posted October 18, 2005 01:09 PM              

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Yes!Sue g I think we do SEE VERY CLEARLY!!!!!!
Very seldom am I off or not off much when figuring people out. That makes most people very nervous! Often I Go too deep and SEE the real them...and it is a person with much or great potential....but on the surface they have issues and or are as mad as hatters!
But then there are the calm spiritually balanced seeming folks who are crazier than loons on LSD!!!!!!
But the people with the big friendly smiles..but not in their eyes...those A-frame social huggers...lets do coffee sometimes(means never!) types..oh dahling....
I abhor! Stay away from this or plan to be scrutinized..analyzed..probed..questioned...
or ignored!
No phonies for me!
Yeah...I creep people out...they say I look like I am looking into their soul or reading their minds or emotions or motives.....WELL!
Duh! OF COURSE I AM!!!!!!

NOW>>>BACK TO THE SUBJECT AT HAND!

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posted October 18, 2005 01:40 PM              

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well hear in Canada
being gay is accepted qiute well
My aunt, mys sisters mother is a lesbian
and my hair dresser is gay
and they are the nicest people
they walk open aroung here
holding hands
and noone ever says anything negative
So in Canada, it really doesn't bother any
that I know of.

I guess everyone's bored???

Love and Light to ALL

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posted October 18, 2005 01:53 PM              

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Ok now I am going to stick my foot in my Mouth
visually I can handle seeing a woman with a woman, I can accept it, not for my self

But here we go
to see a Man with a Man kissing and whatever
that visually makes me sick to my stomach
why why why?

I'm I weird?

Love and Light to ALL

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posted October 18, 2005 01:59 PM              

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Dr.Sigmund Freud or Dr.Ruth could answer that!
So could you!
So tell us what YOU think!
When one asks that type of question and makes those types of statements....one quite often knows the answer.
Look at your feelings...
The answers are there.

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posted October 18, 2005 02:15 PM              

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you are so funny Fayte

it seems to me that after I write
something down, then the visions come
and they did, hehe

goes much to deep and long ago
but now I know
thanks
gotta work on it

you know acceptance without judgement

Love and Light to ALL

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posted October 18, 2005 02:39 PM              

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SunChild,

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posted October 18, 2005 02:41 PM              

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I have no problem with 'queers'. One of my oldest friends is a lesbian and I used to live with my lesbian aunt and her girlfriend. Have had a few other gay and lesbian friends as well. (though I'm as straight as they come )

Bid deal. People are people are people.

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posted October 18, 2005 03:46 PM              

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yes, people are people....some like broccoli, some don't. sexual preferences are about as simple as that, most people if honest would agree that they are attracted to persons of both sexes...while I have mostly intimate releationships with men, I have been attracted to or seen the beauty in women also...so anyway...i have an unrelated question....what does it mean that some threads seem to have flames coming from the file and some do not? I am new to posting and curious... thanks...

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posted October 18, 2005 03:52 PM              

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Broccoli? Did I hear broccoli?
I am a broccoli lover! Cooked..raw...YUMMMMMMM!!!!!!

seriously though...thank you sxycrzykewl221!!! I totally agree!
I am not sure how the "flames" work...it means a very high post count thread I think...but not sure what determines that...the highest daily or total count.

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posted October 18, 2005 04:18 PM            

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I can't be homo(or lesbian) phobic because I hate everyone just the same and no one in particular!

It's sad, I'm rather anti-social.
But on the plus side. I don't give a toss about other people's sexuality because I'm pretty much happy with my own. I mean girls don't do it for me but if a member of your own sex does it for you.. then sure, doesn't bother me

Anyone else think it's unfair guys get to get away with sounding normal if they say how two straight girls kissing would get them going but a girl would get funny looks if she said how she'd like to see 2 straight males kissing?
Totally unfair. Sorry... am I straying from the point?

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posted October 18, 2005 04:43 PM              

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What if a persons sex (male/female) doesn't really make a difference?

What if they just have that "something" about them that you like?

I've experienced this. I don't even consider myself bi-sexual/straight/gay.
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posted October 18, 2005 07:59 PM              

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Thanks 26

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posted October 18, 2005 08:50 PM              

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The Mutable Night Force!
you said:
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Anyone else think it's unfair guys get to get away with sounding normal if they say how two straight girls kissing would get them going but a girl would get funny looks if she said how she'd like to see 2 straight males kissing?
Totally unfair. Sorry... am I straying from the point?

>>>YOU ARE RIGHT! Crazy unfair double standard!
And there are other quandries in the mix.... Like a guy is considered a wuss if he is gentle and sensitive or caring! Or not a rutting beast! Or not a sports fan...or heavens forbid..he likes to cook or wear "unmale" colors! I see so many women saying they want a sensitive man...but when push comes to shove...most that I have seen want the cave man over the sensitive man if they can't get both.
Very weird to me. Ok rant over..I could go on a long time about frickking double standards and all.......

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posted October 19, 2005 03:17 AM              

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I appreciate what you and sue g are saying about gays, Fayte - but they aren't all angels, and more conservative people aren't all devils, either. Some gays can actually have difficulty in relating to heterosexual people because they feel awkward in themselves. I have met several gay men who are fairly intolerant of straight men; likewise I have a gay cousin (female) whose only communication with me has been either a grunt, or incredible rudeness. I think some lesbian women find it difficult accepting that some women can be intelligent, assertive and yet attractive all at the same time, I find it very difficult to converse with them as they just don't say anything, they don't laugh loudly etc. !!! But I think the question here is one connected to lifestyles etc....it's a social/psychological thing more than a sexual one, I think. Interesting debate.

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posted October 19, 2005 08:25 AM              

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For sure all gay folk are not angels! But the same goes for straight folks also.
But I also feel the gay community and as individuals would benefit by having the same rights as heterosexuals.
And yes..gay people can be just as bigoted as straights! I know!!!! When My husband and I got married....most of our gay friends abandoned the friendships because we were doingthe husband and wife..man/woman thing!
Some did not run...but others were "grossed out!".
Another thing is the over obsession with youth and beauty! There are so many nice over 35 years old gay men(and women) out there who are lonely....but they are still playing the game of wanting a sweet young thing....and the sweet young things think these older ones are ugly and old.
Alot of vanity and narcistic attitudes do often run amok!

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posted October 19, 2005 12:37 PM            

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I find if I like a person and they're a girl then I just become good friends with them, if it's a guy, I'll usually want something more... just the way it goes... I am sexually attracted to men.

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posted October 19, 2005 12:47 PM              

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I met a guy a few years back.....he was gorgeous and I was attracted to him....he was one of my clients, he used to come to me for aromatherapy massage (just as well he way gay looking back LOL).

Like you Quark he couldnt tell his folks he was gay and it used to break my heart speaking with him.....he used to let it all out to me....I was honoured to be able to be there for him......such a gorgeous gentle guy......Ive not seen him in a long time....I pray he is okay.........

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posted October 20, 2005 04:45 AM              

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Fayte, just rereading through your earlier posts...

*let's do coffee sometimes (means never)*

...must be my Sun in 8th...

"Dahling"! - That word makes me think "what are you on?" - even if used in an 'ello, dahlin' kind of way.

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posted October 20, 2005 05:32 AM              

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Hellow Daaaaahhhhlings!
Hehehehehe, look mommy I made a BIG thread!

Logged in, as was amazed to see how this one had blown up.

Well done peoples!

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