this book is really great. here are some notes on aries north node from it if others are interestedtendencies to let go of
seeing oneself through others eyes
debilitating selflessness
being mr or mrs nice
obsessive attachment to external harmony
"*** for tat" mentality
need for justice and fairness is a bottomless pit
a trap is an unending search for an ideal, commited partnership
the feeling of completeness is only found individually
theyll never gain enough approval from others to have the permission to be themselves
they must take a risk and pursue the activites that are meaningful to them
once they go in their own direction, the right people will come into their lives
aries really want to experience harmony, fairness, and support with the partner they love
they need to be their own partner first
by getting to know themselves they begin to do the thing that bring them joy
when they treat themselves fairly they achieve the sense of balance and justice they seek
they are leaders, pioneers
they have the gift of seeing from the others point of view
in past lives, they made others bigger and stronger because they infused all their energy in supporting others
a lot of "householder" lifetimes
in the process they developed tremendous awareness and sensitivity
they also have ulterior motives: if their partner did well, so did they.
if Bill meets a Aries nnode and says "hello jim!" then jim is blown over! he feels overwhlemed by the amount of energy. the natives have a weak sense of identity and are affected by others moods and ideas
these folks need a lot of time alone to get to know themselves. they need a specific time of each day when they can talk to themselves. their first challenge is to find out who they are.
they have a tremendous amount of love stored up from past lives. they came into this incarnation feeling loved by others. they percieve who others really are and celebrate that truth. in that state they feel totally high because they are fully appreciating and celebrating the glory and strength of the other person. the challenge is to see the same beauty in themselves.
if others violate their space they become angry. if they are trying to give when they feel drained then this is a superficial harmony.
they dont want to be with people when their dark side is showing - it doesnt reflect the supportice, loving person they feel they should be.