posted February 14, 2005 10:08 AM              

Your a day ahead of me here - okay
Therefore if our lottery results are drawn, here, today - you would already know them, because it's actually tomorrow, for me where you are!!! therefore, you can call me, yesterday! to give me the winning numbers for tomorrows lottery results - today Da Dar........

posted February 14, 2005 10:19 AM              

lol I get it though, I'm just messing with you

posted February 26, 2005 07:11 AM              

Sorry, ben busy, busy the past week or so.

She has swum. lots of hints from her lately that she didn't want too but each time I tried to get near or talk, she has simply closed down and refuses to get into the conversation. I'm not sure if it is due to her Scorp moon or the Venus in Aqua or maybe a bit of both but, it now looks as if she has simply been unable to end things herself, for fear of looking like the guilty party, so has kind of implied that everything is my fault!!!! tried the one last time to sort things last night but, alas, to no avail.

Tarot cards. I started to study them a few years ago but, never got too far and don't know too many people who do them, near me. Do you think they may offer some insights?

posted February 26, 2005 10:18 AM              

This is in the synastry chart, not composite, no?

How far out of orb is allowable? I have neptune at 19 of Sag and my bf has Chiron at 21 of Aries.

Viper, I ma sorry to hear that she "swum away"... Sometimes Scorpio needs to shut down a bit when things get too hectic. She sounds confused and in a very similar situation to me with the new man and her ex-husband. My bf is a Pisces with Scorpio rising, and we went through a quasi break-up and now we are quasi back together, but he needed to back off to sort himself out... maybe she is doing something similar?

Tarot cards have helped me greatly in understanding the influences presently at hand, even in the learning stages (which I am still at!) can help you. I almost feel like my cards counsel me through my various crisis.

I like the Mythic Tarot and the Osho Zen deck personally

posted February 26, 2005 10:35 AM              

Look up on the www.magisociety.com website to see the other links as well if your are interested!! The other links with chiron do point o marriages etc...but the Neptune-Chiron link is the only one that indicates "soul-mate' according to the Magi threory! Hope that helps!

Good Luck and take care!

Hello Viper-man-how are you? I have missed you and am sorry that a reconciliation was not working...that's OK. Her loss.

posted February 26, 2005 11:13 AM              

Geeez, we have A LOT of Chiron activity back and forth.

I also have Venus at 19 Sag... so both my Venus and Neptune are trine his Chiron... and I have Pluto at 19 Libra, so in opposition to his Chiron at 21 Aries. My Chiron is at 5 Taurus, his DC is at 2 Taurus...

I think I need to buy a book about Chiron and investigate this asteriod further! There isn't a lot of info on the web

posted February 26, 2005 11:39 AM              

Often I will see the magical linkages but other more difficult aspects between the couple that will basically nullify the positive links...so you have to be careful when analyzing using the Magi theory.

I like to cross-reference with the other soul-mate indicators that traditional astrology follows...and lastly, your gut feeling to me may be the most important indicator. Although, sometimes, we tend to question our 'instinct' too much and not rely on it as we should. I found it to be the best indicator of all!!

Please don't worry about the tough times...it may be a growth period for you both...just take it easy and relax....one day at a time!

posted February 26, 2005 11:52 AM              

I actually have both of those linkages (in the Declinations) with Mr. Aries, and I would like to think that those Magi peeps are correct regarding their theories about those linkages.

posted February 26, 2005 03:28 PM              

The Saturn aspects with them can be a bit un-nerving but as long as they are not the BIG ones, major ugly Magi Saturn Clashes, I can breathe...a few sexual links thrown in as well rounds it out for me!

posted February 26, 2005 08:14 PM              

viper ~ I'm SO sorry hon for hi-jacking your thread. I tend to get carried away sometimes & go on these funky tangents.

'tiptoes quietly out of thread'

posted February 27, 2005 12:59 AM              

We have some good and bad Saturn aspects in synastry, we have Saturn trine Saturn, and then my Saturn square his Neptune (but does that count? He would have that with everyone born in late 1978, early 1979)... and his Saturn (12 Cancer) opp. my Moon (10 Capricorn).

posted February 27, 2005 10:30 AM              

Take it slow...your instincts may be telling you something and want you to listen. Maybe the growth period is still growing/healing and you are to work on yourself a bit more...improve on what you bring to the relationship (how you relate/communicate with him etc...).

posted February 28, 2005 11:32 AM              

I have banned myself from looking at our charts for awhile!

I just want to let thing take their natural course without trying to find a reason for everything in astrology. It's getting a bit kooky, you know?

posted March 05, 2005 10:13 AM              

Thankyou for the kind offer - As hapens I do have a couple of sets myself but was aleways led to believe not to do your own, as your own bias toward seeing what you want, instead of what is there, could send you down the wrong track? what do you think?

much the same with Astrology - I always kick myself after studying my own or a close friends chart because I'm inclined to look for the more positive than the real issues within a chart.

But if you are offering? Hey that would be great - if you wouldn't mind? Please let me know.