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posted April 26, 2011 11:28 PM            

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What in a chart would indicate a late bloomer and/or delayed sexual experiences? Saturn in 8th? Something else?

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posted April 26, 2011 11:35 PM            

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That's one. Late bloomer is always Saturn/Cap.
Mars/Saturn
Venus/Saturn
Sun/Saturn
Moon/Saturn
Saturn 1 5 7 8
Strong Capricorn influencing same.

But Capricorn is highly sexed, so that's another thing. They can turn quite hedonistic. Work hard and play hard type.

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posted April 27, 2011 03:37 AM            

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That's ********
I've got saturn in 8th (squ ven)and I was no late bloomer in that department.

My daughter has sat in cap(5th) and she wasn't late either.

I know a few moon con sat people and they weren't late,

the only 28 yr old virgin I knew had sun, merc, sat, plu in libra and get this ...she had venus in sagittairius

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posted April 27, 2011 03:48 AM            

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I am a late-bloomer and I have all the aspects mentioned above :
Sun sq Saturn
Moon opp Saturn
Venus & Jupiter trine Saturn
Mars sq Saturn
Pluto sq Saturn

My Saturn is in the 11th, which is a social house.
It basically makes me a hermit.

I consider myself Asexual, but in my case it's more a psychological trauma than a real choice.
I have major issues with sexuality.

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posted April 27, 2011 03:55 AM            

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Venus and Jupiter trine Saturn could reflect a stable and supportive older partner, can't remark on how long it may last, but everyone I've known with Venus trine Saturn has had at least a good few solid yrs with an older partner who was quite kind. The Jupiter aspect could add in some kind of friendship there, being able to more easily cross boundaries in terms of dating someone you normally wouldn't. Anyway I just wanted to write that, as the stressed Saturn is calling out to Venus/Jupiter as an escape. Or maybe you have already implemented Venus/Jupiter sign and house in the way you handle stress.

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posted April 27, 2011 03:59 AM            

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Thank you Lonake.
I am still young so I am not fatalistic about it

I know I will need more time than other people in order to "function" normally, but it's okay with me. Saturn is the Lord of Time so I'm patient.

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posted April 27, 2011 04:03 AM            

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Saturn gives rewards, the Venus/Jupiter is waiting in the wings

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posted April 27, 2011 04:04 AM            

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You are so sweet Lonake, thank you for your support.

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posted April 27, 2011 04:24 AM            

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Venus in Cap opposing Saturn, both squaring Jupiter in Aries and whilst I did "it" the first time at a back then normal age (I spose they are younger nowadays) I would consider myself a late bloomer

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posted April 27, 2011 04:26 AM            

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Yrone, Phew I'm not alone ! lol

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posted April 27, 2011 04:32 AM            

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No haha, I am the local cliché "Venus in Cap under fire from Saturn"

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posted April 27, 2011 04:36 AM            

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Hahaha!! Well there needs to be variety on Earth right

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posted April 27, 2011 06:52 AM            

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Originally posted by dysfunctionalmystic:
That's ********
I've got saturn in 8th (squ ven)and I was no late bloomer in that department.

My daughter has sat in cap(5th) and she wasn't late either.

I know a few moon con sat people and they weren't late,

the only 28 yr old virgin I knew had sun, merc, sat, plu in libra and get this ...she had venus in sagittairius

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Capricorn Sun, Asc, Mercury, Mars, Uranus, Neptune, and Lilith here. Also, Moon Trine Saturn and Saturn Square Midheaven. I've been physically endowed since 3rd grade and a highly charged sex drive since forever. ):

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posted April 27, 2011 07:02 AM            

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My son is 26 and a virgin,by choice.I told him to stay a virgin until he married and he listened .
My other son did not . I told him the same thing lol
This son is proud of it .His friends call him the 40 year old virgin .

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posted April 27, 2011 07:03 AM            

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posted April 27, 2011 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by CrazyAquarian:
Naughty....

What in a chart would indicate a late bloomer and/or delayed sexual experiences? Saturn in 8th? Something else?

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I was a late bloomer for sure, Saturn is in the 1st and opposite Venus in the 7th. But I gotta say, I'm very fortunate I waited as long as I did, because I got to know myself because I didn't have the distraction of some boy.

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posted April 27, 2011 04:45 PM            

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I was a late bloomer- Venus conjunct Saturn. BUT like Lonake mentioned, Saturn has it's rewards- I was a late bloomer but also avoided the mishappenings of young sex a lot of my friends who jumped right in experienced. When I did encounter sex for the first time it was great and flowed because I was actually in love. I also have Mars in Scorpio which is probably another factor to consider- I've read Scorps hold out a long time until they think a partner is deserving or worthy. So true

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posted April 27, 2011 04:55 PM            

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Late bloomer is subjective depending on person, culture, background, religion, morals, values, etc. In todays over sexed Western culture, I would think 16 even is generally considered "late bloomer" but general consensus to me is BS. Plus in other cultures, one does not make love until after marriage which sometimes does not occur until mid 20s or later...

Not much happened until 19 or 20 for me, but than lots of exp. all of a sudden after that.

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posted April 27, 2011 06:30 PM            

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I have Capricorn Ascendant, and Venus and Mars in Virgo conjunct. Venus and Mars do not aspect or form a major aspect to my Saturn and I am a late bloomer. I also have trust issues and don't really care to have more than one partner. I'm 25 and can totally see myself as a nun with a sailor's vocabulary .

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posted April 27, 2011 06:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Lonake:
That's one. Late bloomer is always Saturn/Cap.
Mars/Saturn
Venus/Saturn
Sun/Saturn
Moon/Saturn
Saturn 1 5 7 8
Strong Capricorn influencing same.

But Capricorn is highly sexed, so that's another thing. They can turn quite hedonistic. Work hard and play hard type.

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definitely NOT the case. I am ascendant, mercury, venus, jupiter, and neptune in capricorn. always been highly sensual/sexual.

although i do have mars conjunct saturn in scorpio in the 10th plus pluto in scorpio conjunct midheaven. i always liked boys, wanted to kiss and touch. although i'm very mindful of who what when and where.

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posted April 27, 2011 06:50 PM            

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I would have to say an opposition between saturn and mars will do it. it's not having the saturn in the 8th house per se that would cause this, it can, but i would say the saturn transit to the 8th house... when we normally develop sexual fruitation can offset this. i saw how it could have happened to me because i lost my virginity when saturn was in my 8th house, but then again, i have saturn in scorpio. all parts of a chart need to be looked at before we can come to a proper conclusion because this is a very personal thing comming from a very personal planet. personally, i noticed my sex life declined seriously when saturn entered my leo(my 10th house)-went through a period of lonliness and introversion, soul searching, and the opposite sex wouldn't go near me, however, towards the end of leo, i couldn't keep them away from me. saturn is always a thorn in our side, there to make sure we answer to our own karma until we learn.

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posted April 27, 2011 06:51 PM            

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Guys, we're not looking to forecast something in someone's life. We're asking the question what in a chart could reflect the idea of someone being a late bloomer. The aspects and placements I posted directly relate to that.

And you 2 who are quoting me, you're not reading this part: "But Capricorn is highly sexed, so that's another thing. They can turn quite hedonistic. Work hard and play hard type." So that answers the bullsh!t comment nicely.

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posted April 27, 2011 08:03 PM            

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Maybe Eros has something to do with it as well?

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posted April 27, 2011 08:37 PM            

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Just so we are on the same page.... What is everyone's meaning to a late bloomer?

Being a sexual person and DOING sexual things are different.
I consider myself a late bloomer, I hit puberty later than most girls. I also was much older than most when it came to experiences. BUT the 'sexualness' and the drive was there long before.

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posted April 27, 2011 09:05 PM            

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I see it as the timing involved in getting into the dating and mating game, prob the biggest marker is seeing your peers form sexual relationships long before you did, keeping in mind what is too young. For example if you're 16 and have not had sex and half of your class started having sex at 11, then you're not a late bloomer. But if you're in your 20s when you actually start dating and having sex then I think you may qualify. To me, the avg age for this is high school age, around 14-16.

I also don't think it applies to sexual feeling, but to experience, when you get on track. Someone could have had sex at 13 and not again until 20 or so, I would see that as a late bloomer since it's the consistency of it that matters, not the first time exactly. Or maybe they just had oral sex here and there like a lot of young people do, I wouldn't count that either cos they're abstaining from a full fledged sexual relationship. And I wouldn't apply it to people who had been sexually abused or raped, they would not apply to this discussion since their experience is different from the norm and they have special circumstances.

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