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BornUnderDioscuri
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posted October 24, 2006 08:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry i did post this in the astrology forum, but this is something that has been depressing me for months. I am completely in love with this guy, and I think we are soulmates (even though we are too young for marriage) i honestly hope we work out and this is something I have wanted more than anything, even though i have been in love before. At first i thought our charts were very compatible but we kept having these problems, and now that i look into it, it just seems impossible and i know its insane to try to overcome fate, but i was wondering if anyone could tell me do i have a chance in hell?
Firstly: If the composite sun in 6th house means inequality in the relationship, is there any way to work through it. Say its a challenge that needs to be overcome, or is it more like a matter of fact thing that there will always be inequality and nothing can be done?

Secondly: pluto is transitting midheaven and square to the uranus/mercury opposition in our chart which is scaring me to death
as well as chiron is almost exactly conjunct the descendant

And third: This showed up on my bf's chart but not on mine

Saturn conjunction Descendant: Relationships on trial

Beginning of November 2006 until beginning of August 2007: This influence has two quite different meanings. First of all, it can indicate a period in which intimate one-to- one relationships become an area of great responsibility. Chief among these is your marriage or living with your partner, but it also refers to close partnerships of any sort. You must pay close attention to these relationships. Strains and tensions that have been developing in the recent past are likely to surface now and must be dealt with immediately! Sometimes the only way to handle these problems is to end the relationship, so this can be a time of great trial for a marriage. Even under the best of circumstances you will have to work harder on partnerships and try to solve as many problems as possible.

Does this mean we are going to break up at that time? Given our composite sun is in 6th house and thus such responsibilty isnt a good thing...ughhh life sucks

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posted October 24, 2006 08:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is where a tool..becomes a hinderence..due to feeding negative aspects..your chart..is to be OverCome..Mastered..

One must rely by going within to OverSoul=God..for the answers to
your Heart..as it must be followed. ...

when you see something negative..
what do you do?

I look at how I can overcome it..
learn form it..evolve..pay my
karmic debts..I turn into something
Positive...

Do you have a chance in Hell(Earth)
Yes..that's why you are here...
sounding so sincere
Have no Fear...

LOve Conquers ALL...

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BornUnderDioscuri
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posted October 24, 2006 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you sooooo much!!! That really helps

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posted October 24, 2006 09:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are very Welcome BornUnderDioscuri..I feel you two have a very special bond..and your age doesn't matter..you can work through the karma..In LOve and Light. ...

WE..are altering Our Universe..we are Re-Uniting..we must balance..or the Disruption will become greater..disaster..natural and human...Our Choices...

Bring Heaven on Earth...
Or Destruction..learning the hard way..
It's up to each and every One of Us..
And Twin Souls are a very big part of it..and yes..there is karma..we must make amends
and Keep Our Promise for Tomorrow..
No more Sorrow...

LOve and Understanding. ....

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posted October 24, 2006 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Honestly, I admire you, Its been a long time since i had hope or anything among those lines. I believed in amazing power of love and all until i actually did fall in love and that relationship fell apart. I was hopless till my bf came along and we do have so many problems that come out of no where and sometimes i feel defeated by the universe, but there is still fight left in me. Thank you for your kind words, i really needed them. <33

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Remember, no worries, worry is wasteful..undertake to do everything with LOve..
respect and demand respect..equality..
Lots of LOve to YOU...

and EveryOne. ...

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posted October 25, 2006 06:26 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
See it as a challenge to be overcome.

Right now, Saturn is 5 degrees away from me and my boyfriend's composite descendant. I do NOT want to break up with him and I will do my best to keep it together. I don't know how long it takes Saturn to be exactly conjunct our descendant or within how many degrees it will take effect.

But currently, Sun, Mars and Venus are all in his natal 7th house. So I don't know what that means really.

Whatever, with Venus squaring Uranus in our composite, I'm feeling rather 'on/off' about things... but confident it will pass.

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posted October 25, 2006 06:44 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok I now see that Saturn moves at about 1 degree a month... so does it only affect the descendant or any particular point when it's exactly conjunct or do we feel it's effects before and after? If it only affects us when it's exactly conjunct, then I would assume that the problems encountered would last for a month?

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posted October 25, 2006 08:52 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey BornUnderDiscouri,

There is this website called ElsaElsa.com
It is an astrology blog where a lady called Elsa gives reeally sound advice based on astrology. But you have to be specific and outline your problem clearly. (she explains the format of the question somewhere on the website...). I think you should write to her.

Best wishes
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posted October 25, 2006 06:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OH thank you so very much!

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posted October 25, 2006 11:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for and     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 26, 2006 12:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol...hes been distant and cold for like 2 months...one cant get more colder than that...and marriage not gonna happen tho supposedly we talked about it and do want to "someday" soo break up it is prolly...but i will always wonder about the power of self-fulfilling prophecy

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posted October 26, 2006 12:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry but on a more important note, when is this cold demeanor supposed to pass cuz its driving me biserk? But thank you so much for everything

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posted October 26, 2006 02:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm ok. I just noted that in your post it said this will take place over 10 months... gee. In that case, its effects must be felt within five degrees either side of the descendant... that sucks. By coincidence (!) my boyfriend has been colder to me in exactly the last month!!! Not like freezing me out or anything but things do seem to have cooled in a strange on/off way where I can't tell what's wrong with him. :-/ Looks like we're in the same boat!!! Shall we be each other's support group?!!

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posted October 26, 2006 07:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh that would certainly be nice *hug* evil bfs. Mine is a Gemini, but i find it surprising same isnt happening to me cuz im a Gem too. Weird

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posted October 26, 2006 10:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it depends on your ascendant... is your bf an Aquarius ascendant by any chance? The interesting thing is that my bf is a Gemini, but this transit isn't happening to his individual natal chart, it's happening to our composite relationship chart. In composite, our relationship is Gemini with an Aquarius ascendant... and Saturn is transiting our composite Leo descendant. However at the same time, the sun, Venus, Jupiter, etc are all transiting my bf's natal 7th house in Scorpio - so I think the problem doesn't lie individually with him, but that there are things we are both experiencing in the relationship instead. If you see what I mean. So I guess it's up to me as well as up to him to work through whatever Saturn appears to be bringing us. Now, my advice to you is that although this is an individual transit for your bf, you are in the relationship as much as he is, and if your relationship is good then you can work with him at whatever is happening.

With me, I'm just confused and unsettled at the moment. Venus is squaring our composite Uranus, which indicates the unsettled nature of things for us right now. Yet we both do want to stay together. I think it's important to talk about things. Usually it's me who initiates this stuff, probably because I'm more used to being in a long-term relationship and I'm more experienced at 'relating' than he is. I see some problems going on with us, on both sides. But with this weird Venus square Uranus thing going on, I know that now isn't the time to make any permanent decisions... in a way I'm now wondering if the effect of Saturn on us, is going to be the 'responsibility' effect. I don't know. Like I said, I'm just finding myself very confused and unsettled.

How are you doing?

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posted October 26, 2006 10:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
By the way, I would also like to say that you and I have other things in common!

I also feel more cynical about love than I used to. I was in a very committed relationship for five years, and I thought my life path was assured... but although he loved me he unintentionally took me for granted... I got restless, I felt like I was missing out on life... I blame myself for everything that happened after that (not to mention my Sag ascendant and my Venus in Gemini!), but I needed more excitement and I took off on a romantic endeavour with my Mr Gemini! I met him at a precise astrological moment and immediately fell in love! It went against every grain of Taurus/Scorpio loyalty I have in me, but I did it... I had to take apart and rebuild my life! It was dramatic and traumatic for everyone involved...

Anyway my point being... everything that happened, although I was the instigator of it all, completely changed my view of love. Before, I viewed it as permanent! But because of what happened I feel shaken, even now, almost a year and a half later. I want to be with my Gemini for as long as possible... but my faith in love has been so knocked around that I don't feel secure about it anymore. So any little thing makes me jumpy!

Weird huh?

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posted October 27, 2006 03:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lotus~ beautiful words, thank you, I needed to hear that. (I know it wasn't aimed at me but, hey)

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posted October 27, 2006 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ES HIS ASC IS AQUARIUS!!!!1

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posted October 27, 2006 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh man i dunno if its self fulfilling prophecy of wat but we had a humongous fight today over nothing. Its like he cant spend any time with me as of lately cuz of responsibilities and today he said lets go see a movie, but then chose to do something else and said he has no time. So we argued for a while and it just got out of hand and we broke up (which we did like 14 times already...sadly not exaggerating...ugh 2 Geminis...) and its just terrible we said a lot of nasty things to each other and i really considered if this should be the end. I dont want it to be, we made up and I know he loves me and i love him too so much. Its just all this rediculous stuff...i think something is happening in our composite too but he is a rising Aquarius.

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posted October 27, 2006 07:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh man sounds like we really have a lot in common. My ex (Cancer moon in Scorpio rising Cancer) trully understoood me but liked to poke at me emotionally too much and we also fought bitterly for control. And yet we loved each other for 3 years and then he said he cant handle it and broke up. It took me a while to get over it and then he said he wants me back but by then i met my Gemmy. And he just seemed so perfect, like a copy of me. Sadly he had a gf at the time and they were on a breakup but she was completely in love with him, and her and I became friends. And i know what u mean, i jumped over everything i believe in for him. And i dont regret it, i still think hes my soulmate. (my asc is conjunct his south node and we have same north/south nodes...sigh...my Venus is in Taurus and my Mars is in Cancer. His Venus is in Cancer mars in Capricorn. At first glance i thought we were perfect and then i learned about composites and it sucks!

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posted October 27, 2006 07:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol sorry i talk too much...but yea i also instigate...sooo much (moon Scorp) because i have such poor trust in ppl (many friends betrayed) and i just test people to see how far they go and the more they prove their loyalty the more i fall madly in love butunfortunately i sabotage myself along the way....ugh sucks

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Ohh yeah I think the Scorpio moon can be very destructive!

Strange, I've broken up with my Gemini before as well but he chased me to get me back... we can be quite volatile. But strangely he seems to be the more steadfast one than me a lot of the time, I think it's his Mars in Aquarius.

Anyway if you're interested I made a thread in Health and Healing about some chakra balms, I think these can be very helpful! I think a lot of the time we have to realise that the problem lies within ourselves, not with the other person...

No time to post more right now, but I'll be back later!

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posted October 27, 2006 08:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh thank you very much. Actually i liked astrology since i was very little one of my first presents was a gemini neclace. But i really got into it about 2 years ago simply because i put all the stuff and saw how much similarity it is. My ex and I were both Scorpio moons and i have to say he completely and utterly destr4oyed my world view, way of living, and aboslutely everything i believed in and completely rebuild in something different. Same thing for him i tore it apart as well. Id say one of my mostt influential relationship. So yea darn Scorp moon. And thank you very mcuh, ill look into ur chakra threat. I took Yoga in HS and think its very helpful

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posted October 27, 2006 09:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BornUnderDioscuri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OMG thats borderline freaky! I read what you said on the Moon sign thread. Im SOO that investigator woman. I spy on a lot of people, usually my bf's exes though. Its a hobby for me, its not even so much that im looking for something but as much as i enjoy the chase. And ur bf is Gemini Aries? Thats really cool i know a few Gem Arieses and they are awesome. Mine's a moon in Cappie...hes power hungry, im power hungry. LOL. Wats ur ASC?

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