posted December 08, 2005 03:03 PM         

I do kind of wish I at least went long enough to buy a dress.

Why didn't they ask? I don't really know. I mean, I even took a shower and brushed my teeth that day.

I can look back at my teen years with no regrets. I've had some great times... it just didn't include the prom.
________________________________________
Scorpio sun, venus, mars, mercury, and uranus
Libra moon, pluto, and asc.

posted December 09, 2005 12:33 AM         

You know, sometimes when you're concentrating on the person you like, you completely miss the ones who like you. I'm sure there are a lot of ppl who you would never even think feel that way.. but they do.. You're only 15, that Aries moon makes you pretty independent and prolly sends out "i want to be on my own" signals.. even if you feel otherwise.. Guys at that age (even at my age – late teens/early 20s) tend to be very intimidated by strength in a girl.. and you have a lot of inner strength.. you seem very opinionated, funny.. You *know* what you want.. and you're responsible. You're not someone who would easily get coerced into doing anything with anyone, I'm sure of it.. This will sound bad, but guys at your age would tend to go for girls who are easy and throw themselves at them.. because they'd be very intimidated to be with someone who doesn't.. They’re more likely to do the *little kid* pre-school - banter thing, with girls they actually like but never work up the courage to ask them out. I'm sure you'd want a genuine relationship.. not just some superficial fling.. and I'm sure the right guy will give you just that. It's good to give out strong independent vibes sometimes.. because it splits the wheat from the chaff.. You have plenty of time to find that right guy.. Actually I bet he’s already in your mail - @ WN hee

Cheer up!

posted December 09, 2005 04:03 PM         

Awwwwww Thank you Lauren. Very inspirational

Dorkus- ta Again, nice to have another person to relate to! Hey, I think this might be a Virgo thing!

posted December 10, 2005 02:34 AM         

{{hugs}} if that makes u feel better !

posted December 10, 2005 10:19 AM         

quote:

---

I'm sure of it.. This will sound bad, but guys at your age would tend to go for girls who are easy and throw themselves at them.. because they'd be very intimidated to be with someone who doesn't.. They’re more likely to do the *little kid* pre-school - banter thing, with girls they actually like but never work up the courage to ask them out.

---

there is no denying , girls get mature faster than the boys .(but then thats how nature wanted us to be )
so in a very genralised way , what u say might be correct but it depends .

you are just ninteen and you have found your match and i am sure your libra guy is as mature as you are .

my point , to say that boys are seraching for someone who throw thmeselves at them is a wrong statement .

however immature they may sound but i am sure boys also go for girls that sound mature . they might want a girl who throws herself at them for a fling but then here again , it is not necessarilly associated with boys only . man and woman of every age do that .
for anything serious , they also want woman who is as serious as they are.

wanting a girl for a fling has nothing to do with age.and not necessarilly a guy thing only.

posted December 10, 2005 10:06 PM         

quote:

---

my point , to say that boys are seraching for someone who throw thmeselves at them is a wrong statement.

---

I said guys "at that age" would tend to go for girls who are easy. I didn't say they are searching for them. The whole point of being easy, is *you're there..you're available.. you DO things* They don't need to search.

quote:

---

however immature they may sound but i am sure boys also go for girls that sound mature .

---

I didn’t mean to say they were immature. They have certain priorities. Sex is a major priority.

quote:

---

they might want a girl who throws herself at them for a fling but then here again , it is not necessarilly associated with boys only . man and woman of every age do that.

---

I disagree. I meant this from a sexual point of view. I think a teen guy is far more likely to date a girl who sexually throws herself at him, with absolutely no forethought about personality or anything else.. than any other man/woman of any age.

quote:

---

for anything serious , they also want woman who is as serious as they are

---

I completely agree with this. I've actually said this before. But it only applies after you've reached a certain level of seriousness in relationships.

When you're 15, 16, 17, 18 even 19..even 20..or early 20s you don't necessarily want anything serious. You’re more likely to prefer *light* to *serious*. This isn’t confined to teens. Some people will never want a serious relationship, at any age.. and that’s fine, it’s their choice.. But I’m talking about the majority, about what is more *likely* to happen. I'd say about 15% of guys 15 to 18 would want a serious relationship. They're not looking for girls to fit their serious relationship expectations (which aren't even set yet)..because they're not looking for a serious relationship. They're at a stage in their development when they're a lot more focused on the physical.

quote:

---

wanting a girl for a fling has nothing to do with age.and not necessarilly a guy thing only.

---

Again. I disagree, as above...I think a teen guy is far more likely to put a fling (with sex), above a serious relationship (without sex), than anyone at any age. That is my personal opinion.

quote:

---

i told u about my libra friend who has a cap gf ,they feel in love at the time when they were sixteen and fourteen respectively.

---

posted December 11, 2005 12:01 AM         

Take the ribbon from my hair,
Shake it loose, and let it fall.
Lay it soft against your skin,
Like the shadows on the wall.
Come and lay down by my side;
Til the early mornin' light.
All I'm takin' is your time...
Help me make it throught the night.
I don't care what's right or wrong
I don't try to understand.
Let the devil take tommorrow;
Lord, tonight I need a friend.
Yesterday is dead and gone
And tommorrow's out of sight
It's so sad to be alone...
Help me make it through the night.

------------------
aquarius sun, pisces rising, scorpio moon

posted December 13, 2005 10:13 AM         

quote:

---

When you're 15, 16, 17, 18 even 19..even 20..or early 20s you don't necessarily want anything serious. You’re more likely to prefer *light* to *serious*.

---

Itend to diagree !
like i said before , in a genralised way u might be right but it depends .

now add a bit of astrology , all the guys that i know , that have had long lasting high school romances had a major water and earth placements .
infact one of the cap guy married his taurean gf , when he was just into first yr. of his engineering college .