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posted July 02, 2010 10:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message

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posted July 02, 2010 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee     Edit/Delete Message
I found this hope it helps
http://community.beliefnet.com/go/thread/view/43951/13169269/Cord_Cutting

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posted July 03, 2010 12:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message
Dee, thank you. I finally found this book in one of my boxes and it has some great excersises in it too.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum13/HTML/000612.html

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posted July 03, 2010 05:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message
T;

Sorry to hear that you/he are in such pain.

I don't know what your books say, but in this very forum, we discussed this topic just a few months ago.

Just be careful, is all.
Sometimes the act of visualizing the person, and the cutting, reactivates the energy, and they come back with a vengence.

I only know this from my own experience.
My ex was pretty intuitive in these things, and when I would do it, he would contact me usually within 48 hours or so...

He said he had dreams of me, or felt like I was calling him.

To tell you the truth the whole thing creeped me out so much, that I found the best thing to do was to try and remove him from my mind altogether.

I've arrived at a place of detachment. Maybe my Air Moon is activated finally, after 43 years, IDK.

I still think of him, and still hear from him, but it's nothing like before, and I know now that it's something I did, internally to make this change.

I quit romanticizing him and the past, and saw it for what it was.. a three year booze soaked sex romp steeped in debauchery.

It was fun though. I'll never forget, but, I moved on.

I wish you the best, as always.
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posted July 03, 2010 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
I have had little success with cord cutting on the broad scale, but it seemed to work as long as I did it over and over and over...

My GIANT eraser helps to get the mental image of the individual out of my head, thus, I think, helping to break the energetic connection that I might be contributing to by "thinking" of the individual.

blessings

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posted July 04, 2010 11:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks hippi

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posted July 06, 2010 01:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeleah     Edit/Delete Message
um, cord cutting does work but here is the problem with that...you will cut the cord, but unless you HEAL THE PLACE WHERE THE CORD ATTACHED IN THE FIRST PLACE, it will reattach with said person or attach someone else with the same dynamic until that wounded area they are "hooking up" with you is healed...

just shamanic healing theory so, heal the wound, and that attachment won't...can't reoccur...so, now you need to discover, what is that wound?

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posted July 06, 2010 02:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
Seelah, I never heard that theory before, but it makes a lot of sense.

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posted July 06, 2010 04:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeleah     Edit/Delete Message
yeah, its the theory that if everything in the (your) feild is harmous in the first place, negative crap can't "hook" up in your feild in the first place so you want to avoid the hook up, heal where it could attach...ends the problem permentaly

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posted July 06, 2010 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message
I totally agree...but i'm also totally sticky and get all kinds of crap attached lol
damn wounds! they take forever to heal.

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posted July 07, 2010 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seeleah     Edit/Delete Message
*laughs* honestly, when we are really ready, they heal..and it can be instant sometimes, it's a choice...sometimes it does take time...just keep truckin girlfriend!

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posted July 07, 2010 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for oneruledbymars     Edit/Delete Message
T,
in order to do the cord cutting exercise in a way that works. You must understand your heart Chakra...as this is where the strongest attachment is and the other attachments are at the 7th and 8th usually with sexual relatiionships.

The heart Chakra is your fourth chakra. It governs the heart and circulatory system, respiratory system, arms, shoulders, hands, diaphragm, ribs/breasts and thymus gland.

When we are having problems with our Heart Chakra it manifest in life as issues with love, grief, hatred, anger, jealousy, fears of betrayal, of loneliness, as well as the ability to heal ourselves and others are centered in the fourth chakra.

An open heart Chakra manifest first and foremost as balance. The ability to balance as it were is centered here, so if you find that you are not balanced this is a good way to address the issues. This is why love is so powerful. It is within the frequency of unconditional love that we are able to find balance, it can guide and help us when things around us are at their worst. We are the order that we seek.
The term "heart centered" comes from this knowledge. Using it properly frees our Spirit by helping us release all of our fears.
So this is why romantic love relationships are such a catalyst for healing and transformation.

The heart Chakra is Green and is linked the Earths Heart Chakra at Stonehenge.

So before you can free the chord of attachment to someone we must first love ourselves.
If you have not come to a place of self love the cord will quickly be replaced by another or the same one. Because you cannot protect yourself sufficiently...for the most part humans are defenseless on the Astral because we choose to ignore our Chakric system until something goes wrong.

Ask yourselves these questions before you began the visualizations.

What emotional memories do I need to heal?
What relationships current or past require healing?
Are my emotional wounds taking over, causing me to try and control people or situations around me?
Do I allow the wounds of others to control me? How do I let that happen?
What do I need to forgive myself for? Who needs forgiving from me?

These questions I have found bring about self awareness and the proper use of visualizations come from a place of complete awareness, or we are not empowered enough to make the changes neccesary. Because self awareness is the basis of faith...and faith the assured expectation of things to come, is needed to manifest...which ultimately is what we are seeking when we visualize.

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posted July 07, 2010 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libran lady     Edit/Delete Message
Wow thanks for this.. I have been trying this with limited success after reading aboout it in a e-newsletter

I have clung onto (thoughts of)a man for 8 months now and the r/ship was only 6 months!! I wrote about it on here back in Feb (Haunted by lost love or something)

Had no contact since then but the pining has continued. I dont seem to have made any progress at all. Have been cutting the cord like mad but reading this it all makes sense

Guess I have to write out the suggestions then and get to work on my wound..sigh

Oh yes and just to add to the fun Saturn has been conjunct my mars/pluto conj. in Virgo since Oct 09 when this all started (break up that is). Other friendships, one of 10 years, have gone too

Has anyone experience of this, and if you don't mind me hijacking - is this contributing? I have felt so isolated lately but Im trying to make an effort to meet new people but it's been hard

Thank goodness it will ease off in a few weeks! (but move off over 7 other planets in the next 10 years and right through 7th)

Sorry this is so long, it all just came out.. x


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posted July 07, 2010 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for oneruledbymars     Edit/Delete Message
Libran Lady,

Once you are ready this visualization will work like nobody elses business, and you will find that you no longer have relationships in your life with emotional ties that no longer server the purpose of your highest good.
Glad it resonated with you!

Express away with no apologies, thats what this forum is all about luv...

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posted July 07, 2010 04:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libran lady     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks oneruledbymars... I have written them out and am defintely ready to give it a go

I have a feeling my lists are going to be long..

But you have given me a useful starting point..

Im 39 now and I guess in the past I would of went right back to the dysfunctional r/ships but this time I havent. Even tho Ive spent the last 8 months pretty much alone evenings and wknds

Its time. Time to look at stuff I'd rather not face but have to x

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posted July 09, 2010 12:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you very much for the advice!!!

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posted July 25, 2010 03:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
T

This is not really an exercise, but I wanted to share, nevertheless...

I have finally reached a place that the energy my most recent relationship has entered a "dream state." And that is how it feels to me.

When we first split, Everything was raw, all the memories, etc, and I know this kept us energetically connected, however somehow it is different now and I do not feel connected anymore.

When I look back, it is like looking back on a dream, felt like I lived it, felt real, but very foggy and hazzy and VERY disconnected.

Maybe my big-ol eraser worked afterall!!!

blessings

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i have a very simple exercise i use, which may be an nlp thing or just similar to some of theirs. it has worked for me over and over again. i feel healing of my OWN stuff takes place without concentrating on it, and the other person is also able to move on.

i visualize them standing in front of me and then shrink them in my mind's eye till they are small enough to stand on the palm of my hand. i then center in my heart and allow myself to experience the warmth and glow of love and when i am feeling really loving, i blow it towards them (in the palm of my hand) saying their name and inviting them to fly off out of my life to where they will be happy (or happier anyway).

it sounds a little childish in its simplicity but it has worked fabulously for me over and over again. it has removed some serious obstacle-people from my life even when they seemed determined to plant themselves in my face. though i don't always know where they go, those i do know about also seem to experience some improvement in their lives....i have also done it for others but in those cases the problem may move on but unless the other person is working on what attracted them in the first place it is true, a new problem person shows up pretty damm quick.

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posted July 26, 2010 08:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
Kat, I agree, if we dont heal what our issues were with the individual another will show up, offering yet another opportunity for growth.

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posted July 26, 2010 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you so much ladies. xo

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posted July 30, 2010 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunChild     Edit/Delete Message
I've done it before (the cord cutting/ and a relationship like that)- it helped me but it did not do much for him. He is still suffering- and it was his 'fault' too. (alcoholic abuser).... I want him to heal and move on fast - I've been experiencing his pain for years. I've cut myself away, and although I know he is suffering- it may be a long process but not an un-necessary one. It wont benefit him to take away the pain.

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posted August 02, 2010 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks. Everything has turned around completely and unexpectedly and we are back together.

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posted August 02, 2010 01:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee     Edit/Delete Message
Happy for you T. i noticed you haven't been here lately. i had a feeling things were better for you. wishing you the best

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posted August 02, 2010 01:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message
I was just thinking about you. Glad to hear that things are going so well.

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