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Sabine
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posted February 20, 2012 11:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sabine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I read somewhere that black will attract dark entities while attending a funeral. I'm wondering if my violet flame will protect me while attending the funeral. I have no idea what my deceased friend's family religion is and what is appropriate.

White is appropriate for Asian funeral. My friend is mixed of white and Asian. He committed suicide and this will be my very first funeral. I don't want to offend the family if I don't wear black. And perhaps I might offend them if I do wear black...

Anyhow, if I wear all black clothes, how do I psychically protect myself..I will utilize the violet flame but anyone else has any other suggestions and thoughts on this.

The funeral is tomorrow.

Thanks.

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hippichick
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posted February 23, 2012 09:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You dont need to wear black necessarially, just like nobody wears formal clothes to church anymore...

Are they Buddhist? If so, their funerals are very elaborate and long, very beautiful, tho. IF they are, I would google and find out, otherwise, Christian, Cahtholic, I would not worry about black, just something demure, and proper.

THINK AMISH!!!

Funny, I wear black as a manistay in my wardrobe, (Scorp asc) and not to my knowledge do I attract negative energy, but as a Pisces I absorbe all anyway, so I wouldnt know about wearing black.

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hippichick
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posted February 23, 2012 09:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BTW I would hate to think there are dark entities lurking at a funeral, unless the person was a baddie him/herself anyway.

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hippichick
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posted February 23, 2012 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And I apologize for not being more sensitive, my late husband killed himself, and those are never easy funerals to attned.

I wore a dark, long floral dress for that.

blessins~

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Randall
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posted February 24, 2012 03:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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Sabine
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posted March 04, 2012 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sabine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks everyone for your response. The person was highly loved by a lot of people. I don't believe it is a sin if one commit suicide...just choosing to end the lessons or experience sooner which is okay. I felt sad that he was in so much pain that he couldn't talk to anyone about it. I had felt suicidal in my lifetime and had attempted twice--once as a kid and another a few years ago...I was in so much pain. Somehow, my angels didn't want me to go and prevented me from really going. I understand his pain--he lived such a hard life. I think he's an empath and I too absorb people's energy. I've been secluding myself to reenergize myself cause I was feeling nuts.

It was really weird to see an open casket. I felt my friend's energy at the funeral. He had touched my neck twice making me wonder what was going on. I was in a lot of tears because I felt his immense pain. I also felt my friend's pain who was much closer to him.

Thanks you all for your kind words and no offense taken.

Many blessings!

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hippichick
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posted March 07, 2012 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Blessins to ya!

When my husband killed himself, everybody was aghast at me not being devestated, (we were going thru a divorce...)

Nope me say, I have to respect an individual's decision...

It is, most certainly, that the "survivors" of a suicide get the brunt of the pain, the stigmatism, etc.

I am happy it was an uplifing experience for you~

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T
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posted March 07, 2012 02:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Randall
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posted March 26, 2012 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Glad it wasn't negative.

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MataMoros
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posted March 27, 2012 01:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MataMoros     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by hippichick:
Blessins to ya!

When my husband killed himself, everybody was aghast at me not being devestated, (we were going thru a divorce...)

Nope me say, I have to respect an individual's decision...

It is, most certainly, that the "survivors" of a suicide get the brunt of the pain, the stigmatism, etc.

I am happy it was an uplifing experience for you~


Usually, when everyone is against you it is actually showing that you are responding in the better way.

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MataMoros
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posted March 27, 2012 01:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MataMoros     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Sabine:
I read somewhere that black will attract dark entities while attending a funeral. I'm wondering if my violet flame will protect me while attending the funeral. I have no idea what my deceased friend's family religion is and what is appropriate.

White is appropriate for Asian funeral. My friend is mixed of white and Asian. He committed suicide and this will be my very first funeral. I don't want to offend the family if I don't wear black. And perhaps I might offend them if I do wear black...

Anyhow, if I wear all black clothes, how do I psychically protect myself..I will utilize the violet flame but anyone else has any other suggestions and thoughts on this.

The funeral is tomorrow.

Thanks.


The problem is that you read somewhere...Trust that there is a higher power than a piece of paper or text over a computer, that lets you wear what you want to a funeral. Whatever makes you feel right.You will know. If you listen to your self.

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Venus
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posted March 27, 2012 04:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
dark blue/navy blue, or grey could be good alternatives to black!

sorry about your friend..

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