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LEXX
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posted January 20, 2009 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message
http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/28679588/?GT1=43001

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posted January 20, 2009 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dervish     Edit/Delete Message
Once again, burning the village to save it.

If incarcerated, they face much greater risks of being sexually abused.

I'm glad the prosecutor at least has sense enough to know WHY the law exists in the first place (ie, smarter than people in charge of educating kids).

What is it about schools that seem to draw such idiots, many of them harmful to the kids in their care, to work there?

And whatever happened of letting the parents deal with it?

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posted January 20, 2009 03:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message
I agree!

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posted January 20, 2009 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for koiflower     Edit/Delete Message
The parents of the children that were shown the pictures would be outraged that their child was exposed to sexually graphic images, when schools are now expected to control what technology comes through the gates.

They are usually the parents that 'talk' about getting the police involved in the first place.

Schools are expected to be safe for all children. That includes safe from others that would expose them to stuff not allowed in a school, ie, drugs, alcohol, sexual graphics.

Believe me, schools don't like having to deal with serious issues like this that take place on school grounds.

Also, new technology laws are pouring in these days that put teacher's and student's heads on the chopping block if they use technology in an inappropriate way within the school environment.

EDIT: Late last year, I had to sign an agreement saying it was okay to send me to prison for up to 10 years if I didn't use the student report writing on-line system in the appropriate way!!

Even children have to sign an agreement that they will use school technologies in the appropriate way - and this includes 5 year olds!!!!!!

It would be great if parents could deal more with their children's issues!!

Welcome to the 21st Century - Technology is meant to be our slave, not master!!!

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posted January 20, 2009 04:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dervish     Edit/Delete Message
If it's about morality rather than actual child safety, then they need to say so. Don't act like they're doing a favor for the ones being charged as criminals.

The school could suspend or even expel without involving the cops. If the other parents want to call in the police, let them, and they can take the blame for doing so as well.

If the laws want to treat kids as adult child pornographers exploiting children rather than kids themselves who do childish things, then the law itself is a danger to children that must be combated as much as child pornographers themselves.

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posted January 20, 2009 04:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for koiflower     Edit/Delete Message
Unfortunately, the school was probably operating within the law. There are many laws that cover schools.

Now that technology is so prevalent, laws are coming in to cover how those technologies can be used in schools. Sad, but true!

The States and Australia are a tad over-legislated, but it's neccessary when democracy states we can do what we want. Which makes me ask, do we live in a real democracy?

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posted January 20, 2009 04:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message
Innocent children???????
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The female students at Greensburg Salem High School in Greensburg, Pa., all 14- or 15-years-old, face charges of manufacturing, disseminating or possessing child pornography while the boys, who are 16 and 17, face charges of possession,
The "innocent girls" created and gave the boys the nudies. (I assume it was not real little kids but the teen girls themselves in the "porn"?)
Sounds like the techno version of Polaroid swapping teens use to do.
Geez...with the nudity and graphic sex on Cable....in Music...Fashion...even certain toys, dolls in particular that encourage little girls to want to look like cheap streetwalkers/porn stars in my opinion...
What else can be expected of teens and their rampant hormones combined with easy access to
technology that is difficult to monitor?
I say get these teens into counseling not prison nor juvenile detention homes, where they would become very hardened criminals in time.

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Which makes me ask, do we live in a real democracy?
The U.S.A. claims to be a Democracy but it really is not.
In the POA. is the line:
"And to the Republic to which it stands...."

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posted January 20, 2009 07:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
Lame, but what high school kid hasnt seen a naked girl before (on the internet or REAL)? And sharing nudes is more common than you would think, even at that age. It's dumb to try to prosecute these girls. And it even sends the message that they are not in charge or in power of their own images or bodies, the law is. That's not good for women's rights.

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posted January 21, 2009 12:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dervish     Edit/Delete Message
The way I see it, these kids aren't fully aware of what they're doing, the risks involved, or the consequences. (And if they were, then they should be adults, with all the rights and privileges thereof--the least being able to go to the restroom whenever they feel the need ).

Yes, these are girls taking pix of themselves (now if it were girls taking pix of other girls in the locker room, that would be very different, especially if the other girls were not willing to have their pic taken). The boys in particular may not even be aware of the images until they look, so may be truly innocent of any wrongdoing, even as a naughty child. Even if they kept the image after discovering it, or had asked for it (as opposed to bullying or otherwise pressuring to get it), they're still curious and trying to get a grasp on their hormones. I don't expect them to be saints, and I see no value in turning them over to the law for things like this (save the courts & police for actual violence, theft, vandalism, etc).

And what was the point of this law? To create an American Sharia (ie, morality on things like proper conduct & clothing, backed by the force of law, similar to what goes on in the Middle East, just a little more permissive in the USA)? Or to discourage ADULTS from preying upon kids that they can easily manipulate through a variety of ways in order to sexually exploit them (including in porn using minors)?

And what's the point of the sexual offender d-base (that these kids will likely be put on if convicted) but to warn the public of PREDATORS? If the d-base has simply become a "scarlet letter" denoting uninhibited behavior that strikes some as scandalous, then I say do away with it completely. I see the d-base being important for public safety, but it appears that it's more for puritanism, and that just turns the actual predators into needles in a haystack of stupid stuff like this.

I'm not meaning to condone what these kids did, just that throwing the book at them is way over the top and at least as irresponsible (perhaps even more so given that this WILL negatively impact their future whereas their immaturity MIGHT cause them harm). They're friggin kids, let them be kids--discipline them, but don't put them on the d-base as sex offenders (when all they offended was certain people's puritan morals) or involve the courts & police (who should have far more important things to do anyway). Suspension is perfectly reasonable, IMO (with parents also disciplining them). Expulsion too strong, IMO, but ok. But the lengths this school has gone to, like many others, are just burning the village to save it (at least if they're honest in their reasoning about why they're harming these kids in the name of protecting them from sexual predators), and just inexcusable, IMO.

At least the kids are kids, what's the excuse of the adults on the school faculty?

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posted January 21, 2009 12:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PeaceAngel     Edit/Delete Message
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Police told the station that the photos were discovered in October, after school officials seized a cell phone from a male student who was using it in violation of school rules and found a nude photo of a classmate on it. Police were called in and their investigation led them to other phones containing more photos, it said.

Okay - so let me get this right. The girls took pics of themselves. They txt them to male classmates. One of the boys has his phone confiscated. Someone in authority then proceeds to look at the contents of this boy's phone. Why? And then this person starts the next chain of events. Umm, who was looking at child porn here?


If I take a photo of my children in the bath and show them to my mother-in-law, does that now constitute child pornography?

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posted January 21, 2009 01:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message
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If I take a photo of my children in the bath and show them to my mother-in-law, does that now constitute child pornography?
In the U.S.A., people have been charged for doing that...if someone tells the police about it. Weird laws.

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posted January 21, 2009 01:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PeaceAngel     Edit/Delete Message
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In the U.S.A., people have been charged for doing that...if someone tells the police about it. Weird laws.

Well, I don't know what to say! That's just shocking. Maybe when I eventually pick my mouth up from the floor. OMG!

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posted January 21, 2009 01:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venusdeindia     Edit/Delete Message
A guy i know was suspended and treated like a paedophile for ???

Hugging a girl who on Valentine's day told him she had a crush on him - he was 15.

He was humiliated in front of his class, his parents who had been summoned, his teachers who admired him .

To this day it has affected him, he hasnt forgievn his paernts too for the way they grounded him for ebing suspended.

Waaayyy to Misandric i say..in the days of Britney when parenst take their 10 yr olds to watch her soft-porn concerts this is just outright hypocritical.

not to mention the fear and sense of shame and confusion it instills in young boys when incontrast they are gievn a sexual overdose in the media.

My sis was living in a wonderful Redmond neighbourhood for 10 years. A group of 40 parents in her block got together and decided - no T.V. , No magazines, No pop Music - absoultely no pop culture exposure for their children.It was easier for the children because they had other friends from the same group with the same values and theu there was no peer pressure. Plus they could date other kids with pressure to have early sex.

The BEST parenting strategy i say. I will do the same when i have kids here.

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posted January 21, 2009 01:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message
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A group of 40 parents in her block got together and decided - no T.V. , No magazines, No pop Music - absoultely no pop culture exposure for their children.It was easier for the children because they had other friends from the same group with the same values and theu there was no peer pressure.
Unfortunately in my area such folks I have known of take it way too far into the paranoid religious right.
And oddly the good boys in the groups still get the good girls pregnant. And these kids not exposed to any modern influences are totally lost when it comes time to re-enter the real world, jobs and or college. Many I have known of become quite wild as adults or suicidal at the culture shock.
Some insulating might be good, but the rest of the world is still out there waiting for these naive ones to eat them up.
Better communication betwixt children and parents is needed in the formative years. And if kids are too afraid or not comfortable talking to their parents openly and honestly, there will be problems no matter what type of exposure they have or not.

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posted January 21, 2009 01:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venusdeindia     Edit/Delete Message
ah.. but this was not religious, many of these parents were not church types, they were mostly infotech professionals who worked in microsoft, the kids went to regular school.

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posted January 21, 2009 01:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LEXX     Edit/Delete Message
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ah.. but this was not religious, many of these parents were not church types, they were mostly infotech professionals who worked in microsoft, the kids went to regular school.
OK...I have known of some like that in a nice gated community in Pennsylvania. All rather intellectual/scientific minded types.
I wish I could have afforded to live there.

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posted January 21, 2009 05:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dervish     Edit/Delete Message
For just one of the ways this has gotten too ridiculous:
http://www.kxxv.com/global/story.asp?s=5785699

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A four-year-old hugged his teachers aide and was put into in-school suspension, according to the father. But La Vega school administrators have a different story.

Damarcus Blackwell's four-year-old son was lining-up to get on the bus after school last month, when he was accused of rubbing his face in the chest of a female employee.

The prinicipal of La Vega Primary School sent a letter to the Blackwells that said the pre-kindergartener demonstrated "inappropriate physical behavior interpreted as sexual contact and/or sexual harassment"


This teacher is in the wrong line of work (and is probably a perv projecting, if she thought a 4-year-old hugging her was a sexual come on, though possibly just suffering hysteria).

And as for the school faculty that had the gall to discipline the child instead of advising the teacher to find a new line of work...I'm just baffled by how people like this keep getting a pass at educating children!

Schools actually get much worse than this on a regular basis. And it's just part of why if I ever have kids, they are NOT going to a public school (at least not in the USA).

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posted January 21, 2009 05:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PeaceAngel     Edit/Delete Message
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And as for the school...I'm just baffled by how people like this keep getting a pass at educating children!

Right on. And she is definitely n the wrong line of work if she has that mentality. A four year old accused of sexual harrassment, basically. Ridiculous.

Children are only capable of the sexual awareness that adults bestow upon them.

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posted January 21, 2009 08:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venusdeindia     Edit/Delete Message
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A four year old accused of sexual harrassment, basically. Ridiculous.


you should know then that an 8 yr old can be charged with a rape charge and be sent to jail without a trial - on the mere word of any woman no matter how old.

Seriously, these are the kinds of laws feminists have lobbied for - successfully.

We dont even realise how MISANDRIC we have let ourselves and the world be.

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posted January 21, 2009 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
Venus I dont think a feminist would ever argue that laws should be aimed at prosecuting children.

In this world a woman can't walk down a freaking street without being leered at and sexualized, I don't know why you worry so much about POOR POOR MEN and demonize the women who fought for the right to vote, enter the workplace, and take control of their own bodies. It really bothers me.

Don't blame feminism and feminists for over reaching and ridiculous laws.

I'll worry about misandry once the patriarchy is gone.

Plus, how can you even WORRY about misandry when women in Pakistan get stoned to death for BEING RAPED because it is "adultery."

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posted January 21, 2009 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Push a disabled child down a street and watch the sexualising leers disappear.

One day a man walked up to me in a short skirt and said: look, I don't like this, it encourages paedophiles.

I said: hardly at the age of 35. wearing woolly tights and trainers

Sorry to sidetrack the thread with this bizarre and irrelevant anecdote.

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What kind of incompetant society do we live in that we believe treating kids like 40 predators will solve this problem? Suspend them, or even expel them if need be, but this is RLY retarded; especially considering that the 'victims' really aren't victims in the true sense.

And I thought I'd seen it all when I heard of the four year old being tried as sexual predator.

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posted January 21, 2009 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message
Blue Moon, the first time I was ever cat called I was 12 (I look young for my age and a late bloomer so I probably looked like I was 9). It was in the dead of winter and I was wearing a large poofy jacket that was wayyyy too big for me, with the hood up. STILL some guy walks by me and says "o0o0o0o baby" and licked his lips. WTF.

A few months later I went into the grocery store with a friend after ballet class. We were wearing leotards and pants. A bunch of guys started catcalling, as if we were wearing "sexy" outfits for them! HOW DARE I, A 12 YEAR OLD, WALK INTO A STORE AFTER EXCERSIZING!

Wahhhh misandry wahhhh.

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posted January 22, 2009 03:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah, there's some sickos about alright.

Thinking about it I was opposite a High School at the time. I'm smaller than some of the girls in there, so maybe from a distance.... but you would have to be a little bit weak on eyesight and normal mental faculties to think I am 20 years younger than the case. Which is probably what happened here, I don't think he was the full ticket.

Sadly like a lot of women I have developed a special unfriendly scowl to cover these kinds of scenarios. And of course I have the best weapon of all, age.

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posted January 22, 2009 05:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venusdeindia     Edit/Delete Message
I read this a while back on a local news site, i think...a man new to a town was on an evening walk.

He saw a child at the edge of the park lake - close to falling in. He looked around to see if the mother was there, but no one seemed to know the girl.He tried to see if any park personnel could be reached, unfortunately the only people were 2 old men on walking stickes.

The girl fell in and the man did not dive in to save her, whereas the older men started raising a hue and cry and eventually some people from the inner corners came and jumped in.

But the girl was beyong saving.all they retrieved was her body.When the crowd demanded to know why the stranger had not gone and picked her up in the first place his answer shut everyone up.

He was new to the town the last thing he neede was a child molestation charge against him.No one there would have been able to testify in his defence - that the child was in danger.


Its a bizarre world we live in.

The men who treat us like free-dolls to be leered at

And then there are those in the thousands who pay to keep us safe - by being falsely accused of rape - as studies after small - independent studies are revealing.No one dares offend the multi - billion dollar tax payer giant that is the N.O.W. by actually going deep and conducting a real study on a national level.

I shudder to think if my dear brother or father have to pay with their live and freedom - because a girl fails to recogniswe the scum who raped her - or out of pure spite.

It happens to approx 80000 men every year. About time the men i care for join the cause - to keep ME safe.

Its one thing to make laws that keep me safe - totally other that ASSUME I am a VICTIM with no strength oif my own.

NO I AM NOT THANK YOU VERY MUCH.

I know to keep myself safe, i know what kind of men to avoid and ignore.

The last thing i need is a Socialist in the garb of a Feminist assuming i am a victim and making draconian Misandric laws.

One man leering at me does not make ALL men out there game to pay for it, with no right to a Trial or equal rights in a hearing.

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