posted December 22, 2004 10:05 PM              

I have been known to give hygiene tips on dates, or send information in the mail. I gave the ex Gemini hygiene tips for his new girlfriend when we broke up. He was amazed at how fast I came up with them, I am sure she has a disease, and I don't mean that in an emotional way. I knew an Aqua like that who I counselled when he got a STD. At first I thought he was crazy to come to me, and now I am just glad he was honest.

I wish all men came with warning labels, or at least were afraid of me enough to be totally honest, so I frighten them a bit like a doctor does.

Kissing is a turn off,
I really don't like kissing someone I don't know well, I find it offensive.
It says I know you and love you, when you don't even know me, it's fake and it makes me feel like I'm kissing someone's butt to make them like me.

No kissing me anywhere, hugging is great but if a guy insists on kissing me on the mouth within the first three months, without my signals, then I'm turned off forever. It's intimate, and I get too emotional over the memories/scents. It's nothing to do with hygiene, more about personal space.

Since scent is linked to memory, it would nice if we could control how people smell. I even have a memory linked to pert shampoo. I get turned on by the scent of pert!