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Heart--Shaped Cross
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posted March 28, 2009 01:01 AM           Edit/Delete Message

This is an interesting question.

What do you stand for?

What do you stand up for?

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AcousticGod
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posted March 28, 2009 01:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
I typically stand up for showers. Also, putting on pants/trousers.

Answering the door;

Chores on a ladder;

Hanging artwork;

Getting things out of cabinets;

(Humor)

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posted March 28, 2009 01:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
AG, you made my night lol. Thank you


I take what I stand / stand up for on a case to case basis because I don't do absolutes. I'd like to think every situation is unique and there are always exceptions. Some require standing up, some require sitting down, and some are best dealt with by reclining.

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posted March 28, 2009 01:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
I sort of do the same thing. I'm a fairly mutable sort, so it's not always one thing. I would like to say that I stand up for dignity... except for when I don't. I do stand -at least in theory- for adoption. That has always been a cause close to my heart, the one I'd most like to work for.

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posted March 28, 2009 01:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
'In theory' is probably the main key phrase here. I stand for lots in theory. Gay rights, putting an end to all types of abuse, adoption (this sounds more like a passion for you, AG)...that kind of stuff I can absolutely stand for in a way.

By birth, my family's blood heritage stands for something, but I can't say I always connect to that...though theoretically, I really should.

Personally, as opposed to theoretically, I stand for cheese, and pies, and cooking. I also stand for traveling. And for my own passions, which include not being boxed in to anything (Moon/Uranus opposition maybe?), so there goes my attempt at defining this

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posted March 28, 2009 01:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
Ooooh, good job Mutable one!

I don't stand for cheese and pies, though both can be good, but I'll absolutely stand for good food!

Traveling
Independence
Music
Trees
Quiet
Beauty (in all the forms my mind conjures)
Wit
Brains
Listening
Finding

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posted March 28, 2009 02:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
Good list. All worthy causes that I stand for, then happily faint about

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posted March 28, 2009 02:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I hate that I stand for editing my posts constantly for grammar and wording
Seriously, how Virgo can one get ?

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posted March 28, 2009 02:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
When I type out stuff on my cell phone's numeric keypad I suddenly realize how often the urge to edit hits. It's too much work on that cell phone, though, so I just plow away with my unevolved sentence.

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posted March 28, 2009 02:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I feel like a 5 year-old when I text on the phone because that's what the sentences look like they were constructed by. And then this voice kicks in out of nowhere 'Ooooh, you have sunk SO low."

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Chryseis
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posted March 28, 2009 04:17 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Generally, I think "why bother" after all, pretty much I'm not out to win friends and influence people, or on the otherhand spend time in exhausting point for point dramas that will either leave them all hep and annoyed with my astonishingly solid grounds or even worse leave me feeling like I want them to get the hell away from me!lol

Occasionally, because I have a huge repertoire of suppressed biting comments and petty annoyances, I will make a stand but often as not by that stage flames will be escaping from each word and my nails will becoming clawlike and mythical, teehee. In those moments, people just usually stare open-mouthed with eyes flashing in neon "FRUIT-LOOP"

I treasure my passive aggressive moments more because then I'm winning arguments on the inside, , and others just lump these confusing subtleties as just another facet under the one heading -eccentric/odd/loose cannon.

Yeah, but if I was to make a stand, it would be on corruption. Wherever I go I walk smack into the realization that it's everywhere - hate it... and I don't like dirty fighters...there now I've said it, lol. Ok *back away from the keyboard, hands in lap, push chair back in one controlled movement and leave the computer*

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writesomething
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posted March 28, 2009 04:22 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Chryseis- you are intriguing.

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posted March 28, 2009 05:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
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I hate that I stand for editing my posts constantly for grammar and wording
Seriously, how Virgo can one get ?

I stand for proper punctuation.

I stand up against trangressions in the use of the comma and apostrophe.

Luckily, my current cohort in writing matters is very happy about this pedantry. He gets me to check things through.

In such writing matters I stand up for other things I think are important, but not too stridently, it's a collaborative effort. It won't work without the ability to be flexible and prepared to listen to other people's opinions.

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p.s

It's funny that I headed onto Astro2 and read the Mars/Mercury Square thread after adding a post on here, the two threads reflect each other, in an odd way. Certainly in my case as I have a 3rd house Mars Square Mercury.

Over the years I have learned that sometimes it is best to shut the f up.

A couple of times men have let me know that it is really not attractive to assert my intelligence in an overly argumentative manner. I married one of them ~ his Sun/Saturn is conjunct my Mars.

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Heart--Shaped Cross
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posted March 28, 2009 06:14 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Very good points, Chryseis.

There are so many foolish motivations for standing up.
But standing up against corruption is something we can support.

So, where do you see corruption,
and how do you stand up to it?
Or, how would you, if you were to?
(Since you say, "if I was to make a stand,".)

And what would it take to get you to stand up?
And how would you go about doing it (if you were to do it)?
And how hard, and for how long, would you fight,
before you let corruption have the last word?

BTW, I opt for the passive-aggressive approach too, most of the time.

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posted March 28, 2009 06:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for koiflower     Edit/Delete Message
Lately, I've had to stand up for myself. It's made me question if it's worthwhile being easy-going.

(I've corrected 1 capital letter, 1 comma, 4 typos and 1 whole sentence in the production of this post )

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posted March 28, 2009 07:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PeaceAngel     Edit/Delete Message
I think most people adopt at least one cause during their life. It just happens that something particular touches you along the way.

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posted March 28, 2009 07:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Pick your battles, you said to me just yesterday, P.A, and you are bloody right.

In my youth I was too inclined to be combative, with age I have toned it down. There are few people who want to know all about my strongly held opinions. My diary is fascinated, though.

p.s

The builder put a seat into my shower. I am that much of a lazy b@stard.

Plenty of space in there for you to stand and me to sit and watch you, AG.

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posted March 28, 2009 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
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posted March 28, 2009 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
Oooh...sounds like fun.

Is it true that this was your builder?

What were you wearing when you asked him to join you in the shower to talk about this seat?

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posted March 28, 2009 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
He was wearing a t-shirt so I can't tell you the closeness of the similarity to that picture.

I shall expect you to strip right down though, that's what I'll be doing.

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Chryseis
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posted March 28, 2009 03:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Wowee, blue moon you have some raging fantasies there woman *fanning self, and waving smelling salts* haha

Well yes, writesomething, thank you I guess I could appear intriguing but it would be an illusion; I'm just as irritating at close quarters as the next person - I even distance myself from myself if I can, lol. No really I'm just a neurotic hermit that has been around the competition circuit of fighting tooth and nail for too long - the true picture is I'm 'jaded' - but amazingly happy enough which is a bit of a conundrum, I think.

HSC, I had to make notes on your questions, though great questions btw. Wow, your mind is like a vice, with precision measurement tools, haha! you floored me

Yeah, I see corruption in any group and don't usually stand up for it until an incident that takes my reactions by surprise and then, though I start with a fairly calm comment - I'm pretty much starting to twitch by the end of the second sentence.

Generally, I become disheartened and disassociate from whatever it is but sometimes I have to stay involved and this is usually a good learning curve for me if I can see it through. What it takes to stand up is usually days, weeks of dwelling on something and then I'm usually quite tightly wound by the time of my usually unforeseen furore. And I usually stand up at inappropriate moments. I can fight till I feel blood is running from my sockets - which is not very healthy I guess - but yeah most stand ups by me are to no avail or that's how they appear. I usually just feel even more isolated - I think it comes down to that I prioritise differently to a lot of others - that alone makes me feel like I am operating on a different circle and I have to continually adjust to try and be workable for practical reasons with the majority because my life is structured on being part of the family, work, education etc frameworks.

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posted March 28, 2009 04:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message
chryseis ~
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Wow, your mind is like a vice
A vice I won't 'stand for' henceforth
But imho, bearing little resemblance to a vise.....

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Heart--Shaped Cross
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posted March 28, 2009 04:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message

They hate me because I tell them the truth...

But, above all things, truth beareth away the victory.


— Plato

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Heart--Shaped Cross
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posted March 28, 2009 04:14 PM           Edit/Delete Message
Chryseis,

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