posted November 13, 2021 08:13 AM            

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Originally posted by lizkin33:
Below is something that I've found that is astounded me and it all made sense to me regarding our soulmates. I've remembered time when my e-boyfriend was alive , the first time I've met him , I knew he was my soul mate, even though he prehaps didn't see it back then, then we separated for 6 years. He got in touch with me after such a long period and that time he felt that there was a soul mate connection.
If anyone read this book by Brian Weiss "Only love is real"

There is someone special for every one. Often there are two or three even four. They come from different generations. They travel across oceans of time and the depths of heavenly dimensions to be with you again. They come from the other side, from heaven. They look different, but your heart knows them. Your heart has held them in arms like yours in the moon-filled deserts of Egypt and the ancient plains of Mongolia. You bonded together throughout eternity, and you will never be alone. Your head may interfere: “I do not know you.” Your heart knows.
Destiny dictates the meeting of soul mates. We will meet them. But what we decide to do after that meeting falls in the province of a choice or free will. A wrong choice or missed chance can lead to incredible loneliness and suffering. A right choice, an opportunity realized, can bring us to profound bliss and happiness.
He takes your hand for the first time, and the memory of his touch transcends time, and a jolt through every atom of your being. She looks into your eyes, and you see soul companion across centuries. Your stomach turns upside down. Your arms are gooseflesh. Everything outside this moment looses its importance.
He may not recognize you, even though you have finally met again, even though you know him. You can fell the bond. You can see the potential, the future. But he does not. His fear, his intellect, his problems keep veil over his heart’s eyes. He does not let you help him seep the veil aside. You mourn and grieve, and he moves on. Destiny can be so delicate.
When both recognize each other, no volcano could erupt with more passion. The energy released is tremendous. Soul recognition may be immediate. A sudden feeling of familiarity, of knowing this new person at depths far beyond what the conscious mind could know. At depths usually reserved for the most intimate family members. Or even deeper that that. Intuitively knowing what to say, how they will react. A feeling of safety and trust far grater than could be earned in only one day or one week or one month.
Soul recognition may be subtle and slow. A dawning of awareness as the veil is gently lifted. Not everyone is ready to see right away. There is timing at work, and patience may be necessary for the one who sees first.
You may be awakened to the presence of your soul companion by a look, a dream, memory, a feeling. You may be awakened by the touch of his hands or the kiss of her lips, and your soul is jolted back to life.
The touch that awakens may be that of your child, of a parent, of a sibling, or a true friend. Or it may you beloved, reaching across the centuries, to kiss you once again and remind you that you are together always, to the end of the time.
Listen to your heart, to your own intuitive wisdom, when making important decisions, especially when deciding about a gift of destiny, such a soulmate. Destiny will deposit its gift directly at your feet, but what you subsequently decide to do with that gift is up to you. If you rely exclusively on the advice of others, you may make terrible mistakes. Your heart knows what you need. Other people have other agendas.
You will not always marry you most strongly bonded soulmate. There may be more that one for you, because soul families travel together. You might choose to marry a less bonded soul companion, one who has something specific to teach you or learn from you. Your recognition of a soulmate may occur later in life, after both of you are already committed to you present –life families. Or you strongest soulmate connection may your parent, or your child, or you young sibling. Or your strongest connection may be to a soulmate who has not incarnated during your lifetime and who is watching over you from the other side, like a guardian angel.
Sometimes your soulmate is willing and available. He or she might recognize the passion and the chemistry between you, the intimate and subtle bonds that imply connections over many lifetimes. Yet he or she may be toxic for you. It’s a matter of soul development.
If one soul is less developed and more ignorant than the other, traits of violence, greed, jealousy, hatred and fear might be brought into relationship. These tendencies are toxic to more evolved soul, even if from a soulmate. Frequently rescue fantasies arise with the thought, I can change him; I can help her grow. If he does not allow your help, if in her free will she chooses not to learn, not to grow, the relationship is doomed. Perhaps there will be another chance in another lifetime, unless he awakens later in this one. Late awaking do happened.
Sometimes soulmates decide not to get married while incarnated. They arrange to meet, to stay together until the agreed upon task is completed, and then to move on. Their agendas, their lesson plans for the entirety of this life, are different, and they do not want or need to spend all of this lifetime together. This is not a tragedy, only a matter of learning. You have eternal life together, but sometimes you may need to take separate classes.
A soulmate who is available but unawakened is a tragic figure and can cause you a great anguish. Unawakened means that he or she does not see life clearly, is not aware of the many levels of existence. Unawakened means not knowing about souls. Usually it is everyday mind that prevents awakening.
We hear excuses of the mind all the time. I’m too young; I need more experience; I am not ready to settle down yet; you are of a different religion (or race, social status, intellectual level, cultural background, and so on). These are all excuses, for souls possess none of these attributes.
The person may recognize the chemistry. The attraction is definitely there, but the source of the chemistry is not understood. It is delusional to believe that this passion, this soul recognition and attraction, will be easily found again with another person. You do not run into such a soulmate every day, perhaps only one or two more in a lifetime. Divine grace may reward a good heart, a loving soul.
Never worry about meeting soulmates. Such meetings are a matter of destiny. They will occur. After the meeting the free will of both partners reigns. What decisions are made or not made are a matter of free will, of choice. The less awakened will make decisions based on the mind and all of its fears and prejudices. Unfortunately, this often leads to heartache. The more awakened the couple is, the more likelihood of a decision base on love. When both partners are awakened, ecstasy is within their grasp.

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posted November 13, 2021 12:05 PM            

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Originally posted by saronna:
I believe in God's plan. I believe in destiny Romans 3:8 or 3:11 I can't remember it's on my Facebook photos. I believe in love. I believe in soulmates. Soulmates I agree with Rita Rogers soulmate book soulmates are always mutual & if there's abuse physical abuse they are not soulmates

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What kind of book is that by this Rita Rogers?... I also believe that soulmates share the same energy. Do you think you can share a small extract from that book dear saronna?...