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dafremen
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posted September 19, 2006 07:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for dafremen     Edit/Delete Message
Who would harm our children? Who would force us to harm them ourselves? Who indeed. Take a moment to learn a bit more about what we allow children to be subjected to in the name of "progress" and "control."

From kid to coppertop in 13 easy years.

P.S. John Taylor Gatto (the author) is a New York State Teacher of the Year and 3 time New York City Teacher of the Year.

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Harpyr
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posted September 19, 2006 02:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Harpyr     Edit/Delete Message
yup yup.. that's why we're homeschooling!

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sue g
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posted September 19, 2006 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
Aaah bless you Daf for being so humble and "aware"

Most parents have their crosses to bear. In the land I live in, thousands of children were abused by christian brothers and nuns. They had the fear of God put into them, and some went on to have huge problems as adults. It makes my blood boil.

Of course things are changing now.

Our little boy goes to an Irish school, the parents are very involved and participate at times in the childrens educations...including art and music.

We keep a very close eye on how they are treated and most of the children there seem to be happy and relaxed. The greats thing is they accept all nationalities and denominations and are very open to parents' suggestions.

I hated school whilst I was there, but I wouldnt say it had a long term ill effect on me.....

Dont beat yourself up too much....its such a hard job parenting isnt it?

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geminstone
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posted September 19, 2006 10:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for geminstone     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Dafremen!
I just purchased Gatto's book, 'Dumbing us Down'.
I always, even as a child, felt that something was a tad 'off'... 'Free' always came with strings..still seems to.

~ geminstone

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mysticaldream
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posted September 20, 2006 11:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mysticaldream     Edit/Delete Message
I think there is a lot of truth to that excerpt. Elementary Ed was my major but I'm not teaching because I find it hard to go along with all of this. Education in this country could really use an overhaul........and you're right, we need to rethink the way schools are structured and what we want the real outcomes to be.

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dafremen
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posted September 25, 2006 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dafremen     Edit/Delete Message
I hadn't noticed this before, but the entire book "The Underground History of Education In America" is online at that site. It's right here:

John Taylor Gatto's "The Underground History of Education In America"

Take some time to read this. You won't be disappointed. It is one of the most eye-opening, educational pieces on the purpose of the American education system that I have read.

Love,

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posted October 01, 2006 12:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DayDreamer     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for the link to Gatto's book!

I had this book, but never got to read it because someone borrowed it and never returned it.

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Johnny
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posted October 03, 2006 12:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Johnny     Edit/Delete Message
Great article, Dafremen.

quote:
...incomplete people make the best corporate and government employees.

This begins rather earlier than gradeschool, though. Our entire culture seems geared to break the spirits of the young...

Sorry, I'm getting depressing. Shutting-up now.

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sue g
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posted October 03, 2006 03:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
"""""Our entire culture seems geared to break the spirits of the young"""""

Oh Johnny, that is SO sad....

And keep speaking out for the sake of our young!

The school where our son goes isnt bad, but there is still room for improvement. Some of the parents have been trying to explain to the teachers that more PRAISE is needed for the children to grow. They have some strange notion that punishment works...yeah right. I have spoken to a few of the kids and they seem to thrive when they are praised and "shrink" when they are shouted at!!!

"Mol na hoige agus tiocfaidh siad"

(Praise the children and they will progress)

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posted October 06, 2006 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Johnny     Edit/Delete Message
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(Praise the children and they will progress)

You know, I was reading about a study that some group did on this - they randomly selected a group of grade-school kids and then told their teachers that they had identified these kids as "gifted."

Then, with the teachers expecting that these kids would stand out from the rest of the class and progress faster, guess what happened - they did just that. The teacher
s higher expectations led them to perform better.

Interesting, huh? Unfortunatly, it seems like teachers are much more likely to expect kids to have problems and be slow learners, and it's a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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dafremen
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posted October 11, 2006 10:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for dafremen     Edit/Delete Message
see also: Tan Brick

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dafremen
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posted July 25, 2007 02:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for dafremen     Edit/Delete Message
Some thoughts:

Wasn't it inevitable, when we first began exchanging our freedoms for protection from manufactured terrors which we bought the notion of cowering from, that we would reach this point in history where society itself has deemed us incapable of passing on the "ways of the world" to our own children; instead setting up institutions of "higher learning" in order to instruct them in proper perspective and assure that they take in only...correct knowledge?

(With as downright stupid and out-of-hand as we've allowed the situation of forced schooling to become, it may well prove that the system has an airtight case against us.)

In the final analysis, if experts and overlords are needed to make decisions for us because we are incapable of thinking on our own, then how qualified are we to teach our children ANYTHING?

And if we can't stop our own society from locking its children away for 6 hours a day to be brainwashed and bullied by strangers at our expense, then exactly how competent ARE we to protect them at all?

daf

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nattie33
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posted July 25, 2007 08:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nattie33     Edit/Delete Message
we homeschool also

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posted August 02, 2007 12:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TINK     Edit/Delete Message
missed this one the first time around ...

with the nearest Waldorf school an hour away, I see no other alternative but to homeschool. *sigh* but I'm not ashamed to say I'm feeling more than a little intimidated by the idea.

poor kid probably won't be long before he's begging for public school

good stuff as always, daf

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