posted September 30, 2005 04:56 AM
I am cold and lonely. Is it true that there will be someone looking for me as much as I look for him??? Someone who loves me w/o being manipulative? I broke up with sag but sad part is that he does not acknowledge it. He does not recognise that when I become indifferent, that means end of love. I didnt contact him for last 4 days. Yesterday he called up and I talked like a friend. He couldnt believe I can be that stubborn.. Later I knew he called up cuz his mother insisted him to talk with me!!! I love his mother more than I love him. But still I think it was not right for her to interfere when neither of us asked for it. Now I am having a hard time convincing her I am not into her son anymore..! She sounds rather hurt when I tried to explain..
I just dono how to end everything without hurting anyone.
Posts: 1107 From: Rochester Hills, MI USA Registered: May 2004
posted September 30, 2005 07:50 AM
Well it is hard. There is no way you are not going to hurt people during a break up. You cannot control that so try not to focus on it. They all have to deal with their own feelings. Its not up to you to make them feel ok. Its up to you to follow your own path and be true to yourself. I am the same way, I hate it if I think I've caused someone to be upset. Im still trying to live with that kind of thing.