lesson.

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posted October 23, 2002 07:29 PM              

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Welcome to LindaLand, Sagaquari. Take your time in your lessons ... sounds like you're off to a nice start!!!!

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posted October 24, 2002 02:42 AM            

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What Grasshopper said!

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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posted July 26, 2012 10:05 AM            

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Reluctance to have sexual intercourse may not be attributable to shame. There may be other reasons why a person declines to take part in intercourse.

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And I will give you the treasures of darkness, and hidden riches of secret places
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