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Topic: Sex and Sexuality for the Open-Minded
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peace Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Las Vegas,NV Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 28, 2005 07:23 AM
I have been told by Susan Aiu,a local astrologer,that air signs(Gemini,Libra,Aquarius)are asexual.My Aunt is an example.She's a Libra female,who used to be a man.One her former close friends told me that she always felt inside that she was a woman trapped in a man's body,and like every human,wants to feel "heaven" when she has sex.Her friend also added and I quote:"I give any man credit for sacrificing his sexuality.Because being a woman is hard!.IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 07:29 AM
Um......ok.
------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra *´¨) ¸.·´¸.·*´¨) ¸.·*¨) (¸.·´ (¸.·´ * Lost in the peace of serenity Blind my eyes I cannot see Lost my soul but found my heart Again a time, when I shall start IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 28, 2005 07:37 AM
Peace, I wonder if she has past life memories?I heard somewhere that people that have a woman/man-trapped-in-a-man/woman's-body feeling usually have not recovered yet from their past lives, their past life feelings are so strong that they cannot identify themslves with their current gender and their current life! What do you think?? ------------------ It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves. Carl G. Jung IP: Logged |
peace Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Las Vegas,NV Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 28, 2005 08:39 AM
Peri,I am always curious about everyone's former incarnations whether they were a man or woman.All I know is that my aunt is one of 8 children second to youngest,and she was very close to one of her sisters name Jane(my dad's twin).In fact,after her sex change,she took her sister's name.They were soulmates because when she had the operation her family rejected her at first.But her sister loved and supported her unconditionally.Who knows?,probably they were lovers or close friends in their formers life.Very mysterious!. IP: Logged |
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posted September 28, 2005 08:57 AM
Well, I have an Aquarian Moon and I'm pretty sure I've been a man for the most part - I even sometimes feel as if I should have a penis, kinda like it's a phantom limb; and when I dress up femininely, I usually feel like I'm cross-dressing. Especially in the past...I'm getting over that a little as I age.But (though I know that his may sound contradictory given the above) I feel like a woman, like this is right. And I like sex. I like sex with men. A lot. (Yes, I know that gender identification and sexual preference are vastly different, I was just noting.) IP: Logged |
fayte.m unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 09:54 AM
I have been a woman two times including this one. All the rest(remembered thus far) have been male. IP: Logged |
Pop Producer unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 10:29 AM
Mmm...I don't know if we can say that a sex change operation is the result of having the sun in an air sign... Other factors are stronger I think... IP: Logged |
peace Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Las Vegas,NV Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 28, 2005 10:49 AM
Pop producer, Yes,you do have a point there.Since the 8th house has to do with sexuality.Perhaps Uranus in the 5th or 8th house has possibilties?.Since astrologers claim Uranus is the homosexual planet.Don't forget Venus in Aquarius. IP: Logged |
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posted September 28, 2005 10:51 AM
A tale of two Aquas:Was cuddling in bed with a boy of my same birthdate (Jan 24th) we never actually had sex- just a sensual "bond", one than began literally "at first sight" on the dance floor, before we learned we shared a birthday. (what a shock that was for the two of us!) So we're sharing a pillow and he confesses he has always secretly felt he was a girl; and I confess I have always secretly felt I was a boy. So we lay there in the dark and both understood. IP: Logged |
Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 28, 2005 10:58 AM
quote: Since astrologers claim Uranus is the homosexual planet
I think homosexuality and transsexuality is not the same thing! ------------------ It all depends on how we look at things, and not how they are in themselves. Carl G. Jung IP: Logged |
Quark unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 11:00 AM
The first (and only) girl friend I ever had is now a raging (and bewtifull) dyke. She was the boy and I have allways been the girl. I dont believe in that "your gay because you cant accept your karma line". Its like plato said, we are of the third sex. Dont explain us away with moralising..IP: Logged |
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posted September 28, 2005 11:10 AM
Hhhhmmm.... I have known people who were physically male get a sex change to female...to be either a straight female or a lesbian. Same for Women changing to a male body...some go to women...some chose to be gay men. The lines get blurred. Is there really ever a cut and dried perameter to what is one's so called gender role? I have seen too many variables. I am a variable. Do not fit the usual sterotypes. Hate the damn labels and assumptions!IP: Logged |
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posted September 28, 2005 11:13 AM
Im diffrent, I love who I am, so I wouldnt change my body. I dont care if society doesnt accept me for who I am. I have come here for a reason, and its not a bad one. Im not here to "learn" to be a "real" man. Im here to be me.... It took me forever to figure myself out, a lot of tears, pain and hurt... But I'm better for it. "Know thyself"IP: Logged |
fayte.m unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 11:15 AM
Oh my! How much I know what you mean! It took me alot of years to understand why I did not fit into the standard molds! IP: Logged |
Quark unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 11:19 AM
Being a young one (26), in many ways Im still coming to terms with who I am. I guess the best thing for me has been to associate with "family".... They make me feel real. And they accept me for who I am. There is NOTHING like going out say on a sat night to one of 'those' clubs, step onto the dance floor and just be allowed to be completely yourself for awhile, amoungst other people of similar disposition... its what I live for. IP: Logged |
fayte.m unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 11:19 AM
LeylaLeFay you said: So we're sharing a pillow and he confesses he has always secretly felt he was a girl; and I confess I have always secretly felt I was a boy.So we lay there in the dark and both understood. >>>>Beautiful! now here is where the lines get blurred however...if he wanted to be a lesbian and you a gay man....well that is something I have seen alot of people find strange. Sadly even "family". But not me! Just another variant! Thanks! IP: Logged |
Quark unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 11:25 AM
Hey remember, family doesnt neccesarily mean 'gay'... Queer forever baby Arms wide open to ya'all.... Rememba' never assume anything I fluctuate between boys and (girly boys) on a terribly uneven basis... Except all my gf's (ok i admit again just one mwah!) turn out to be dyke(s)! What is with that? Denial anyone? IP: Logged |
fayte.m unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 11:30 AM
Variety is indeed the spice of life and flexibility and openmindedness is the way to be to taste it all! I am married..to a man... But almost all my friends are gay men..or bi..or at least gay friendly. Same for my husband...except his friends are often dykes too! Or older women with very young lovers/husbands. You have not surprised me yet! Cool! IP: Logged |
peace Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Las Vegas,NV Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 28, 2005 11:32 AM
For all posters, My aunt didn't recently had the sex change.She had the operation done in the 70's.I was born in 1978.She didn't tell me until I was 14 yrs.old.Back then in the 60's and 70's,if you a were trans-gender,gay or lesbian,you were considered an outcast to society.Even worst,psychologists thought it was a mental problem.Truly sad,and yes very judgmental.Society was your decision maker.Quark, I'm glad that you speak for yourself.If you did back then in the 70's.People would have told you to go back into your closet.You Go Girl!
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Quark unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 11:32 AM
As soon as I figure out my pride outfit, I will post a pic (but not of me, just of my clothes LOL!), Im desperately trying to figure out what to wear. And only like two weeks to go (Ahhhhrrrrgggg!!!!!).... Crisis...
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fayte.m unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 11:35 AM
A mermaid!!!!!! If you got the figure for it! OOOOOhhhhh...sexy baby! IP: Logged |
Quark unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 11:35 AM
Peace,People of my age dont realise how lucky they are, but It's still not really to a situation where say I could stroll hand in hand with my lover down city streets and not attract looks... we have come a long way yes, but we have soooo long to go. IP: Logged |
fayte.m unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 11:38 AM
Yes..it is still a long haul before people realize it IS all "normal"...simply variations of humanity. IP: Logged |
Quark unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 11:39 AM
O NO! Im not going that outlandish... i have a little vinyl outfit (pants) and a see thru meshy designer top thingy (pisces blue) But I think im going to wear a print underneath, still a bit cold out... and can allways discard it later! IP: Logged |
fayte.m unregistered
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posted September 28, 2005 11:40 AM
Still sounds very sexy!(the outfit you are going to do!) IP: Logged |