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ace959
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From: Kolkata, West Bengal, India
Registered: Jan 2007

posted January 18, 2007 08:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ace959     Edit/Delete Message
Here's the story, I'm an 80 born aquarian, in love with a virgo. We've known each other and liked each other for the last 8-9 yrs and ended up in a serious relationship 2.5 yrs ago. Things were great and perfect except for her parents not being very happy about us which kinda screwed me over mentally. I'm 26 and shez 24. I moved back to my hometown as she needed me and thats when things started going wrong.....her parents issue was bugging me which led to me trying my best to earn as much money as possible but in the meantime i used to be very irritated with everything because my future with her depended on how well established I am, and I used to speak to her rudely and scold her for the simplest of things.This went on for 8 months and of course she wasnt happy although she tried her best to make me happy. Now shez gone to Scotland for a year and then broke up with me saying that I couldnt keep her happy. But now things are changed as well, I'km starting to establish myself and am doing much better than earlier. But shez gone and shez also started seeing another guy. She is very stubborn and just blew me off since then not giving us a chance any more. I need her back as we were the best thing to happen to each other, untill the last 8 months mess up happenned. How can I possibly win her back ?????......I was her first relationship and definitely the first for lots of things in her life.I need my babygirl back. Please help !!!!

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mezzoelf1
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posted January 18, 2007 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mezzoelf1     Edit/Delete Message
This is a tough one - someone gave me some advice once with regards to relationships (and they were quite enlightened) and that was to never go back.

If she loves you, needs you and it is destined that you should be together then it will be. Let her spread her wings - her parents sound like they've been a heavy influence in her life. This is probably her first real taste of 'freedom'. If you are doing well now maybe someone else will be put in your path, when you least expect it! Either way, blessings and hopes for a good outcome, for you both.

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Randall
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posted January 19, 2007 08:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Welcome!

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loe
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posted January 19, 2007 10:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for loe     Edit/Delete Message
I m felling with you. please don t let her parents break down your self confidence though. they should have stayed out of it.
My advice to you is to totaly and sincerely let her go. Don t pretend that you do it, you have to really do it. First then she can get a feeling that you are not there anymore, and maybe she will realise that she needs you. I have been seeing proof of this million of times. one example: one of my friends was deeply in love with a guy who she also had a relationship with. he was treating her very badly, and was unfaithfull all the time. Even after they broke up she refused to let him go. But one day she met somebody else unexpectently and her feelings for her ex boyfriend disappeard. Just soon after she had met someone, her ex totaly got obsessed with her and tried everything to get her back. he finally felt how it was to not have her there. But remember that you can feel a lot from a person without talking or seeing one. So you just pretending that you have forgotten about her will not work. You have to really do it, and this is the most difficult, but maybe your only solution. If you re ment to be you will be, if not, something much greater is waiting for you.

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Mama Mia
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posted January 19, 2007 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Oooh have I seen this so many times..And I am optimistic but sometimes you can't undo whats done..If its meant to be then she will come back..If not to bad its a growth thing and well you will handle things better next time..

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