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Mystic Melody
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posted February 08, 2011 10:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What aspects to the AC say they are attracted to your looks/demeanor? If they are squares, opposites, conjunctions does that mean they are NOT as attracted? Does it have to be an easy aspect? Is it better to have no aspect than a square aspect? Does it depend on the planet involved?

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posted February 08, 2011 10:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
can you elaborate on this question?

im not sure i understand it well,

i have two asc aspects (moon and pluto)

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posted February 08, 2011 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If I understood correctly,for example,gal who has gemini mars,could be attracted to gemini asc boy. He embodies,literally,what she finds attractive.

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posted February 08, 2011 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, Venus. Yes, I am talking about synastry aspects to the AC. I have heard that aspects to the AC cause attraction. I have also heard that in general it is better to have challenging aspects with a partner, than no connections. Therefore, if the aspects/connections you have with someone's AC are mostly squares and opposites, though you have a lot of them, how will that play out? If their Venus (say the man's since VenusDiSirius brought up the Mars being the woman's ideal) is square to your female AC, for example (I'll have to check some charts to see which planets) then will the man feel uncomfortable with your looks even though he notices them? Does that make sense? Or if his Venus is opposite your AC, he will be more attracted since opposites attract? I guess I am wondering if squares to the AC actually make people NOT like your looks and if it would be preferable to have NO aspects to AC rather than squares to AC or if having the squares helps... and what the challenges are to the square aspects to AC.

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posted February 08, 2011 03:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Planet that is squaring asc,often hits ic/mc,still angle connection,very strong.
But,man's ideal doesn't have to correspond to gal's asc. If he has taurus venus,for example,he will be,mostly,attracted to full,voluptous,sensual gals=girls don't have to be tau asc. But,if his venus falls on her asc,she is the one infatuated with his looks. If his venus hit her MC,it could be even strong,cuz there is air of ideal and perfection about him,he is like god. Where is ur venus?
Sun is also good on asc,very harmonious.

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posted February 08, 2011 03:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just from my experience their Venus was on my asc and they adored my looks and I loved theirs, mutual admiration society, both male & female.

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posted February 08, 2011 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for matt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I find Cancer/Capricorn ascendants the most attractive as they land in mt 7th/1st houses respectively. I do find Cancer more attractive, though.

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posted February 08, 2011 04:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for heavenlyhera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What I've observed a little, not just in my relationships but others too. Is that usually it feels like it there is a pretty good connection (with Mid-Asc aspects. Just not with the square though) I swear I've seen this so much. Of course there are other aspects you have to take into account. But I just feel like the mid-asc one slightly pegs it.

I do think moon is my attraction though. I will be attracted to anyone with Gem rising, Gem Sun, or Gem Moon. I feel like every time I see a Gem out on the street, I am like.."Oh man that looks really good." LOL When someone tells me to describe my ideal guy. I'll tell them he has to be witty, quick, thinner body but still athletic (abercrombie look alikes are gross), but the main thing I look for is a guy who looks intelligent but still has that lean body with nervous energy thing going on LOL. Oh and he has to have multiple personalities

I also think the moon-midheavens are good to rely on. And so is the Sun-Midheaven.

But I could be crazy. But it feels like a majority of people I know who have meet some great person they think is sizzlin'. There is usually some closeness with the asc is regards to midheaven, sun, or moon.

Any of those paired together. And I feel the Asc-Mid is strongest when it's a conjunct or trine.


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posted February 08, 2011 06:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Planet that is squaring asc,often hits ic/mc,still angle connection,very strong.
But,man's ideal doesn't have to correspond to gal's asc. If he has taurus venus,for example,he will be,mostly,attracted to full,voluptous,sensual gals=girls don't have to be tau asc. But,if his venus falls on her asc,she is the one infatuated with his looks. If his venus hit her MC,it could be even strong,cuz there is air of ideal and perfection about him,he is like god. Where is ur venus?
Sun is also good on asc,very harmonious.

I didn't even THINK of the fact that a square would likely hit the MC in many situations! Of course! This is why I love having these discussions. Thank you so much. Unfortunately, his Aries planets that square my Cap moon are not at all conjunct my IC. His Aries Sun is at 18 degrees and my angle is about 7 degrees into Taurus.
His sun, merc, and venus are all square my AC by about 4 degrees. I also have Mars in the first house so Venus in Aries boys have always liked me, though I don't feel very secure with them.

My Venus is in Libra conjunct my Uranus, it makes an grand air trine around with my Aqua Mars and Gemini Saturn. My Cap moon and Cap AC square the Libra/Virgo "stellium" (using that term loosely since it spans two signs/two houses 8th/9th but all within 10 degrees).

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posted February 08, 2011 06:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lonake, well maybe I would do well to find a man with Venus in Capricorn conjunct my AC. That would also make my moon happy.

Matt, lol speak of the... so how old are ya, Matt? *bats eyelashes* lol Not that using my Libra Venus square energy will work on a Capricorn AC or Sun male who immediately writes me off without ever experiencing my Cap moon. (Moon in the 1st house, Matt, so a nice Cancer feel to the Cap AC hehe, you are probably in your twenties, too young for me. Not many Cap energy men are still single in my experience.)
Hera, your response is coming next...

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posted February 08, 2011 06:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hera, oh I feel the same about the Gemini thing. I think I would like a Gem AC. I understand completely. Yes PLEASE.

"I also think the moon-midheavens are good to rely on. And so is the Sun-Midheaven."

Do you mean midpoints there??

Ok, as for the AC aspects... sun,merc,ven square within 4-5 degrees.
You said: "people I know who have meet some great person they think is sizzlin'. There is usually some closeness with the asc is regards to midheaven, sun, or moon"
Are these not considered "close" because they are more than one or two degrees? Also, they are a square which is what has me wondering... is a square to the AC a good thing or "bad" thing? and what would the "bad" manifestation be? He seems to like my pictures since he contacted me so the square can't be too bad... will my looks start to grind on him after time or something? How does this square energy manifest when it's the AC?

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posted February 08, 2011 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for heavenlyhera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Mystic Melody:
Hera, oh I feel the same about the Gemini thing. I think I would like a Gem AC. I understand completely. Yes PLEASE.

"I also think the moon-midheavens are good to rely on. And so is the Sun-Midheaven."

Do you mean midpoints there??

Ok, as for the AC aspects... sun,merc,ven square within 4-5 degrees.
You said: "people I know who have meet some great person they think is sizzlin'. There is usually some closeness with the asc is regards to midheaven, sun, or moon"
Are these not considered "close" because they are more than one or two degrees? Also, they are a square which is what has me wondering... is a square to the AC a good thing or "bad" thing? and what would the "bad" manifestation be? He seems to like my pictures since he contacted me so the square can't be too bad... will my looks start to grind on him after time or something? How does this square energy manifest when it's the AC?


Sorry didn't mean midpoints. I meant Midheaven.
So sun, merc, and venus square his or your asc?

Ok. I shouldn't admit this but I have been in way to many relationships. Even ones I wasn't attracted in. I found all of the time, his asc conjunct my sun. Turned me off. Big time.
Here is the weird part. In psychology it's been noted that we tend to go after people whose looks resemble ours in a way. Or have a certain characteristic that fits us. I've been really really attracted to guys at first whose asc who squares my sun. But then at the same time there is also something..Which I can't put my finger on about Asc square sun that really puts me off from wanting anything long term. I may be mesmerized by them at first. But then overtime it just doesn't feel right. And maybe it's like that psychology thing..At first we think we want something different and complex. But then eventually we grow out of it because we realise we need something true to ourselves.

But it's completely different for everyone and of course other aspects always help . So please please do not base it off what I say. This is only from personal experience. And from a few good friends who I've done charts for

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posted February 09, 2011 08:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystic Melody     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've heard some similar studies! Oh no, I wonder if that means he won't like how I look over time. As long as we can be friends and hang out and do frisbee golf and stuff like that, I'll be happy! I need an Aries activity partner. If it ends up more then that will wonderful too!

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posted February 10, 2011 02:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for matt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha, well I'm actually a Sag Asc at the 29th degree.

I also agree with the MC and aspects too. They have also cause severe atttraction.

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posted February 10, 2011 02:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
unfortunately i fear i have nothing to offer to this topic, as im not sure,

in our synastry i think my planets aspect her asc stronger.

her planets aspecting my asc:

Pluto square ASC
Venus trine ASC
Mercury Oppose ASC

my planets aspecting her AsC -

Moon Square ASC
pluto trine asc
saturn & neptune oppose ASC

its too wide aspect but the shoe fits a bit with the description -

Venus square ASC (7 orb)

i think it may be worth considering aspects to the ruler of the asc for attractio ntoo.

anyone have any idea which of us is attracted to who more based on those asc aspects?

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posted February 10, 2011 03:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ur asc synastry looks balanced,bit of feminine essence,bit of outer,or outrč pluto's charm..and messedupness . It is always good to trigger gal's moon;to make connection to gal via moon. Same thing with boy,only venus.
But,I am really sceptic when I see synastry with squared moon(by planet,not point)

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posted February 10, 2011 03:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
when you say via moon, do you mean my moon aspecting her placements or her moon aspecting mine?

we have my moon conjunct her venus, and her moon trine my venus.

her venus opposes my venus

and her sun-moon midpoint conjuncts my DSC

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posted February 10, 2011 03:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
U know how is said,every planet is important... But,when u dig for core material,u will find,in girl's case,her moon and venus closer to it,than her sun,or mars... Girl's net is emotion-weaved. So,to touch gal's moon! In ur case,by venus,but that's really fortunate aspect. On more general note,I mean aspected by sun,for example.
Sure,it is also strong when boy makes contact with his moon. But,I find Sun better for that.Or Mars.
I like venuses in oppo! Very stimulating! One always thinks that there is more to partner... More sweets! Attraction is compelling,endures.

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posted February 10, 2011 03:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for letram     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks for your contribution Venus! that made me feel really positive

she aspects my sun with about lets see..

1..2...3..4 planets.

her sun oppose mine, her mars/saturn/jupiter trine my sun

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posted February 10, 2011 05:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bonadea33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mystic Melody,

If you are ASC Taurus and he is ASC Capricorn, in that case is important:

Your Venus in good aspect with his ASC;
His Saturn in good aspect with your ASC.

Important is also:
Ruler of his DESC in good aspect with your ASC;
Ruler of your DESC in good aspect with his ASC.

Venus, Moon or Jupiter conjunction ASC, without some square with Saturn or Uranus.

I have seen by President couple (previous): her Saturn conjunction his ASC.

and more...

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posted February 10, 2011 08:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bonadea33     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think, it is not important how we look like (ASC), but our DESC shows who likes us and not, we like.

Planets in 7th show, what kind of people like us: my Sun in 7th and ruler of 7th, Mars in 10th is the combination of somebody successful and sunny (man). I know many Leo people, just because my Sun in 7th. This combination makes me stronger than I should be, because other people hold me alive.

Somebody with Venus in 7th will attract good looking people.

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posted February 10, 2011 09:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Gemini Venus in the 7th.I don't care how they look,just how they talk

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posted February 10, 2011 09:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for libranabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
If I understood correctly,for example,gal who has gemini mars,could be attracted to gemini asc boy. He embodies,literally,what she finds attractive.

I just went to check something and whoa! My mars is in Libra and my boyfriend has a Libra asc!

Neato!

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posted February 14, 2011 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Benedict Moon*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a question related to this that is completely hypothetical because I don't see how it would work:


Someone has Venus at 29 degrees Leo and the other person has their Ascendant at 0 degrees Virgo....is the attraction still there? It's a conjunction, I know, but with two very different sign energies.

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posted February 14, 2011 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for specialistangel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When the ascendant is on the cusp, it goes bother ways.

SO, it's also a 29 degree Leo ascendent.

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