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fayte.m
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posted September 14, 2007 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
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What would you pick...
If suddenly over night the world was going to
change...to everyone becoming one of these, with no shades of grey.:

1. All people Brutally Honest
2. All people Pathological Liars
3. Or complete planet-wide Telepathy

~*I would choose Telepathy planet-wide.*~
Pick one or rate them.
My choices would be:
3-1

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posted September 14, 2007 11:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Johnny     Edit/Delete Message
I'd take the brutal honesty. We already practically have the pathological lying one, and you'd never get any peace and quiet with telepathy.

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posted September 14, 2007 11:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
I love hypothetical questions!

Here is another.....
If racial equality and world peace could happen by everyone becoming all the same color...
What color would you choose?

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~ if you keep doing what you did, you'll keep getting what you got.~
Everything changes.
Fear not the changes.
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tuxedo meow
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posted September 15, 2007 12:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tuxedo meow     Edit/Delete Message
I'd pick 3 as well

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fayte.m
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posted September 15, 2007 01:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
Imagine a world of #3! It would be chaos at first but once everyone realized everyone has all kinds of weird stuff in their heads and no one could hide behind masks, I believe in time true understanding and empathy would grow.
It would end crime and war too. How could one commit a crime if everyone knew what they were thinking?
And war....if everyone knew what everyone else was thinking and feeling, the entire nonsense would cease.

With a fully telepathic humanity, I feel the dream of John Lennon would become a reality.

John Lennon - Imagine

Imagine there's no Heaven
It's easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people
Living for today

Imagine there's no countries
It isn't hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion too
Imagine all the people
Living life in peace

You may say that I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will be as one

Imagine no possessions
I wonder if you can
No need for greed or hunger
A brotherhood of man
Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world

You may say that I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will live as one


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~Judgement Must Be Balanced With Compassion~
~Do Not Seek Wealth From The Suffering, Or The Dire Needs Of Others~
~Assumption Is The Bane Of Understanding~
~ if you keep doing what you did, you'll keep getting what you got.~
Everything changes.
Fear not the changes.
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posted September 15, 2007 01:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SattvicMoon     Edit/Delete Message
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1. All people Brutally Honest
2. All people Pathological Liars
3. Or complete planet-wide Telepathy


3-1-2

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posted September 15, 2007 01:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SattvicMoon     Edit/Delete Message
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If racial equality and world peace could happen by everyone becoming all the same color...
What color would you choose?


ANY

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Regarding the first question I would not choose any of those three. Honesty, yes but not Brutal honesty because that could amount to cruelty and disregard for the feelings of others. Compassion and empathy would be compromised.

I agree with Johnny about the pathological lying. We already have that to a large degree. No one would want that.

Worldwide Telepathy no. Our thoughts are who we are. They are what make us all unique. To me world wide telepathy would amount to a big brother society without the need for the technological gadgets. There would be no moments of peace, as Johnny said, because there would be no moments of privacy where we are alone with our thoughts. We could not grow as people because we would be too guarded with our thoughts. In fact, I think that would eventually lead to worldwide insanity.

Regarding the second question:

I agree with Sattvic, and if it truly would bring about world peace, any color would be fine with me. I doubt it would bring about worldwide peace because humanity would find something else to discriminate and fight about. Besides, we could not learn the lesson of tolerance if we were all alike any way.

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posted September 15, 2007 02:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for naiad     Edit/Delete Message
still waiting for the individualist who chooses "pathological liars."

anyone?

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Xodian
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posted September 15, 2007 02:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message
Let me be the first one to say "Pathological Liars" Lol! Why? Well Usually we take everyday "run-of-the-mill" good traits for granted until they don't exist anymore.

Imagine the yearning for honesty in a world with nothing but pathological lairs. Its gonna be an extreme way to teach people but I am all up for it .

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posted September 15, 2007 03:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
Picking pathological liars is exactly the same as picking brutal honesty. Either way you can detect the truth.

If you can get upset with someone thinking in a moronic way as it is without telepathy, how would it be different if you had telepathy? You'd still think that their thoughts were messed up. Hopefully they'd read your mind, and get on right page, but being human there's no guarantee. Everyone learns in their own time.

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posted September 15, 2007 03:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ListensToTrees     Edit/Delete Message
Of course, I'd chose telethapy.
But not just mental telethapy. Emotional empathy.

Edited to add: Actually, I'd chose telathapy of the heart. I think this is the most superior form of communication.

Racial equality is what we all need but if it can only be achieved by us all being the same colour then this proves that we still have a lot of empathy to evolve.

We need to see and feel that we are all interconnected no matter what colour or species we are! It is said that even rocks and rivers have a spirit.

Einstein was truly a genius, and he could see this when he said that we are all, as everything is, made of energy.


Having said that, I think it is true that mixing genes is very healthy. So, perhaps, like the line in U2 "I believe in kingdom come when all the colours will bleed into one". I don't know if it will happen, but that would be fine by me. It doesn't matter what colour we are. Our bodies are just a space-suit. But mixing genes is healthy, and if I'm allowed to say.....they tend to make the offspring very beautiful. Not that it matters- the soul inside a person is the only thing of true value. But I'm just saying.

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If people could only understand and feel the hurt they caused others; there would be NO need for retribution, etc. Empathy/ love is a law unto itself.
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yourfriendinspirit
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posted September 15, 2007 05:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for yourfriendinspirit     Edit/Delete Message
Fayte.m, I love this question!

Q #1;
My choice = 1. All people Brutally Honest
I'm a Sag after all and this just seems most natural

Could'nt choose #2 as it goes against every ounce of my being
Frightened by #3 as I personally would feel violated!
People are just to evil natured right now to use this one wisely. Maybe somewhere down the road...
Much spiritual awareness must come first.
Much love must fill the earth first...

Excellent post, thank you!


Q #2;
I choose "Periwinkle" because it's unique, pretty, not one any claim to be original decendants of, and it feels good spiritually. [periwinkle = an interesting mixture of blue and purple]

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posted September 15, 2007 06:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaspryt69     Edit/Delete Message
Would we need telepathy if everyone was brutally honest?

Would we need honesty if everyone had telepathy?

1. Telepathy/brutal honesty

100,000,000,000 (you get the idea . Pathological Lying

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Mirandee
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quote:
Imagine the yearning for honesty in a world with nothing but pathological lairs. Its gonna be an extreme way to teach people but I am all up for it...Xodian

First of all you crack me up,Xodian

But here in this quote of yours you make so very much sense and a very good point. Maybe a world filled entirely with pathological liars would make people so yearn for honesty that they would work diligently for change and to bring it about.

So it is true? The negatives in the world can serve very useful purposes? I think you are onto something there, Xodian and a very insightful observation you made here.

LTT

Emotional empathy!!! Yes!!! If that were on the list that would be my first choice.

AG good points There are some people whose minds and thoughts would be waaaay to scary for me to want to enter into. I think it would be a wakening nightmare to know the thoughts of a serial killer or a pediphile. I think I would be tormented with those thoughts day and night. Life would become a living hell.

It would take God to be able to handle that I think. I don't think we humans could deal with that. Which is probably why the world and the universe is designed to function as it is.

I think we might be tempted to use the thoughts of others as a means of control.

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Mirandee
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Just noticed your reply friendinspirit

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I choose "Periwinkle" because it's unique, pretty, not one any claim to be original decendants of, and it feels good spiritually. [periwinkle = an interesting mixture of blue and purple]

LOL!!! Nice color. But I think then we would argue and say my shade of periwinkle is much nicer than that guys over there.

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posted September 15, 2007 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
yourfriendinspirit
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"Periwinkle"

I love that reply!
I was thinking that color too but could not remember offhand what it was called! Yeah a nice blend of blues, pink, violet, lilac, lavender,"PERIWINKLE!!!!!!!!!!" A nice non human color so it would be fresh and new without any standard racial connections, and perceptions!

Thank you for liking my questions!

Now onto comments directed at everyone!

As for telepathy, I have nothing in my head and heart that I would be freaked others knowing if everyone was telepathic.
I would be so happy to have everyones' "stuff" out for all to know, including my own.
I would not feel violated at all.
It would be nice to not have to explain how I feel and what I mean or have to keep guessing and second guessing others.
Telepathy would lead to folks growing up emotionally.
Yeah, some of the first generation might go insane. But the new ones being born would find it normal.
Folks cannot be trusted as a whole to be honest. Little white lies pepper everything.
Soon those become easy and bigger lies are considered just a little lie.

quote:
Oh, the tangled webs we weave When we practice to deceive.
Sir Walter Scott, "Marmion"
Scottish author & novelist (1771 - 1832)
I feel that even little lies to spare my feelings are extremely rude and selfish on the part of the liar. It is I feel, more their fear of my possibly becoming upset with them than their urge to be caring.
Or their way of not dealing with issues. When I discover someone has blown sunshine up my tookus, THAT really p!sses me off!
I do not care what one's motivation was, it would still be a lie! I detest lies!

Xodian! Interesting take on it all! It actually makes sense!

LTT!
I like what you quoted!

quote:
like the line in U2 "I believe in kingdom come when all the colours will bleed into one".

aquaspryt69! I like your logic!

quote:
Would we need telepathy if everyone was brutally honest?

Would we need honesty if everyone had telepathy?


Telepathy would cut to the chase and eliminate the other two!

AG!

quote:
Picking pathological liars is exactly the same as picking brutal honesty. Either way you can detect the truth.
I wish detecting truth from lies was that easy.
However I am usually too trusting (contrary to some folks way of thinking of me)and have gotten taken in too many times by very skilled manipulative liars. I have learned slowly to realize, just because I detest lying does not mean everyone else does to the degree that I do. And many seemingly nice folks have a public face and demeanor that covers what kind of person they really are.
It gets easier with time to don the masks without thinking. It becomes easier to avoid things by lying. It becomes a habit. I wonder if some even realize they are liars after a certain point? They want to be nice but even their desire to be nice has drawn them into a cycle of lying. Can they even be honest with themselves after that?

SattvicMoon! Good color choice.."ANY"

SattvicMoon, tuxedo meow, ListensToTrees, aquaspryt69!
Thank you all! I don't feel so alone on that.

Johnny & yourfriendinspirit! I knew there were reasons I like you both!

naiad! You made me laugh!

quote:
still waiting for the individualist who chooses "pathological liars."

anyone?



Mirandee..Thank you for replying. And for agreeing on any color!

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~Do Not Seek Wealth From The Suffering, Or The Dire Needs Of Others~
~Assumption Is The Bane Of Understanding~
~ if you keep doing what you did, you'll keep getting what you got.~
Everything changes.
Fear not the changes.
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posted September 15, 2007 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
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Emotional empathy!!! Yes!!! If that were on the list that would be my first choice.
It would be mine too..except that unfortunately leads to those who do not want to hurt anyones' feelings, resorting to telling white lies. So by that token no I would not choose that, it can lead in some cases to lying, even though well intended. It would still be lying.
quote:
I think we might be tempted to use the thoughts of others as a means of control.
There could be no control if we knew each others thoughts. The one attempting to control would be known by the one(s) they were attempting to control, so no control there. If some wanted to be controlled, others would see the problem and
try to intervene with both potential controller and targets.
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There are some people whose minds and thoughts would be waaaay to scary for me to want to enter into.
I would find it utterly fascinating! I think perhaps our fears of how weird or scary most folks' minds may be, are projections of I'm ok/normal they are not, while their minds may actually be often no more scary or weird than our own thoughts.
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I think it would be a wakening nightmare to know the thoughts of a serial killer or a pediphile.
If we knew their thoughts the crimes could be prevented! Victims could avoid becoming victims. We also might be able once and for all to find out what made them become that way. If they were also abused, we would know and we would also know who did things to them! All that would only affect the first generation, not the ones who were born telepathic. They would be born empathic telepathic and not understand lying.
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I think I would be tormented with those thoughts day and night. Life would become a living hell.
Really? Or would you then being able to see their entire picture, be able to understand and be glad they could no longer hide and lurk in the shadows? Telepathy would not be each of us hearing the entire 6.6 billion thoughts all at once. Beautiful thoughts would be heard too. Why would anyone allow the scary thoughts to take over their lives and make it a living hell?
The scary, truly dangerous ones could be dealt with and locked up and given various types of lobotomies if other methods failed. It would be a mercy to them and to society.

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~Judgement Must Be Balanced With Compassion~
~Do Not Seek Wealth From The Suffering, Or The Dire Needs Of Others~
~Assumption Is The Bane Of Understanding~
~ if you keep doing what you did, you'll keep getting what you got.~
Everything changes.
Fear not the changes.
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posted September 15, 2007 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ListensToTrees     Edit/Delete Message
Just watch the movie "powder" to understand what I mean

Even the other young man who was cruel to him had his story to tell, pain underneath his tough exterior. Powder even saved his life near the end.

"To understand all is to forgive all".

He has a very magical moment with this girl where they see into each other's souls for a few minutes before her over-protective, prejudiced father destroys the moment.
This is a very good part of the movie.
That is exactly how I imagine "emotional empathy" to be.

I'm not talking about seeing into everything. That would just make us insane. It would be something we would have to learn how to control to maintain balance.

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It would be nice to evolve some sort of telethapy of the heart; empathy. A feeling, knowing inside how we are all interconnected. Empathy/ love would be a a law unto itself.

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posted September 15, 2007 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
LTT
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Just watch the movie "powder" to understand what I mean
I love that movie!


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"Heaven doesn't want me and Hell is afraid I'll take over and start a rehab for the damned!"
~Judgement Must Be Balanced With Compassion~
~Do Not Seek Wealth From The Suffering, Or The Dire Needs Of Others~
~Assumption Is The Bane Of Understanding~
~ if you keep doing what you did, you'll keep getting what you got.~
Everything changes.
Fear not the changes.
"My body is physically disabled, but I am not my body nor am I its disabilities!"
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posted September 15, 2007 04:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message
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1. All people Brutally Honest
2. All people Pathological Liars
3. Or complete planet-wide Telepathy

Let me just say that I think choice number 2 is already a reality.

But I'd definitely choose number 3, because we had that maybe people would be more AWARE if you catch my drift. But I think number 1 and 3 would produce the same results just because there would be no rosy-shades in either case.

quote:
If racial equality and world peace could happen by everyone becoming all the same color...
What color would you choose?

I agree with the others....any.

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posted September 15, 2007 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
Dulce Luna!
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But I'd definitely choose number 3, because we had that maybe people would be more AWARE if you catch my drift.
Oh yes!
I definitely catch your drift! "AWARE" With that awareness comes empathy, as LTT indicated using the movie "Powder" to illustrate her point.
And I like the rest of your responses too!

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~Judgement Must Be Balanced With Compassion~
~Do Not Seek Wealth From The Suffering, Or The Dire Needs Of Others~
~Assumption Is The Bane Of Understanding~
~ if you keep doing what you did, you'll keep getting what you got.~
Everything changes.
Fear not the changes.
"My body is physically disabled, but I am not my body nor am I its disabilities!"
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posted September 15, 2007 05:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message
Awww, I loved powder...it scared me the first time when I was 7 or 8 because of his appearance ( ) but I watched it again and thought it was very powerful.

And I definitely agree that with telepathy comes awareness and then empathy.

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posted September 15, 2007 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
Dulce Luna
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with telepathy comes awareness and then empathy.

I feel you already have much empathy!{{{hugs}}}

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~Judgement Must Be Balanced With Compassion~
~Do Not Seek Wealth From The Suffering, Or The Dire Needs Of Others~
~Assumption Is The Bane Of Understanding~
~ if you keep doing what you did, you'll keep getting what you got.~
Everything changes.
Fear not the changes.
"My body is physically disabled, but I am not my body nor am I its disabilities!"
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posted September 15, 2007 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fayte.m     Edit/Delete Message
Discussion on truth, lies and RADICAL HONESTY. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum2/HTML/002036-3.html

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"Heaven doesn't want me and Hell is afraid I'll take over and start a rehab for the damned!"
~Judgement Must Be Balanced With Compassion~
~Do Not Seek Wealth From The Suffering, Or The Dire Needs Of Others~
~Assumption Is The Bane Of Understanding~
~ if you keep doing what you did, you'll keep getting what you got.~
Everything changes.
Fear not the changes.
"My body is physically disabled, but I am not my body nor am I its disabilities!"
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