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cute crab
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posted September 17, 2006 11:48 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
can ayone tell me what aspects in synastry really signify real passion and sex

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darkdreamer
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posted September 17, 2006 12:16 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That is something, I also would like to know.

I`d say, following combinations could be a good indicator for passionate love:
Venus / Mars
Venus / Pluto
Mars / Pluto
Moon / Mars
Moon / Pluto
Venus / AC
Mars / AC
Pluto / AC

I guess, the hard aspects would create very extreme feelings: attraction near to insanity or absolute repulson (especially with Pluto involved).
But I wonder: does a Moon-Mars-trine also points towards sexual attraction?

Oh and I think it`s important to look at the natal charts, because you can have a wonderful Venus-Pluto-conjunction with someone and maybe get scared by the depth of passion, if your own Venus is maybe located in Aquarius and square Uranus.

Also I think, you can see certain sparks flying, by comparing the placements of Venus and Mars in the horoscopes.
EX: She: Venus in Scorpio
He: Mars conjunction Pluto
I`ve often seen similiar connections, created in the natals, without even looking at synastry.
EX: My Venus is square my Pluto
His Ascendant (Mars-point) is in Scorpio.
So, I have Venus-Pluto, which shows that I am attracted (Venus) to Plutonians.
And his Ascendant in Scorpio shows that he has many plutonion traits; this might be the reason I feel a nearly insane attraction towards him, even though there is no aspect between Pluto and Venus or Mars in our synastry.


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posted September 17, 2006 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starflower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I cant add much to what darkdreamer has written, I can just verify from my own experience that these are particularly hot connections

Moon opp Pluto- can be an obssessive, extremely intense link, but hot and very sparky too

Venus conj Mars - (I've seen it written that this is the greatest indicator of all for sexual attraction)

Venus opp Pluto

Venus trine Uranus

Mars trine Pluto


Here's a link to one of my favourite synastry pages
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html#Moon%20trine

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libraschoice7
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posted September 17, 2006 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Had these aspects with an old boyfriend, pretty HOT!!!

Venus square Mars
Mars conjunction Ascendant
Venus opposite Pluto
Mars square Mars
Sun square Mars
Mars opposite Sun
Mars square Pluto
Pluto square Moon
Pluto opposite Mars

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posted September 17, 2006 04:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As LC7 said, you go for those hard squares and conjunctions for instant attraction but not necessarily lasting attraction.

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libraschoice7
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posted September 17, 2006 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh it was great in the bedroom, it's just outside we were at each others throats, we would argue about the smallest things too(it also felt like we were both keeping score of things, like "I answered the phone 10 times this week now it's your turn to answer 10 times" real stupid stuff)!

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posted September 17, 2006 05:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LC7 - well I think you just described perfectly the effect of those aspects; can't stand each other out of the bed but can't resist each other in it. Friction is the key, friction produces heat

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posted September 17, 2006 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Otherwise, your mars in the 5th or 8th house of the partner's chart is a killer too.

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posted September 17, 2006 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for and     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 17, 2006 05:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And also the other person's asc running through the 8th can be bad, esp if it hits a node or vertex.

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WaterNymph
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posted September 17, 2006 06:18 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The best is Venus/Uranus - although often fleeting…perhaps that’s why it’s so desirable

Moon/Mars is on fire

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posted September 17, 2006 06:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We have (amongst others):

moon trine venus
moon trine mars
moon sex ac
venus square mars
venus trine pluto
venus opp pluto
venus opp ac
venus sex ac
mars opp pluto
mars sex ac
mars sex ac

Unbeleivably hot. It amuses me cos sometimes I could strangle him but are still turned on by him.

We can't say no to one another.

Not sure which aspects are the hot ones though. My guess its a combination of the lot.

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cute crab
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posted September 18, 2006 02:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my boyfriend n i have these aspects...
its really passionate n i feel like this should never get over....very friendly otherwise in public,but very passionate alone...u know..


Sun Opposition Moon
Sun Square Saturn
Sun Square Pluto
Moon Conjunction Mercury
Moon Sextile Midheaven
Mercury Trine Neptune
Mercury Sextile Pluto
Venus Sextile Sun
Venus Sextile Mars
Venus Trine Uranus
Mars Opposition Mercury
Mars Trine Midheaven
Uranus Opposition Sun
Uranus Opposition Mars
Uranus Conjunction Jupiter
Uranus Conjunction Uranus
Neptune Sextile Saturn
Neptune Conjunction Neptune
Neptune Opposition Ascendant
Pluto Square Moon
Pluto Conjunction Saturn
Pluto Sextile Neptune
Pluto Conjunction Pluto
Pluto Trine Ascendant

i get turned on by what he speaks...it shocks me sometimes..
mars in the 5th house really ROCKS.

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Atlenta
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posted September 18, 2006 03:23 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also, venus in the 8th
and mercury in the 7th or 8th.

..as they say, passion and sex is about communication, without which is just the movements.

Mercury aspecting uranus in synastry is good for mental sparks too.

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darkdreamer
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posted September 18, 2006 11:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OzMeg222,

you wrote: "sometimes I could strangle him but are still turned on by him"
That describes exactly, what I feel for a certain guy. He really gets under my skin, in every kind of way.

I checked your aspects and saw that you included some aspects with very wide orb.
Everyone has their own opinion on that matter, but I think that the narrower the orb is, the more clearly the aspect is felt. That is especially true with aspects by Uranus, Neptune and Pluto. (I`m just voicing my opinion here). Pluto moves so slowly that everyone of your age and a bit older or younger will have a certain aspect to your Venus, and personally I keep the orb on Pluto quite small. I still think an nearly exact Pluto-aspect will have a powerful effect, but if it`s an aspect with an orb of 4 or 5° it`s just not that individual.
So, I listed your aspects in the order of their degree of exactness; I only list the strongest ones (according to their exactness):

Moon trine Mars 0°41
Mars square Venus 1°45
AC sextile Mars 2°17

I also looked at the declinations, and here you have

Mars contraparallel Venus 0°04
Pluto parallel Mars 0°54

Also, you have some interesting midpoints-configurations:

Your Sun / Mars = his Mercury,AC-ruler
Your Moon / Mars = his Jupiter, DC-ruler
your Moon / Pluto = his Jupiter, DC-ruler
His Venus / Mars = your Mars

So you see, you have a Venus-Mars-connection on different levels (square, contraparallel, midpoint), and the other combinations also point to a powerful attraction.
I`m new to the concept of midpoints and declinations, but they seem to be important; at least it`s the only way to explain my attraction to that guy, I wrote about.

In the longitudes we have (among others):
Sun trine Moon 1°31
Sun sextile Venus 1°53
Moon trine Mars 1°10
Venus sextile Uranus 1°00

Those are the most important relationship-aspects we have; as you can see there are very few of them, and they don`t explain the strong attraction I feel.

In the declinations we have:
Pluto contraparallel Moon (Moon - Pluto definitely is a hot aspect)

And there are some interesting midpoints:

His Sun-Moon = my AC-ruler
His Venus-Mars = my Sun-Moon = my Vertex = my AC
My Venus-Mars = his Node
My Venus-Uranus = his Mars
My Moon-Pluto parallel his Sun (declinational midpoint)

And this feels more like a true reflection of my feelings for him.

Oh I nearly forgot: We have Venus solstice Mars; in Transpersonal astrology (German astrology school) it`s among the strongest aspects.


Another idea I`ve been toying around with is to look what strong aspects the ruler of certain houses make. This would be very individual (and you could even include Pluto here).
I`d look at the 1st, 7nth, 5th and 8th house for romantic and sexual attraction.

For example the ruler of his 8th house (Venus) squares your Mars.
Since the ruler of the 8th house is similiar to Pluto, that would be like another strong Mars-Pluto-connection. I`d consider that as VERY hot, even though not easy outside the bedroom.

But of course, everything I wrote here, is just theories.

DD

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posted September 18, 2006 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovegoblin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
since some were talking about venus/mars
making different types of aspects-would
mars with 167 degrees of someone's venus form any type of aspect?

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Alisa
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posted September 18, 2006 03:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lovegoblin
167 is quindecile aspect with 2 allowed orb. How do you feel? Obsessive?

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posted September 18, 2006 03:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OPPOSITES ATTRACT! :0
i FOUND that Venus square (opposite) Mars
is quite the "sexual connection"
But, also attributes to fighting out of the bedroom..

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posted September 18, 2006 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovegoblin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Alisa:
i didn't at first but now i do.
its hard to tell if he feels the same.
but i'm good at masking my emotions
due to all the pluto in my chart.
who feels what with the quindecile?
sometimes i get really confused.

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Alisa
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posted September 18, 2006 04:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lovegoblin
quote:
who feels what with the quindecile?

I think you can interpret the aspect as normal but add "obsessive" feeling into the interpretation.

I found a gay couple with venus quindecile mar in synastry. However, one of the partner refuse to have sex with another one since he personally does not like sex at all. So, I think that one aspect cannot tell the whole story.

I also found a couple with venus quindecile mar. They still love to have sex with each other although they already broke up. For them, it is irresistable.

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posted September 18, 2006 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovegoblin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
alisa-
that's very funny about the gay couple~
lol
yes i do find him irresistable.
its funny because at first i wasn't
attracted-liked him as a friend, but
really not attracted "in that way" my but
how things changed.

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Atlenta
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posted September 18, 2006 04:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Its funny because aspects are made between alot of people.. so what actually makes you pass someone by and hook with others. I've always wondered that.

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posted September 18, 2006 04:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know what it could be, this is only a theory though. It could be certain people are attracted or react better to certain aspects. Similiar to how people are attracted to a certain look or style an another person presents to them(some respond to it while others don't notice). In another thread it was called an attraction pattern!

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libraschoice7
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posted September 18, 2006 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Some people like it hot and rough, while others prefer smooth sailing!

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posted September 18, 2006 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovegoblin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes i have wondered also!
i also wonder if there is
one aspect of synastry that would
absolutely explain this, but probably not.

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