posted March 07, 2005 05:54 AM              

I really really need some advice on how to impress a Cancer Girl. She has a Gemini Moon and a Venus in Leo, Mars in Cancer if this helps.

I am a Pisces, with Scorp Moon/Asc, Venus in Aqua, Mars in Gemini, so I would guess we have a few aspects going on there.

We met at an exhibition and had a very brief conversation before exchanging e-mail addresses for work and have not been out of touch since for 2 months!

I sent her something to arrive in her office on Valentine's Day (a rose and a little party drink pack) and she loved it as she was the only one who didn't have plans that night. She lives 200 miles away from me in Nottingham so its going to be very difficult to cultivate a relationship.

Problem is, shes unique, funny, beautiful, caring, honest, sentimental, fun, crazy and all the things lacking in the miserable grey women that live in London.

I'm prepared for it all to go wrong or not work out, I have been burnt a lot recently so the armour around my heart is very much intact. But she's just so bloody cute and stupid and soppy. Falls into things al the time she tells me. Finds herself in drama by habit. Wants to travel and meet people and seems to love life the way I used to.

Anyway, I am going to see her. Gonna rent a room and go out in her hometown with her. Yes, I want to "you know what" and it will be on my mind, but not the motivating factor at all.

What is the best way to get to this girl and draw out the attraction to really get her going?

Cancer girls? Gemini Moons? Venus Leos or Mars in Cancers, women in general - I beseach you!

Thanks,

posted March 07, 2005 04:44 PM            

Good luck, Swerve!

I know you are a really cool guy,
which means, you deserve a really cool girl.
So just believe that you deserve it, and you will have it.
(Whatever "it" turns out to be, *wink wink)
And, if its meant to be, regardless of any astrological prescriptions, you will know exactly what to say and do, and when to say and do it.
(Again, whatever "it" turns out to be.)

posted March 07, 2005 04:58 PM            

She also has her Sun and Mars in the same sign..she will be a fighter, much more outgoing and more on guard.

One of the harder aspects you two have is with her Moon in Gemini and your Mars in Gemini. That aspect will sometimes cause the Mars person to be overbearing..in this situation, with Gemini being a "talkative" sign, you may need to watch what you say as you can hurt her feelings very easily.

Also...you Venus in Aqua is a more non-emotional type of position and NOT possessive...she has Venus in Leo, a very loving and passionate position. Be careful not to over analyze the love or lovemaking aspect of the relationship ( I do think with your Sun in Pisces and Scorp moon you will have more that enough passion).

Cancer people like to take it slow. They are more afraid of getting hurt that you are. When they start to get close, be prepared for the unexplained withdrawl..let them have their alone time..but make sure you let her know that you are still there..waiting and she will end up rewarding you more than you can every think possible.

Also..Cancer women and men are very Moon phase sensitive. My mom is a double Cancer and my dad has a Cancer moon..I also had a good male friend that was a Cancer with a Leo moon. For some reason ALL of them act weird around the full moon (duh..their rulers) and sometimes will be very emotional or very distant. Better to just let them know that you know about the phase thing. After I explained it to my Cancer friends / relatives I was amazed at how they really started to track their emotions with the moon phase. It helped alot.

Good Luck..and I think you should just jump right into it..well. Pisces style...ease into it and become one with it

posted March 07, 2005 05:24 PM              

We are clingy of course we have to have feelings for you.

If we are bitchty and seem distant it's because we need attention. We might not tell you jsut so we wont annoy you but that's usually why.

posted March 07, 2005 05:29 PM            

I don't trust you on anything because you can't even figure out what you are nor do your words ever make sense. You are a Gemini..THERE ARE NO CUSPS MS. Altantic MYST...we KNOW WHO YOU ARE...

posted March 07, 2005 05:29 PM              

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I wouldn't call Cancer women clingy..

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posted March 07, 2005 05:52 PM              

How are you? I read things with Mr. T are going well again - hurray!

posted March 07, 2005 06:16 PM              

Funny how you are always so quick to lick piduas a** maya.

posted March 07, 2005 06:38 PM              

http://www.astrology-numerology.com/sun-moon4.html#Gemini

4-3 Cancer/Gemini
The combination of your Sun sign and your Moon sign produces a highly sensitive and intuitive personality. Flexibility and adaptability are your strengths and sometimes your weakness, as well. You are tuned in to your world and always eager to please. You are essentially a warm and feeling person, and little escapes your impressionable mind. You are a trusting sort, but after too many disappointments and discouraging experiences, you have a tendency to withdraw into yourself. You enjoy social events and really hate feeling that you have been left out of any group. You have a strong curiosity, and don't mind experimenting. Yet if things don't turn out well on your first effort, you are quick to give up and go back to tried ways. Sticking with an endeavor is not one of your strong points. Your feelings are easily hurt, and until you learn not to let it happen, you'll find yourself in a fuming turmoil most of the time. You're highly flexible and adaptable, but indecision may be a lifelong problem. Even if you don't let it show, internally, you're never very sure of yourself.

posted March 07, 2005 06:50 PM              

I am not angry, just feel sorry for you. And mostly, the words you say and the anger you show hurts no one but you ... the most.

I hope you wake up and realise no one here needs your aggression.

posted March 07, 2005 07:40 PM            

Well...my little intellectually devoid and potty mouth insipid worm.. I don't HAVE to be a Cancer to give advice about Cancers and gemini Moon people.

See, I give advice based on experiences and knowledge. I am not a microbe either, but I did study biology and microbiology for years, which means that I have the right to provide someone with information concerning staphlococcus if I so choose.

Never once did I say "Trust me..I am a Cancer" You did and you LIED...you are NOT a Cancer you are the perfect example of an unevolved Gemini at her worst.

All you have done on this bored is post inane BS in order to see your words once again..in another post. You almost never offer anything of substance, instead going with the little stereotypic BS of "Leo likes to be king" "Cancer women like to Cling"...

On and on...

We all offer advice here based on what we read, what we have studied, what we have gained on an intuitive bases and our own experiences.

Would I give advice based on my perspective as a Capricorn? Hell no..I am a Sag, but I can give advice as to what it is like to live with a Capricorn as my father is one.

So, before you shoot off your little gutter mouth maybe you could sit back and take stock in what you keep posting. Look at it objectively and see if you sound intelligent at all? You don't and we've all been pretty much ignoring your stupidity as you haven't crossed the line in your vulgarity...

UNTIL NOW...so once again..you are stepping closer and closer to getting banned for your actions - in a perfect world you would get banned for being an idiot.

Oh yeah...and I can give my advice on Cancer people and Cancer moons as I am surrounded by them..which you would know if you actually read my post Swerve.

And THERE ARE NO CUSPS....you can keep pretending, because I know you want to pretend there is a reason for your multiple personality disorder..but being born an early Gemini does not consitute as such..

And stalking you? LMAO...how many times do I really post anything on your threads? You have tons here which I keep ignoring because of how insane the content is..But YES.. I will always correct you in GU because you post lies..you are a liar plain and simple, and I HATE liars..

BTW...whether you hate me or like me doesn't mean one thing as far as I am concerned. Get used to me because I am not going anywhere.

Maya,

How are you doing? Yeah, things are going pretty well. I am looking forward to the 22nd when Mr. T finally gets home.

posted March 07, 2005 08:44 PM              

Swerve you seem like a cool dude. A random point to be made is that nottingham reminds me of notting hill.

ok now we're back on topic i swear.

This girl has a fiesty, funky, passionate sun-moon-venus-cancer combination. The only warning I would give you is: don't oversimplify her. She could be one of the most complicated beings you've ever met or will ever meet. Its good that you see your old passionate self in her; in fact that will give you a lot of help in understanding where her words and actions come from.

Seeing as her Sun and Mars are (possibly conjunct) in Cancer, don't underestimate her combative ability. This chick, if riled up, will fight with her emotions; and the anger will take precedence over her crazy zany fun personality. However that's not a bad thing--a girl who knows how to defend herself is better, any day, than one who has low self esteem and will let anyone trample over her. I would know coz I was the second one in that scenario long enough!

Venus in Leo and Gemini moon will really balance out her water passive-aggression (believe me water tends to have this trait, Scorpio moon speaking here). She is liked by the heavens to not have a water moon on top of water sun; as a water moon and sun swerve you would know how that is...and esp Scorp moon can be very difficult. The one concern is that her moon is square your sun, so make sure that your words are not injuring to her emotionally (as Pidaua also pointed out). Although she has Gemini moon, i doubt it will make her emotionally aloof because she has major Cancer influence and Venus in Leo...neither would I say that she is promiscuous or flirtatious as gemini moons tend to be, because once again her Venus is in Leo. Be sure to flatter her lots--not with shallow words, but concrete actions. The flowers on Valentines were the PERFECT example. You've already got her figured out--and made the right move (yay Swerve)!

I would say the Moon in Gem would help de-intensify (I'm pretty sure thats not a word hahah) her complicated Cancer needs and Leo wants. Remember this girl is a mixture of fire and water--no wonder she is so attractive to you. My best friend is a Gem moon and what I have seen with these people is that they can be very very good at playing the shrink: they can listen to everyones problems and talk them through them as well.

posted March 07, 2005 09:09 PM              

Well, the archer is resembling the haley comet more and more each day - his days of orbit and disappearance are growing each cycle (lol).

Even though we are friends now, and even though he pledges to be with me and prove to me that I should give it another try, he keeps DISAPPEARING on me! It is annoying, to say the least. So I have kinda given up on my 'archer' ship coming in anytime soon - even if he is just a friend now, I hate being taken for granted.

posted March 07, 2005 09:44 PM              

Oh and Swerve..when it comes to advice..I would NOT listen to about 99% of what MD says..she is nuts..not to mention she is NOT a Cancer..so she cannot give you the perspective of "trust me".

You claim things like you even know me in person. Thats funny.

I don't really think swerve cares about all this immature women drama crap.

posted March 07, 2005 09:46 PM              

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posted March 07, 2005 05:24 PM
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Being a cancer also trust me on this.

We are clingy of course we have to have feelings for you.

If we are bitchty and seem distant it's because we need attention. We might not tell you jsut so we wont annoy you but that's usually why.

We get moody.

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posted March 07, 2005 05:29 PM
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Ummm...MD, make up your mind..are you a Cancer or a Gemini or maybe you just up and decided to be an Aries LOL..
I don't trust you on anything because you can't even figure out what you are nor do your words ever make sense. You are a Gemini..THERE ARE NO CUSPS MS. Altantic MYST...we KNOW WHO YOU ARE...

And secret garden im not surprised by your answer. I know you run with pidua and her cool forum gang also.

posted March 07, 2005 09:49 PM              

*SMACK*

aaah.. finally got it.

*throws away wasted tissue paper*

I don't fly with anyone. I'm a loner--a cocky b*tch and darn proud of it. I don't talk unless I know what I'm talking about. If you've got a problem you can drive up to Stanford and duke it out with me. And yes thats me showing off my alma matter, the place where pea-brains like you could never make it.

posted March 07, 2005 09:52 PM              

aaah.. finally got it.

*throws away wasted tissue paper*

posted March 07, 2005 09:54 PM              

I don't associate with people who are jealous of my IQ, my beauty, or the amount of money that I make.

So I refuse to answer that, sorry.

Please refer to the Stupid People forum for that one.

posted March 07, 2005 11:24 PM            

Anyway, you will notice that no one called you a b1tch or told you to blank off...you are the one that resorted to that..

AND for the record..if we conducted a poll here to determine the one LL person with major personality disorders..mental problems...

You would win hands down..so I guess in one way, you are a weeeeeener LOL

Secret Garden,

posted March 07, 2005 11:27 PM              

That sounds like something my 5 year old cousin would say to another kid.

And you actually kept my chart for future viewing?

You are definitely stalking me.