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1scorp
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posted October 14, 2005 10:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 1scorp     Edit/Delete Message
I don't think I project myself different on-line as opposed to "real-world".

Except no one generally sees my temper, or when I'm not in a socialable mood how I disconnect to be alone, or know how I leave my dirty towel on the bathroom floor, etc.

I do think I come off a little anal on-line sometimes.

I think that one of the problems (??)that "some" people have is that it can be easy to over romanticize a person.

If someone is only showing a certain amount of their personality, there's generally another side to them that you don't see.

This is where I can see someone getting disappointed when meeting in person.

All the natural human flaws aren't really considered.

If someone were projecting themselves as something completely different than what they really are, I wouldn't think they would be interested in meeting outside of the internet anyway. They would be seen as a sham.

Well, just my thoughts. Not the law for everyone.
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proxieme
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posted October 14, 2005 10:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message
I've met one person from this site

He was over here from the UK on his way up to see his then-girlfriend in NYC and was pretty much the same as he seemed here.

He said that I was the same, just more quiet (I used to be the biggest LL blabbermouth).

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trillian
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posted October 14, 2005 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for trillian     Edit/Delete Message
I've made some wonderful friends online who were just as wonderful in person, including a Knowflake who was lovely. We had a few beers in a cool Irish bar in Chelsea, that had the biggest bathrooms I've ever seen in a bar anywhere in Manhattan.

One of my best friends in this lifetime is another Knowflake.

Life is life. We meet people with whom we bond, and some are just for a little while.

We meet jerks everywhere, not just online.
If I feared meeting someone, I would listen to my inner self and not meet that person, just as I wouldn't have a beer with the guy at work who taunts the gay guy or scratches his *ss with a fork from the communal kitchen.

It's our expectations that get us in trouble every time.

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The less I seek my source for some definitive, the closer I am to fine. -Indigo Girls

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TINK
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posted October 14, 2005 09:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TINK     Edit/Delete Message
Trill is my exception.

To meet trill I would go the ends of the earth.

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lovely*
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posted October 14, 2005 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovely*     Edit/Delete Message
MG, I see them filming yes~ they tie up traffic when they do. That show is such crap though.

AG, which suburb in SF? Aphrodite lives in SF.. and which part of OC to do you come down to for Christmas? Orange right?

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Mystic Gemini
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posted October 14, 2005 11:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Gemini     Edit/Delete Message
Me and my sister are big fans LOL.


I like it when it shows the beach and the mountains.


I went to Los Angeles Once. Beautiful also.

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AcousticGod
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From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
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posted October 15, 2005 06:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
*lovely,

My city is in what's called the East Bay here (it's a pretty huge area -a couple counties). I'm pretty much at the very eastern edge of it. You could probably go one more city inland and still consider yourself in the East Bay, but two cities, and you're definitely out of the Bay Area.

When I go to southern CA for Christmas I spend time at my uncle's in Costa Mesa, and my older sister's in Santa Ana on the edge of Garden Grove. My young niece is going to be getting paid to sing a solo in the Crystal Cathedral's Glory of Christmas this year. Oh, also, I grew up in Tustin myself.

I keep thinking about how your hubby would fit right in in my family. My mom and all of her three brothers are Leos. Strange to think about every kid being born the same sign. Their parents are Sag and Pisces.

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trillian
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posted October 15, 2005 09:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for trillian     Edit/Delete Message
Tink I hope some day we do meet, even if it is at the end of the earth. And you know, I have a feeling we just might have a chance to meet in this here/now. And thank you for such a lovely compliment; I would be honored to meet someone who inspires me as you do.

Hope you don't mind that I'm shoddy, ill-tempered, smell of cat litter and shuffle around mumbling about the government in my fuzzy pink slippers.

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FishKitten
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posted October 15, 2005 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FishKitten     Edit/Delete Message
Trillian...I would give my favorite trowel to spend a cozy Saturday morning with you in your pink slippers mumbling about the government! One day, girl, one day.

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trillian
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posted October 15, 2005 01:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for trillian     Edit/Delete Message
And so enters the Knowflake of whom I spoke in an earlier post; the dear friend of this and many lifetimes. FK, I'll bet you have fuzzy slippers that would match mine, though I daresay they're not pink. Pink just wouldn't do in the wild, would it?

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lovely*
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posted October 15, 2005 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovely*     Edit/Delete Message
MG, you are young~ and allowed to love a show like Laguna Beach. I have the best of both worlds.. an incredible sunset over the water every night..and the mountains back up to my yard.

AG, we should meet for coffee when you're down here. Also I think Leos and Gems have a lot of karma with Caps. Don't know why, but just my personal observation.

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SecretGardenAgain
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posted October 15, 2005 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGardenAgain     Edit/Delete Message
hey lovely, if i remember right ur an aries? i have noticed a strange karma with fire signs, there is this kind of burning desire and strange inexplicable bond myself being a Gem maybe its the 9th house stellium plus venus singleton in aries (venus - chart ruler)--especially with the Leo and aries. i dont know about caps but they always do end up liking me. theres few signs i inherently dont understand--with the rest there is mutual understanding, respect, and friendship if not love. the ones that i can never seem to get are : cancer men, virgos, scorpio, sag, pisces....

Love
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AcousticGod
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posted October 16, 2005 04:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
*lovely's a Virgo

*lovely,

You may be busy this Christmas with your baby don't you think?

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lovely*
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posted October 16, 2005 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovely*     Edit/Delete Message
yeah AG, i guess you're right. but if you're here before Christmas, like mid Dec. it could work~

SG, yes I'm a Virgo and my daughter is a Gemini. I have a boat load of Gem & Caps in my life-- it's bizarre.

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26taurus
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posted October 17, 2005 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 26taurus     Edit/Delete Message
SunChild, Yes, I have met someone in person that I met here.

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pixelpixie
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posted October 17, 2005 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
awwwwww.. I love these conversations!!!!

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lovely*
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posted October 18, 2005 03:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovely*     Edit/Delete Message

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AcousticGod
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posted October 18, 2005 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
We'll have to see when it gets closer. I started a new job recently, and I work in a three person office. My boss says she typically takes a week off at Christmas, so I have a feeling my trip this year may be short.

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