posted August 21, 2002 01:19 PM         

some info i guess might be helpful, so, i'll give it a shot..i have a friend that somehow or another we have a very strong what i like to call connection....i sometimes know what he is "feeling"...i think thoughts before he can voice them...i have very vivid dreams about him, some have even led to marriage,my dreams that is ha...we are both currently involved with other people, and i feel that we both try to "turn our backs" on one another, yet, that dim glow of a deep fire keeps on burning, and we end up facing one another once again...at any rate, i'm rambling...but would find it EXTREMELY interesting if someone would form an opinion on this for me? Like the chart reading that I have read...

some facts...

He was born in Blacksburg, Virginia, on February 12, 1959..don't know the time though..

I was born in Roanoke, Virginia on December 16, 1970 at 1:58 pm

posted August 21, 2002 02:10 PM         

my friend is involved in a relationship with a person who leads a double life and is basically using him as a front in order to lead this life...

at any rate, we came to know each other, actually we have known one another for a long, long time...20 years to be exact...but a little over a year ago, a terrible accident involving a mutual friend brought us "back" together...we have continued this friendship but i just feel this nagging ..in my heart in my head..that there is more to this than meets the eye...

i have found over the past year, that i am changing, my whole thought processes, my senses are becoming more alive and more in tune to people around me, and i feel a connection with us that i can't explain nor fully describe...

posted August 21, 2002 04:27 PM         

you're not by any chance the same bernadette who posts on Galen's website are you? i ask because your astro signature looks familiar as someone on Galen's site.

just curious.

posted August 21, 2002 04:59 PM         

what is an astro signature? my birthdate and birthtime?

posted August 21, 2002 11:04 PM         

at first look at your chart, i know that you are one tough cookie. and i feel that you continue to go through heartache. *hugs* the universe does not bestow lessons that we cannot learn and move on, if these small words are of any consolation to you. the stars have certainly empowered you with the powerful will of taurus rising with saturn in the 1st house. linda calls taurus rising the "steel magnolia" of rising signs. isn't that lovely?

you also have an 8th house sun squaring pluto (at the aneretic 29th degree) in the 6th, indicating that there have been circumstances involving challenges in regards to sex and health.

neptune sits in your 7th house, along with several others. but i note it particularly here because there is a tendency to idolize partnerships, or a willingness to surrender the will to it due to illusions or dreams. neptune here also likes to think that the other side is greener, and doesn't like to face the demons at home.

your friend's neptune also sits in your 7th house of partnerships making aspects to your inner planets, hence the dreams and unspoken communication. but you must not distract yourself and spend so many hours a day thinking about these dreams, and not spend the energy on working on what you have at hand.

looking at both charts together, i can see that there certainly is attraction, but i cannot say that entering a relationship with this man will be smooth sailing, as he has a full plate of his own karma to work with in this life.

to be honest, i really believe that you both have so much to work on within yourselves first before you can pursue a relationship with each other. because in a sense, with all the things you are both working on in your lives, finding the energy to make a relationship requires a lot more than attraction and dreams.

i highly encourage you to continue your spiritual studies and to learn more about yourself. astrology is a wonderful subject and tool that will help you learn more about yourself, your soul, and ultimately, how everything really does come together in the end.

best.

posted August 22, 2002 08:46 AM         

I continue to sit with a broken heart...for the past 8 years or so especially have been difficult, but I have perservered through it, why I don't really know, other than not knowing any different or any better...

Yes, I agree that he has much on his plate as well, which to some point I believe is the reason for this "turning his back" or lack of communication to me at times, I think he becomes confused and rather than battling this confusion he chooses to run away from it for awhile..but never a long time away.

This was truly amazing and I am ever grateful to you for doing this for me, it is mindboggling the gifts that some people have AND use not just for themselves, but for the betterment of others...

when I have time I will have to post some of the dreams that I have had about him, I think you might find them to very interesting...as I have have had at least 3 dreams, from past times to come true--not about him, but other things in my life, they were highly symbolic..

THANK YOU!!