posted July 09, 2005 01:02 PM         

God bless both of you. And Happy B/day to your little one!!!

posted July 15, 2005 10:00 AM         

Hi how are you?

Oh if only more parents could take your stance........it is so refreshing to read your words. The number of times I have cringed when I see parents with their kids, either telling them to shut up or threatening to punish them etc and all the time the child is trying to communicate. Yes you are so right about the Indigo thing, these little ones take so much understanding and yet if nurtured can become wonderfully free and expressive adults (saves on therapy fees later in life hey)?

I have worked with grown men whose shoulders are drooped, whose spirits have been broken by over domineering mothers and fathers, who didnt allow them to be who they are. They were hit, put down, told to be good, good, good or else........I have looked into these peoples' eyes and witnessed such sorrow, things could have been so different for them.

The other day I was out and saw this little boy with his mum and he wasnt allowed to move hardly and she was saying to him "oh you are such a good boy" (I can remember by mother saying what a good little girl I was ha ha if she could see me now). The child was totally repressed and I felt so sorry for him. The mother obviously did this for herself and not the child. Some parent cant face the emotion/noise etc. I encourage our son to scream and shout when he is angry, of course not in public, but with me he is allowed to rage, well I do, so why should I forbid him!!! I told him, when I get angry I run up into the mountains and scream, he laughed and I said "come on you can do that, run around the garden and scream". He said "Oh mum its so important to let it out isnt it" and I said "what happens if you dont " and he said "you get sick dont ya" .............aaahh out of the mouth of babes. OMG it can be so difficult to allow them to be themselves, but I know I wasnt allowed, god bless my ma and da, they were too much in pain themselves to allow mine to come thro, but with the love of god and therapy and the love of a good man, I am getting there................but if only, if only, I was allowed to have been free, I would have saved my self a BLOODY FORTUNE!!!!!! LOL.

Love to all who dare to be themselves

posted July 16, 2005 08:16 AM         

Many blessings

posted July 16, 2005 08:33 AM         

I love your take on things, when you talk of "they know not what they are doing", this is something I have become so aware of since becoming a Mum. I am sorry if I came across as judgemental, will have to watch myself, it comes from a very passionate spirit!!!! Its just that I have been able to look at my own background and tried not to go down that road, who knows maybe I am making more mistakes than others LOL!!! I found intense therapy and healing so helpful - I actually enjoyed doing that, I suppose to be one, it helps to be on the receiving end - fascinating stuff!!!!

It is as though my senses have become so acute since giving birth, my awareness and sensitivity are at their strongest (God help me).........I am trying so hard to be better every day.......I suppose that is all we can do. Time will tell hey, when our son is 16 and he is saying "you know Mum, you used to do this thing to me and................"

Keep on praying, keep on hoping , keep on loving

posted July 17, 2005 03:06 PM         

I feel you have very strong healing energy, did so as soon as I saw your name - what is your sign, if you dont mind me asking!

Love

posted July 18, 2005 03:39 AM         

Yes Taurus is good, especially for the hands on kind of healing, the touch, the feeling of a person. I have my Moon there, I feel its sensual too, in touch with the senses.

Did you study Reiki at all, I did parts 1,2 and 3 and it really changed things for me, kinda opened me up to another dimension, so to speak - its great on plants too!!!

Love

posted July 20, 2005 01:07 PM         

Hows it going girl?

I just looked up a thread that Svetlana put up called What are you reading now? Hedgewitch mentions an interesting bookabout child rearing which I though would be useful to read (I would love to get a copy). One of the passages from it starts "TRADITIONAL DISCIPLINE DOESNT WORK"........I have a feeling this would be a good book for any parents with Indigo kids, like ours. You probably have already seen her post, but just in case you didnt, I wanted to point it out to you.

Hope you are keeping well.

Love and peace

posted July 20, 2005 02:21 PM         

I'm doing ok, I appreciate your asking

LoL I was watching the movie Closer (great movie), and there was a scene where (I don't wanna give it away) some people were done chating and when they said goodbye, they put xxx, I thought of you
LoL, but, what does that mean, xxx? Is that kisses without hugs? Closer took place in Europe so I wonder, is that normal for Europeans to type xxx?
I have the urge to do it now, you've created a trend here, I think

posted July 21, 2005 03:29 AM         

Yeah our boy is like that too, but now he is getting older he is becoming more reasonable. He is perfectly behaved in company and nobody would believe that he is at times, v.challenging!!!

The xxxxx are kisses, we put them in cards for birthdays and anniversaries etc - so there you are you can leave kisses for everyone now, if you like!?

Love