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Topic: I can't stand my boy friend
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starr33
Moderator Posts: 474
From: My Mother
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted May 10, 2007 06:23 PM
 
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Mirandee
Knowflake Posts: 4812
From: South of the Thumb - Taurus, Pisces, Cancer
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted May 10, 2007 06:35 PM
From the way he talks to you, starr I can't stand your boyfriend either.  Don't like men who talk to women that way at all. IP: Logged |
alchemiest
Knowflake Posts: 699
From: Somewhere over the rainbow
Registered: Sep 2003
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posted May 10, 2007 07:18 PM
Any boyfriend (or person!) who tells you to "F*** off" or "shut up" in response to a civil inquiry on your part sounds like a complete douche. Maybe he needs to shape up or ship out. IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
Knowflake Posts: 4598
From: The Asylum
Registered: Mar 2006
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posted May 10, 2007 07:41 PM
I can't stand your boyfriend either.IP: Logged |
NAM
Knowflake Posts: 1995
From: Sunny place.
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted May 10, 2007 07:46 PM
So sorry.------------------
Sun in Cancer
Moon in Cancer
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Dervish
Knowflake Posts: 328
From: California
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted May 10, 2007 08:19 PM
I love Linda Goodman's book on love signs, but there's a lot more to it than that. You really need the entire chart to work with, and you especially look at how Mars and Venus line up in your respective charts to determine compatability. (I'd be curious about the Moon and Mercury, too.) Come to think of it, Linda wrote in her book about how what planets in what houses between a couple will make a difference (so that normally incompatible will mesh nicely or vice versa). Other than that...everyone has a bad day now and then. But if this is normal for him, I'd have dropped him long ago (and I'm a Libran, too). IP: Logged |
Solane Star
Knowflake Posts: 5378
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted May 10, 2007 11:11 PM
I don't like your boyfriend either!!!Geesh!!! Lighten-up Buddy!!! I hope you put it to him staight Starr33 !!! IP: Logged |
Solane Star
Knowflake Posts: 5378
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted May 10, 2007 11:13 PM
Nice my post is at 11:11 !!!!It's a SIGN!!!!LOL!!! No, it's 11:11 !!!LOL!!! IP: Logged |
pidaua
Knowflake Posts: 7314
From: Schweinfurt to Grafenwoehr all within 6 months LOL
Registered: May 2002
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posted May 10, 2007 11:45 PM
Booooooo!!!! Your bf needs an a$$whoppin big time.. I'd like to send my Leo over there to teach him a thing or two on how to treat a woman like a queen. But, he is currently unavailable.Would you like for me to shoot some arrows at his rear? Hugs! ------------------
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zenwarner
Knowflake Posts: 401
From: tx, usa
Registered: Aug 2005
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posted May 11, 2007 12:33 AM
oh yea...thats is completely unacceptable. i dont care what the situation is. no one deserves to be talked to like that. IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
Knowflake Posts: 6485
From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted May 11, 2007 12:41 AM
Time to go, starr. The guy has issues you can't fix and there's no reason for you to stick around being a target for his nastiness. Been there done that.It kills something inside you when you ask your man (who is obviously depressed) "how are you doing, honey??" and he says "get out of my face before I pop you one."
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SLAYER
Knowflake Posts: 578
From: Resurrected
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted May 11, 2007 07:05 AM
So rude! I know you have been going through a difficult period starr33, and you certainly don’t need these kind of people, who are tactless, thoughtless and again rude, in a time when you need everyone to be supportive of you. Make some changes and never look back for your own good. I am angry at your bf. 
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marsconjunctmercury
Knowflake Posts: 912
From: Isle of Wight U.K
Registered: Dec 2005
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posted May 11, 2007 07:34 AM
Hang on people. We've only heard her side of the story. What if she tries to talk over somethings he's listening to on the TV. She might be repeating herself, or talking about boring crap that he's not intrested in.
I must admit i see an older woman who's a Scorpio with 3 planets in Libra - and she always seems to talk at annoying moments. You can hear her cute sqeaky voice going on and on in the background.
I only really tell her to F off when she starts behaving strangely, possesively, or paranoidly. The rest of the time i either talk to her or just ignore her.
If she speaks when i'm eating my dinner she usually gets minimal response. I've said to her she must eat like a duck (without chewing) with how much she talks when we're eating. I like to savour my food, sip wine, and stare into space, not reply to meaningless waffle.
She is very cute though and has Moon in Taurus. I used to be very talkative round there, but i'm not really anymore (as she rightfully points out) - unless i've had loads of cannabis and then she gets loads of talking out of me which she loves. Having all that Air she loves talking and communicating. I've got all the Fire but it doesn't seem to get utilised on chit chat.
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Bluemoon
Knowflake Posts: 4456
From: Stafford, VA USA
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted May 11, 2007 09:02 AM
It is not okay for him to talk to her that way, Mars. It hurts and is just MEAN.Starr, try not to let him disrespct you. My man is a JERK to me. I really wish I had left when I could. IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
Knowflake Posts: 293
From: Somewhere Out There
Registered: Jun 2006
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posted May 11, 2007 09:42 AM
If you can't stand your boyfriend most of the time (and not just very occassionally as happens in most relationships when we get angry with each other) then you should find another boyfriend.IP: Logged |
lioneye68
Knowflake Posts: 6062
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted May 13, 2007 12:18 AM
Was this just a one time event? Did it happen after you embarrassed him in front of others, (big no-no with Leos) or after you said something insulting maybe (Libras can do that without realizing it)?If he just arbitrarily tells you to shut up or f-off, then he's just rude. If this is an exceptional circumstance, then he must be annoyed with you. Please flesh out the story. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
Knowflake Posts: 6062
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted May 13, 2007 12:34 AM
I think if he just wants you to shush when he's watching something, he's just rude and immature. "Shhhh" or "Wait - I'm listening to this" would work just as well. Maybe he's just uncultured and rude. That's not a Leo trait - it's a "poorly cultured male" trait.IP: Logged |
starr33
Moderator Posts: 474
From: My Mother
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted May 13, 2007 12:51 AM
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lioneye68
Knowflake Posts: 6062
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted May 13, 2007 12:56 AM
starr, darling - this guy is just rude. Start saying it back. What a jackass. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
Knowflake Posts: 6062
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted May 13, 2007 01:03 AM
You're probably too pleasant to say it back. 
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starr33
Moderator Posts: 474
From: My Mother
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted May 13, 2007 01:06 AM
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Dervish
Knowflake Posts: 328
From: California
Registered: Nov 2006
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posted May 13, 2007 10:05 AM
It's true that men & women tend to find different things worth talking about, so like a guy can felt put upon by a woman he's in a relationship with who "won't let me read the paper" while she can feel ignored and that he's tuning her out, or even take the "no [there's nothing I want to talk about]" as a personal attack (adding "with you") because men & women both tend to make the mistake that the other gender thinks a like and values the same thing in the same order. That said, this guy is a jerk. I wouldn't even bother with trying to bridge the "genderlect" problem. And as for McM: "I only really tell her to F off when she starts behaving strangely, possesively, or paranoidly. The rest of the time i either talk to her or just ignore her." I laugh, but I cringe, too. If she's a scorpio, then I think she must have a Pisces ascendent or something like that to put up with you (and I wouldn't count on it being that way forever). If I treated a Scorpio like that...well let me just say I wouldn't. My will to live is too strong to do so. :P IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
Knowflake Posts: 6485
From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted May 13, 2007 10:59 AM
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And as for McM:
"I only really tell her to F off when she starts behaving strangely, possesively, or paranoidly. The rest of the time i either talk to her or just ignore her."
I find great satisfaction in my faith that karma comes back around.....
I practice "ignoring" too -- ignoring jerks who talk like that 
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Motherkonfessor
Knowflake Posts: 1140
From:
Registered: Oct 2003
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posted May 13, 2007 10:32 PM
umm~ yeah.How about breaking up with him? Why would ANYONE tolerate this? MCM~ yeah, you sound like a peach. No one- let me repeat, NO ONE, for any reason, deserves to be told to F off by someone who is supposed to love them. MK IP: Logged |
marsconjunctmercury
Knowflake Posts: 912
From: Isle of Wight U.K
Registered: Dec 2005
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posted May 14, 2007 06:44 AM
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...unfortunately, today I counted at least ten f*ck offs and caught him giving me the finger....
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