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Topic: Cancers who are mean
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Ariesrocks!
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posted January 03, 2004 08:19 AM
 
I've met a few cancer men who've been pretty mean. The just say the meanest things! Why is this? Cancer women, I find, are very polite and prone to understatements. But the guys...man! mean, just plain evil.IP: Logged |
Zerep
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posted January 03, 2004 09:17 AM
Maybe its their crab shell or another of their crabby moods  . Some you just have to get to know better I suppose. IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks!
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posted January 03, 2004 09:22 AM
Crabby moods eh? it's more like CRAPPY moods.IP: Logged |
Oxychick
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posted January 03, 2004 09:31 AM
I wouldn't say they're evil, but I am  uncontrollably at your statement: quote:
Crabby moods eh? it's more like CRAPPY moods.
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trillian
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posted January 03, 2004 10:44 AM
I know an Aries woman with her moon in Cancer, and her temper is like a fire-cracker with dead-eye aim. When you disagree with her, when you don't say what she wants to hear, she is capable of saying very nasty things that she knows aren't true, they're just intended to wound and hurt.Now, I'm a triple Aries with Cappy moon and know something about the Aries temper, it's lightening quick and over just as fast, but I always struggle to be valiant even while angry and not wound someone unnecessarily. With the woman of whom I spoke, I attribute her bent towards nastiness to that ellusive Cancer moon. IP: Logged |
juniperb
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posted January 03, 2004 11:05 AM
Hmmm, my Cancer has an Aries moon and I attribute his flashing temper to his moon .It is quick to flare up and as quick to get over it while I`m still stewing on what just flew out of his mouth juniperb  ------------------
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Oxychick
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posted January 03, 2004 11:11 AM
Yep, those Aries Moons do get a little snippy from time to time. IP: Logged |
juniperb
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posted January 03, 2004 11:56 AM
LOL snippy  ------------------
If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans. ~James Herriot IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks!
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posted January 03, 2004 12:33 PM
I don't know why cancers have to be so mean? what IS it about them that make em say such horrible things?
Cancer sun virgo moon= biggest jerk I've ever metIP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted January 03, 2004 04:06 PM
That just goes to show you, it's all up to the individual. My daughter's dad is a Cancer man with a Virgo moon, and to this day, although we haven't been an item since 1991, he's still one of the kindest people I know. He'll do anything for someone in need, even a stranger. Of course he also has Pisces rising, so that probably factors in to it.Actually, I work with a guy right now who I'm sure is a Cancer. He's so impatient, sarcastic, defensive, always brooding or pouting or calling someone an idiot, and describing in full detail just how much of an idiot they are. I knew a Cancer man who was very abrasive and cruel as well, but he was a scrapper. Big muscular guy to loved to get into fights and he would beat the living crap out of his opponents (or unlucky shmuk who happened to look at him the wrong way). I always had him pegged as an Aries rising. No idea what his moon was. I think with Cancer, it's REALLY dependant on what kind of family life they had growing up. It's the sign most vulnerable to childhood hurts and dissappointments. If there were many, the hard shell becomes very very hard. IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted January 03, 2004 04:51 PM
Check this out. I've had the worse experiences with Cancer men. At first it's cool, but if they don't get what they want once they expect it... they are SOOOOOO VINDICTIVE...  You want to talk about a guy who acts upon past hurts? Mike Tyson is a Cancer.
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lioneye68
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posted January 03, 2004 09:46 PM
Yeah, so is O.J. Simpson.The dark side of the moon is very dark indeed. IP: Logged |
trillian
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posted January 04, 2004 04:47 PM
You know, the woman of whom I spoke earlier, I'll have to check her chart if I can find it, and see if that Aries Sun is Square her moon. That could be part of the culprit...juniperb, does your Cancer have his moon squaring that sun?My birth-mom is a Cancer, we are such vastly different people, but she is one of the sweetiest, kindest people on earth. People love her and are always attracted to her gentle energies. lioneye makes some very good points. IP: Logged |
WychOfAvalon
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posted January 04, 2004 05:24 PM
My husband is a Cancer. He's a big softy when it comes to our son, though. But... he does seem to really hold grudges, can be vindictive, enjoys thoughts of revenge with people that have hurt in the past, etc.------------------
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astro junkie
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posted January 04, 2004 10:46 PM
That DASTARDLY Moon!!! I've always cursed my Cancer Moon. As you guys have said here, Libra does not like to admit she is more emotional.Ironically, I literally feel married to the Moon. The first thing I do when I step outside, day or night, is look up to find the Moon. To hear what it is saying to me, what it wants to show me. How the world will be that day. NOTHING makes me feel ecstacy like when I see that big orange Moon rising in the early evening. I can't explain it, except to say it's the ultimate high. I've made promises to those Moons. But then I curse it sometimes, frequently wonder what our Earthlings would be like without it. Imagine that... imagine how different we would actually be without it. I frequently wonder if we would receive clearer frequencies without the Moon's waffling interference. Need more proof of it's influence? OK... these are NOT vindictive people like the aforementioned. But there is no doubt they are Moon Loonies, with Cancer Sun & Moon: Robin Williams
Phyllis Diller
Ross Perot
Courtney Love
Camilla Parker Bowles Need I say more? .gloria ------------------
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sthenri
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posted January 04, 2004 11:51 PM
Cancer women can hold their own too in the sarcstic remark department. I have a Cancer sister, with mercury in Leo opposite her Aqua Ascendant, Venus in Virgo opposite her Moon in Pisces and she is also pretty unreliable. But very sexy and beautiful, she runs a health spa. I have held grudges for a long time, and realize now that people can't control their mouths.Cancers and Cancer moons are hard as rocks sometimes when it comes to defending their inner hurts and wounds which they are sure exist. My sister for example always wore tons of makeup as a teenager even though she looked better without it, she couldn't believe anyone would want to look at her real face. It was a psychological defense. And she would get really mad if you saw her without it even if for a minute. I told her I thought she was weird for that since she looked the same to me, and she let out a few sarcastic, personal remarks and I never criticized again! Natasha
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astro junkie
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posted January 05, 2004 12:01 PM
Man!It wasn't until relatively recently that I accepted that there would be no way to make "everybody" love me. As one friend told me, someone may dislike you for something as insignificant as the shape of your nose or the shirt that you wore. And it wasn't like I was actively going out there and trying to make people like me per say, it was a revelation I had to myself... and then I realized the reason was my ongoing struggle with an emotionally distant family, and always trying to fill that void through the world-at-large. It was more symbolic to me than it was a conscious goal I'd actually attempt to fulfill. As for my experience with Cancer women, I've found the absolute most successful at being manipulative hands down was the Libra Moon. .gloria ------------------
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FireMeetsWater
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posted January 13, 2004 04:03 AM
Cancer men... the demise of my existence! It is far worse to be hurt by the one that comes across as the nice guy than one who comes off as mean in the first place. My cancer ex is seen by everyone as the nice guy, unfortunately when the relationship ended that sensitive interior turned volitaile and reacted with the most cruel, almost evil intentions. Definitely served as my turn off to all future cancerian men. IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted January 13, 2004 06:10 AM
YUP! SO Vindictive...  I don't know, it's like THEIR feelings hold more value than YOUR's or something. I know when I was younger, still learning to control my Cancer Full Moon & Scorp influence, I was very indignant regarding my feelings. But male Cancers take it to a new level. IT'S SCARY!! ------------------
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Oxychick
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posted January 13, 2004 07:00 AM
While Cancer Suns can really show you some very sweet moments, you guys couldn't be more right re: strong Cancer influence and vindictiveness! And they say hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. I say hell hath no fury like an upset crab. I knew two cancer sun guys who were also very devious, and they were good at it, for the most part (one is an Aqua Sun/Scorp rising and the other Aries Sun/Leo rising). There's definitely a dark side of the moon. But, I do feel obligated to mention one Cancer Sun guy (Scorp moon and rising) in my life who is just an amazing guy-always patient with a big heart. He was an important figure in my life while growing up.There is a difference in temperament of the women. Cancer sun women in general seem extremely pleasant. But I know some Scorpio Sun/Cancer Moon women who can really sting when hurt.  IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted January 13, 2004 07:41 AM
Yup...You know the greatest line I read regarding my Cancer Moon which became a mantra to me... and finally seeped into my thick skull... CANCERS! Listen up! You cannot expect your emotions to be satisfied if your cups are already FULL! You need to empty your cup so there's room! That's the key. GIVE more... Cancer guys have trouble with this because they don't know how to give without secretly expecting something in return. No wonder their feelings get so hurt and they become so vindictive. GIVE without expecting anything and spare us!  ------------------
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hooked
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posted January 13, 2004 02:03 PM
LOL at astrojunkie's evil red ball thingy.IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted January 14, 2004 12:55 AM
regarding cancer moons, you are so right, give, give. I collect gifts and give all the time..
it's my mantra, give, give...Natasha IP: Logged |
Blazini
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posted January 14, 2004 03:30 AM
I do notice a distinct difference between the Cancerian male and female. The females are very nurturing and fun. Most of the male Cancers are quick to engage in a confrontation  Is it that difficult to be a boy Crab? IP: Logged |
Nerwin
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posted January 22, 2004 10:33 AM
my close friend has sun in sagittarius, moon in cancer and boy does that make a nasty combination!! It literally takes all of my energy keeping up with her.
Like astro junkie said, its like her feelings mater more. Im a pisces so im very sensitive and i am a very feeling person, but she loves belittling my emotions and thinks thats she the only one that matters. Everyday shes like: I know that u broke up too, but of course u cant compare it to MY breakup, coz it was worse for me.. or: when u failed that was okay, nut ME, oh my God it was a disaster!
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all day looong its like that.
And she can be soo rude when shes hurt. It really hurts my feelings, and when I tell her that, she accuses me of being overly sensitive. although it must be said that she gets insulted over the smallest things, like if for example she sees me concerned over someone else, shell get jealous, or if I dont look her in the eyes while Im talking im suddenly a bad friend.
Having said all this let me remoind u that were 22 years old, so were not kids anymore, and Im really not exaggerating, coz my other friends feel the same way.
Moon in cancer is EVIL!! and add that with sag sun (sorry sags, i really love u u are the greatest ppl but in her case the combination is freaky) and we get a woman who is so preoccupied with herself, who admits that her favorite person is herself, and that she is the most important person in the world and no one on earth deserves anything from her.
Again, like asro junkie said: learn to give and spare us!!IP: Logged | |
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