posted April 28, 2007 12:43 AM         

We are not against newbies in any way, shape or form, but we question various posts and anyone with a brain would.

This site has had its fair share of trolls that used such stories of abuse, rape and other horrible tactics in order to gain attention and to cause heartache with members of the site.

It is NOT that people are uncomfortable with sexuality in the least, people have accused others here of that before, the truth is- we have MANY underage posters here that shouldn't have to see certain posts on this forum. I have personally crossed that line a couple years back when I posted about the book Sextrology providing very indepth details about the signs and their "likes".

I wasn't censored, but I realized that concern when it was brought to my attention that kids as young as 13 logged onto this site. I ended up deleting the posts.

Since we are open to all people of all ages, we need to be concerned about what we post. Should we ever have a "sexual" union forum that screens the age, then we can post whatever we want without worrying about youngins.

Coral,

You may have noticed that once people determined that HI was not a troll, they apologized, I think you bringing up old threads was done so only to produce more fodder for the fire.

Nam,

NO ONE here is worried or intimidated by a strong woman representing herself or her sexuality. LL is mostly made up of such women.
pidaua

posted April 28, 2007 12:50 AM         

In the thread started by moonbaby, there were questions as well AND moonbaby is a FEMALE that had only been posting for a month.

So please don't start the rumor that being a newbie or a woman and posting things of sexual nature is automatic cause for being questioned LOL

posted April 28, 2007 01:03 AM         

and believe me, astrology can only give a vague picture of the person....but much depends on the person and how they let those planetary energies flow through their personality.

posted April 28, 2007 01:27 AM         

i didn't look at the second thread. but i presumed no one judged moonbaby.

i don't go by the past and what people did to elicit mistrust, i go by how that person feels to me, at the time. feelings are fluid.

pidaua, i still feel there is some truth to the sexist nature here, but thank you for mentioning our children who come here and browse. I forget.

posted April 28, 2007 02:19 AM         

I think an adult forum would be FANTASTIC!!! I believe there are so many others that may have adult type of questions, sexually or otherwise that we dont feel comfortable springing on the younger ones.

Maybe that will happen.. Randall? Hmmmm..... can we indulge in an 18 and over area?

Hee hee.....

HF... (I keep calling you HI, sorry) I enjoy your posts.. keep up the good work you horny lady you.

posted April 28, 2007 02:29 AM         

pidaua

hope you are well and hanging in there.

posted April 28, 2007 03:51 AM         

I am doing well. I miss Bear more than words can express, but I know that he'll be home soon... Well, depending on the extension he will either be home in August or November.

I'll give an update on my Lupron therapy in the "update" thread tomorrow. I don't want to distract from the "fiery" nature of this thread LOL...

posted April 28, 2007 11:53 AM         

And what exactly do you expect us to do??

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Then why don't you go get it?

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posted April 28, 2007 01:45 PM         

wht joy, thrill... excitement it is/was..

and above all, I got to see people who could stand up for strangers for they are not standing for a person, they are voting for a thinking/ behaviour..they have the strength to speak up when many think it is bad but are not courageous to speak..... I myself have a long and disastrous record of standing for someone who I felt is being cornered, wheather I knew him or her or not.

and those are the people I respect in my heart... everyone and anyone can be a poser, but keeping the choice open til it is confirmed is my belief...

I dont know how someone else would have felt,,, I just loved it, the adrenaline rush and, to stand up for I think I should defend and, I love those who have the courage to defy common misholding firmly held in dark corner of some minds

posted April 28, 2007 02:29 PM         

I'm glad you posted this thread also!!!!

Thanks!!!

Its been very enlightening relating to the fires that burn inside " all of us "!!!

Glad you stoke your fires here with us!!!

Thanks for Sharing!!!!

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posted April 30, 2007 12:01 AM         

As far as the under 18 residents, well yes, that is a problem, it would be very nice to have an over 18 forum for the oldies.
Lord knows i would hang out there LOL

posted April 30, 2007 10:49 AM         

An over 18 room would be good but I am wondering how Randall would be able to verify the ages on the internet. That might be a problem.

Really, I don't see that there is anything wrong with talking about sex on these forums as long as it doesn't get too graphic. The unfortunate reality of our times is that most teens know more about sex than I do. lol

Truthfully, I am constantly being surprised by my young grand daughters and what they say and seem to know at the ages of 10 and 11. I was still playing with dolls and though I had crushes on boys ( even played spin the bottle and blackout with them for kisses ) they were mostly to me someone to play baseball with at that age. I think kids pick up more knowledge of sex earlier these days from the media. It's everywhere!

I don't know if that is a good thing or a bad thing. Kids are maturing faster now than they did in my generation. The average age for girls to start their periods now is 10. In my time the average age was 12. The age of 10 seems so very young to me for that.

posted April 30, 2007 11:29 AM         

About this thread:

Really, I don't see that there is anything wrong with talking about sex on these forums as long as it doesn't get too graphic. The unfortunate reality of our times is that most teens know more about sex than I do. lol

This Point for sure!!!!

I think that if Randall did have an 18 and over thread here the teens would flock to it like flys on sh!t. That hasn't changed at all since my youth. Just restrict a teen in any way and that just peaks their interest. Otherwise I don't think they are even interested in what us "old folks" talk about here.

Sh!t I was still playing with my Barbie's & Ken when I was 13yrs old!!! LOL!!!

Thats so cute that you brought up the " Spin the Bottle " also, too funny!!!! I played that too & Post Office!!! The one game I use to think was really funny was a game called " Chicken " that you played in the dark with a group of friends, until someone yelled chicken and then the lights came on!!!!! What a Surprise then!!!!LOL!!!Everyones Hands in the AIR!!!!LOL!!!

Wave them around in the air, Like you just don't care!!!!LOL!!!