posted November 07, 2002 12:46 PM              

About the eyes thing, ya eyes are cool, and I know a lot of dudes who gets chicks just for having amazingly gorgeous eyes, I don't think it's fair. But I usually won't date a chick unless she has beautiful sparkling blue or green eyes, I guess I'm a hypocrit?
Funny Note: Before I read my first Astrology book my parents used to say the saw fire in my eyes when I was angry and I heard the same without provocation from a couple of friends later in life, funny that I turned out a Leo Fire?

posted November 07, 2002 01:38 PM              

Anyway...hair or no hair, its pretty superficial - you might meet someone who looks like a birds' nest and find them irresistable (unlikely, but hey...stranger things have happened!)

posted November 07, 2002 02:03 PM              

Thanks !

That's exactly what I wanted to say... BUTT !
Eyes and hands are great , I agree...but...

posted November 07, 2002 02:07 PM              

Calabrese blood...Italy
I have Italian blood also,my grandparents were from Italy.Toscana.

posted November 07, 2002 05:29 PM              

I dated a guy with a gotee...that was a turn on.
Mr. Cappy has a hairy chest...not loads..but just enough.

To me...I find it strange that a man would remove all of his body hair....it's just strange...not attractive to me AT ALL.

I had a boyfriend who would shave his chest hair...it was disgusting when it started growing back..I told him to either wax it off..or let it grow....none of the shaving crap....when I told him that it didn't turn me on...he grew the chest hair back.

I like men with blue or green eyes...but I have brown..and most men comment about my eyes...which boggles my mind because their BROWN....but they say they're so dark (the brown is almost a brown/black) and my skin is so so fair...that my eyes jump out at them...and they're a nice big almond shape.

My brother is the one with the blue eyes.

Mr. Cappy has blue eyes.

The Scorpio I spoke of has HUGE blue/green eyes and dark hair...

posted November 08, 2002 05:04 AM              

Let your hair grow and you can leave your swimming pants at home!

Let's get hairy! We can cudle up infront of the fireplace and rrrrrrr.

I am not a big fan of hair in some places yet in other places I am but I do wish for a time we won't be so bothered about physical appearances anymore. Changing starts with myself naturally!

Love rules!

posted November 08, 2002 01:35 PM            

Not all SoCal women are vapid or lost on the art of conversation. I was born and raised out in Sunny Laguna Hills before heading to Portland for school and then moving out East for Love and Work.

As for body hair, I do prefer a man that is not furry, but I would have an equally hard time with a man that shaved everything. I like a man to feel like a man. I do have a thing about cleanliness and love men with strong clean hands. I am a sucker for blue eyes and a strong jaw.

I like clean shaven men and there are some men with beards that make my stomach flip. My ex has a full beard that he keeps trim and neat. Damn sexy, especially with those crisp Virgo eyes and bright smile. He always looked 10 years younger even though he is 16 years my senior.

Anyway, my biggest turn offs are men that talk way to much or are too aggressive. I will walk out of date if the man I am with is rude to the help or service people. I also can't stand men that are so into themselves that they have can't even see how ridiculous they really are on the outside.

I am VERY attracted to a man that has one hell of a mind and can laugh easily. Oh yes, he has to also LOVE animals!!!

I am all for taking care of oneself and my person philosophy has always been, "you only have one body and one face".

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"Loyalty to petrified opinion never yet broke a chain or freed a human soul in this world--and never will."

posted November 08, 2002 02:16 PM              

About hairy body, for me the rule is, not much, nor little.
Man's body must have hair in the right measure. When I put my face in a hairy chest it's something.

But there are things that I give more value .
A man should be romantic, intelligent, sensitive, have an interesting conversation, sense of humor and returning to the initial question of this thread,the best lover needs to know what a woman likes in the hour of intimacy. I like a man with a capital M in in the bedroom and a gentleman out of it.

posted November 08, 2002 10:55 PM              

So I have actually seen this thread evolving from telling abt your best lover to a vociferous and lusty descriptions of masculine assets which make you drool.

An observation, this is the fastest populating thread after the one the one that asked to tell your sun sign.

So you guys noticed what women want--

1.Hairy chest guys,hair-less chest guys,chest-less hair guys (oops!)
2.big hand guys,soft hand guys,dexterous hand guys(conclusion-its very imp to have hands to get a woman)
3.Then was waxed hair guys,stubble guys,unstubble guys(woooo-concentrate on hair a lot!)
4.Scent of a guy...some like them a liitle short of reeking others perefer it tidy
5.Eyes of course....better to have them big and some color prefferably brownishly greenishly greyish(i hope i dint any of the hot favourites)
6.The less favourite ones were hairy legs,broad shoulders

....Then there are the ifs and butts

posted November 08, 2002 10:58 PM              

To me the ABC of an attractive man is:

posted November 09, 2002 10:55 AM              

so since every woman prefers something a little different, how are guys supposed to know? should we be approaching ya'll thinking "Oh! I hope my hands are big/small/clean/rough/smooth enough for this one!" that's a rhetorical question, don't really bother to answer it

Hells no! We are who we are, and hopefully there is someone out there who will dig us and want to see us again, just as we are. So we do out best, usually shave, usually trim our nails, usually wear clean clothes, basically we do our best. Yet if it isn't good enough, generally I don't think that many of us worry too much.

I guess my point is that truly girls, we guys don't sweat the small stuff. Oh, ya'll can have your preferences and all, yet if you don't truly take us as we are, you don't truly take us. We know that as much as we might turn some of you off with our attitude, there are plenty of you around who will totally love our attitude, or our jokes, or our looks. So we bide our time for that one girl, yet maybe play with the others in the meantime, see how it goes, spend a few years with this one, a year with that, a few months with Kate, five years with Edith...or maybe we even have our Kate and Edith too Yet we secretly hope and pray and hold out, please believe me, for the girl who loves us warts and all, and who will not seek to remake us to fit her latest copy of Cosmo, who will just let us be. And until then, we will be happy to work the field and tend to the acres...