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Topic: What attracts you to a lover?
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lioneye68
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posted July 17, 2003 06:25 PM
 
N_w, what do you think you're going to rip off?  EEEK! No wonder you're squeemish! No, don't wax, man! If you got it, be proud of it. LL, I don't particularly care for a GREY hairy chest, if that's what you mean...I've just always thought it was masculine for a man to have more hair on his torso. Maybe it's the jungle primate in me (none on the back or shoulders please) It's not manditory, however. I'm just not turned off by it, that's for sure. Hey girls, what about that line of hair on a man's belly that kind of leads straight down...? OMG, I like that.  IP: Logged |
N_wEvil
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posted July 17, 2003 07:01 PM
what? the "snail trail" ?  IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted July 17, 2003 07:20 PM
Is that what it's called? I don't like that name. I'd rather call it the 'treasure trail'.IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted July 17, 2003 07:22 PM
THE HAPPY TRAIL!!!It's one of my favorite things on a man's body.
That and his arms, hands, shoulders, back, and neck...that area in general. And, blazingly truthfully, I rather like a guy to have a little bit of a belly. Not much of one, but not even approaching a washboard.  PS - And I shall reiterate my love of a general slight hairiness about a guy, as well as of a great masculine smell.
Jus' call me Jane.  PPS -
*drifts off to think about Jason* IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted July 17, 2003 07:28 PM
Yeah, good one, Prox. The Happy Trail mmm, mmm mmm-mmm, mmm!  IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted July 17, 2003 08:22 PM
Happy Trail!
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sthenri
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posted July 18, 2003 12:31 AM
proxieme, I understand the masculine scent thing very much.As for the happy trail, you must have fond memories..I don't remember right now, hair is hair it's everywhere what are you going to do? Natasha IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted July 18, 2003 12:37 AM
Natasha, you know...that section of hair in the middle of a man's stomache. It usually starts right under the belly button, and kind of grows inward and down, almost like an arrow...it's very sexy, on a sexy man, that is. Go and get your sweetie right now so you can look.
We'll wait here. IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted July 18, 2003 12:46 AM
Lioneye, you make me blush..no I know what it is but I just don't notice at the time if you know what I mean. The house could be on fire and I wouldn't notice once his shirt is off. There's just too much to see and do..like Disneyland. That's where my mind goes. I'm an Earthy girl and one that doesn't have much of a mind once I feel the love.Natasha IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted July 18, 2003 02:25 AM
You know it's funny but My libra is very verbal but if anything is even remotely sexual he apologies like crazy which is so cute because I wasn't even aware of it. If I bring up anything sexual he is turned off, must be the Venusian influence. I too do not like blatant sexuality but a little verbal chatter is okay. As long as it not along the lines of, "Hey can I check your Oil", know what I mean, hee hee! I don't usually get it. If my LIbra goes overboard he apologies but then just shows me what he means which is twice as nice.As for looks once he gained twenty pounds and I didn't notice, I don't mean to make him feel bad it's only that what he says and does to me makes me go blind as a bat for days on end. Must be my Neptune opposite Sun-blind in love. I have a Scorp friend with a Gemini rising and can she talk. Cableman-Want to lay my cable? I am mean I get so embarassed, but she does it so well and no one takes it seriously. She acts like she's had a few martinis but that's just her personality. Natasha IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted July 18, 2003 09:40 PM
Natasha, I didn't mean to embarress you...I'm sorry. 
I was kidding of course. I didn't really expect you to go find your sweetie and check out his "Happy Trail", (but it would have been a funny follow up post, if you had done that)As for the "innuendo" comments, yeah, Scorpios rule in that area, and a Scorp with Gem rising, well it's probably an art form with them. One of my best buds is a Scorp, I believe with Sag rising, and she's so incredibly candid when it comes to talking about sex, she just cracks everyone up, even old people! I guess she kind of rubs off on me in that area. I can cause a jaw or two to drop now and then. Of course, my Aqua moon loves that shock value too. As long as people arent' using vulgar words, it's not offensive, I think. (and you know the words I mean) So, anymore "Happy Trail" fans out there? IP: Logged |
Nightengale
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posted July 19, 2003 10:11 PM
"Happy Trails to you...until we meet again..."Hmmm. The possibilities are unlimited.
I was just considering what I find attractive in a mate. Albeit a combination of things, I must admit physical attributes are what catch my attention first along with scent. I have a very strong olfactory sense and am turned off by certain odors. A man can be drop dead gorgeous with a heart of gold, but if his scent is off, well, so am I.
Of course, I too would follow a Drakkar Noir Man to the end of the earth. IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted July 19, 2003 11:54 PM
Looks are not high on my list, as long as he doesn't look like Tattoo from Fantasy Island.Natasha IP: Logged |
pidaua
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From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
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posted July 21, 2003 11:37 AM
Hmmmmm, well, I guess I can also say, I am so taken by a man that can accept me being the center of attention without feeling the need to pull me away or get jealous. Sometimes, I worry about that, being with a Leo and all - he has a very commanding presence, but does not like to be the center of attention all the time. He also enjoys watching me hold my own when we are out socializing with others. I watch as he quietly sits back and observes everything (must be that Taurus rising or possibly the Aquarius moon).
It is very sexy to look across the party or packed bar to see him smile over at me and give me a long look, I wink back and we both know that it's all a show and that soon we'll be back in each others arms. Hmmm, that is so delicious.
I also enjoy how he can take charge once we are away from all the people / public. I am very attracted to a mate that can hold his own with me....and my Aries moon. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 21, 2003 01:29 PM
Welcome, Nightingale!  ------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Nightengale
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posted July 21, 2003 10:28 PM
When I say physical attributes I'm not thinking about Arnold Schwartzenegger or anything like that. I have, shall we say unique taste in what I find attractive in a mate. I like soft spoken, slight men. I prefer a scientist over an athlete. Dazzle me with your brain not your braun. And soft hands. 
I don't know why, I just find this incredibly sexy
I think it's the  in me...I like stability and longevity, even if it encourages predictability sometimes. Thank-you Randall. I'm delighted to join. IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted July 21, 2003 11:44 PM
Nightangle, I am Taurus too, and I agree brain over muscle gets me everytime. I can't stand pushy men either, to be attractive is to watch the signs in a woman, I like to be receptive and watch a man notice.Natasha IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted July 21, 2003 11:53 PM
Excess personal criticism is very unattractive so are personal comments, is your hair real? are your eyes real or are those contacts? Nice shirt is that real silk? anything in the way of personal comments..questions about my family background are pretty rude too, it's not necessary on the first outing to know what my father did for a living.Being apathetic is the worst, saying I just have to be there, or how bored you are with the whole thing over and over again, I mean if a man doesn't want to be there, start caring.. When a man is super caring and passionate about what he believes in..doesn't hesitate to talk about how he really feels about his favorite music, performers, artists..his passions and dreams and acts like he cares about people..that's really attractive. A round ball is not attractive, unusual, unique men have personality and are wonderful. Independent financially from family, Confidence which comes from independence, doesn't talk about money or sex right away or flirt openly in public. Number one, remembers the rule that a woman is to attract all the attention in the room and that is up to her to handle, no giving tips, no backstabbing for attention. The man keeps his head and doesn't drink too much and act like a fool. When a man is quiet and soft spoken in public and wild at home, I love it. No pushing me into anything I do not like, and I can change my mind about anything at any time, from the dinner to the movie-all handled with grace and style. Natasha IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted July 22, 2003 01:58 AM
Looks are always the door opener for me, but if the place is a dump inside, or completely empty, I'm gone.
Actually, looks are very relative too. A text-book handsome guy could be repulsive to me if I think he's a slime ball.
Also, a not-exactly-text-book handsome guy could make me weak in the knees if he just...does it for me. It's an elusive thing, it's hard to put my finger on.
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Lost Leo
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posted July 22, 2003 03:42 AM
You Taurus women are straight up looking to have your cake and eat it too  "I want this... but it could change at anytime..." gimme a break! And you all wonder why men never truly understand you IP: Logged |
N_wEvil
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posted July 22, 2003 04:27 AM
Its beginning to irritate that i can't find anyone with half a brain to take out right now *sigh*I suppose thats what makes it all the more pleasant when you do find them....oh *has an idea* IP: Logged |
pidaua
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From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
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posted July 22, 2003 12:05 PM
NW, were you out here recently? I saw that pic of you with Prox, when did you come out to the states?IP: Logged |
proxieme
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posted July 22, 2003 12:10 PM
Whoa - that's the Aqua that I've been talking about; Dubya took the picture (we all went up there when he was out here at the end of June).IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
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posted July 22, 2003 12:16 PM
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N_wEvil
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posted July 22, 2003 01:50 PM
yep, I arrived on the 26th june, stayed with Prox for just about a week then went up to New York and lived off broadway for a week - cool trip I would have tripped around more but my status as a student means i can't afford to get around that much *sigh* IP: Logged | |
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