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Topic: Mars and Venus aspects
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libraschoice7
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posted November 15, 2006 12:09 PM
  
Hey everybody, I know majority of everyone has been in love on this board or deeply attracted to someone, and some aspects like Mars and Venus are the planets usually involved. If this is the case which causes the MOST intense attraction, would it be Venus conjunction Mars, Venus opposite Mars or Venus square Mars. At least from my experience it's been Venus square Mars(orb of less than 2) coming in first and than Venus opposite Mars with for some reason Venus Conjunction Mars really doesn't do it for me(Whether I am the Venus role or the Mars role)kind of strange because people say the conjunction is the strongest.------------------
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Hexxie
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posted November 15, 2006 12:25 PM
That's cool libraschoice7. I have my Venus square my guy's Mars with a 1* orb. I like a challenge, it turns me on. I get bored quickly if things are too easy. I can't say that i've ever been attracted to a man that had his Mars conjunct my Venus! IP: Logged |
SLAYER
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posted November 15, 2006 12:26 PM
Conjuction's strongest, but when it comes to love, i believe mars opposition venus would make to most powerful attraction, because of opposite polarity rule. Just an idea !------------------
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darkdreamer
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posted November 15, 2006 01:32 PM
WEll, conjunction of his Mars to my Venus works very well for me. 
But then again, I have Venus square Pluto natally, so Pluto may heat this conjunction up. Doesn`t make it easy, just very passionate to the point of obsessive. DD IP: Logged |
Glaucus
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posted November 15, 2006 02:02 PM
This is my theory about why certain aspects don't work1. there could be seriously unattractive aspects that offset..for instance, Venus square Saturn,Mars oppose Saturn,Saturn conjunct Ascendant,Sun square Mars,Sun oppose Saturn,Moon square Saturn 2. the person just doesn't seem his/her type...for instance..I am not going to be with a somebody who smokes,drinks,or uses drugs because I am not into that stuff. I have a family history of drug addiction,alcoholism. Why would I want to get involved with a woman who I could end up being codependent with. My girlfriend doesn't do any of those things,and so she's definitely my type. I also won't get involved with a woman who doesn't share similar religious/spiritual beliefs as me either. My girlfriend and I do. No matter how great the attraction the synastry shows,I wouldn't be involved with that person if we had substantial differences. I wouldn't feel right being with a political conservative who believes gay marriage is wrong. I am glad that my girlfriend and I are both political liberals who believe in gay rights.
Some people won't be involved in interracial relationships regardless of attraction aspects. Interracial relationships are still frowned upon by many people even though are accepted by many too. There are still people who think of the black former NFL player,OJ Simpson and what he did to his white former wife,Nicole Brown Simpson. As for me,I was born from a Black/White interracial relationship,and I am in interracial relationship with my girlfriend who is white. I believe that we have the capability to create psychic blocks that keep us from being attracted to people that aren't right for us in certain ways or are just plain bad for us. We can create a psychic block that ends our attraction to people that we used to be attracted to after we realize that we need to get out of a bad relationship and move on. I think that this all has to with deep suppression of the conscious feelings so far back into the unconscious part of the mind. It really depends on if the circumstances are appropriate too. If a man's venus conjuncts his daughter's mars,that doesn't give them go ahead to have a sexual relationship with his daughter. He should never feel any attraction other than a family. This could also indicate a potential pastlife connection as lovers too. I do believe that it's possible that couples,lovers can reincarnate as family members. I also believe that enemies can reincarnate as couples,and this could factor in the love/hate,abusive relationships as well as marriages that end in bitter,painful divorce.
also...if a person is heterosexual, he/she's not going to fall in love with another who is the same gender regardless if he/she has sexual attraction aspects with him/her. Heck..those aspects can be good for being workout buddies,sports teammates as well as business partners and even going to dancing,clubbing together. Even being partners in a musical band.
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libraschoice7
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posted November 15, 2006 02:16 PM
So Glaucus your saying other things come into account for an attraction? So it could be a whole mess of aspects that help augment, Venus/Mars attractions. Then again the Venus square Mars I had with someone also came with Sun opposition Sun, Venus opposite Pluto, Moon conjunction Jupiter, Sun conjunction Jupiter and one Mars opposite Sun to name a few aspects that helped that one aspect stay real strong. Then again I do have Venus conjunction Mars with both my parents, which might explain why I don't respond to that particular attraction aspect. I have it with the current boyfriend, and he felt the attraction alot, I was at first aprehensive about the attraction...it felt weird.IP: Logged |
Nightjar
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posted November 15, 2006 02:38 PM
I hate to sound like a broken record, but it really matters where your planets (mars, venus etc.) fall in your partner's chart and vice versa.
Venus-Pluto conjuction in either party's 8th house should be quite something, but the same pair in more impersonal houses wouldn't do the trick (I've experienced a very tight mars-pluto-venus commotion in the 10th & 12th houses. No sexual tension there, even though there weren't any "ugly" aspects involved).
I'm not saying there would be absolutely zero chemistry if these planets happen to be placed unfavourably, but having them in the "right" houses helps. A LOT.Apart from this addition I quite agreed with what Glaucus said. edit: you should also study both of yours birth charts first to see what you're looking for, what you probably would find hard to put up with etc. For example someone might be looking for a parter who is completely "out of his league"; some kind of embodiment of unattainable physical perfection, and would therefore ignore his otherwise "perfect" matches.
Also for example people with moon-venus etc. squares, or difficult planets in their 5th or 7th house could have hard time finding someone who would satisfy their needs regardless of the synastry. IP: Logged |
Nightjar
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posted November 15, 2006 02:59 PM
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Then again I do have Venus conjunction Mars with both my parents, which might explain why I don't respond to that particular attraction aspect. I have it with the current boyfriend, and he felt the attraction alot, I was at first aprehensive about the attraction...it felt weird.
That's very interesting! Of course it would be necessary to have a look at your synastry to see the whole picture, but if you've come to that conclusion (what causes what) then it's certainly quite fascinating.
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Glaucus
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posted November 15, 2006 03:02 PM
Nightjar,I agree with you. For instance, I have Sun,Moon,Mercury,and Venus in watersigns. I wouldn't be attracted to a woman who has both Sun and Moon in Airsigns.I need emotional depth,intensity,passion,sensitivity,empathy in my relationships. My girlfriend has that with Moon-Saturn conjunction in Scorpio,Moon conjunct Pluto,Moon sextile Neptune,Pisces Ascendant. I want stability in relationship with my Moon square Saturn,Venus contraparallel Saturn. She wants that too with her Moon conj Saturn in 7th and her Venus in Taurus in 2nd. I wouldn't feel secure with somebody who has Venus square Uranus. IP: Logged |
jenfullmoon
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posted November 15, 2006 04:41 PM
Well, with all of my Saturn squares, I guess I'm screwed  I am very, very rarely attracted to someone, though. Most people aren't weird enough for me. I wonder which is more major: Venus/Mars in the synastry, or the composite? IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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posted November 15, 2006 05:05 PM
No you don't sound like a broken record Nightjar, I like hearing everyones opinion on something whether in agreement or not, it makes me think in different ways which is why I ask, it better to see a subject from all sides of the box(think outside). That the beauty of opinion everyone has one and is unique(hopefully). Attraction is just so fascinating to me, and the reasons people get together! Love is such a powerful emotion.IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
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posted November 15, 2006 07:17 PM
Honestly, I don't really think that mars/venus alone is a very intense attraction factor. Don't get me wrong, it is a strong factor in attraction but for it to be intense, I think you'd have to add pluto to the mix.IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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posted November 15, 2006 07:22 PM
Pluto is great for passion  bad though beause of power issues/obsessiveness. Which ones do you like of Pluto aspects, Dulce?IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna
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posted November 15, 2006 10:36 PM
Actually, there are very few of the pluto aspects that I like....alot of them in real life cases (and one personal experience of mine) lead to obsession. I don't think its something that would make you feel comfortable. My mother and father have alot of harsh pluto contacts together which would explain how their relationship was....I have 2 hard pluto contacts with my bf but I think the harsh effect was more noticeable when I was apart from him for a long time (a while back). I notice it now in personal ways I would rather not discuss ( its between me and him). There's much more between me and him that would explain why I feel comfortable with him. I guess in answer to your question, I do like what the sun/pluto aspect has done for me in the long run. All I'm saying is that these aspects of "passion" are not something you can get comfy with in the long term,....you need some soft things too so you'll atleast like the person as opposed having the intense love/hate sh%t. IP: Logged |
BlueEyes24
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posted November 15, 2006 10:54 PM
What about a Venus conjunct Mars in the 1st house of a composite chart?? Would that mean others can see the attraction between that couple? Composites still kind of confuse me at times.IP: Logged |
jani_jean
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posted November 16, 2006 02:03 AM
Forgive me if i am asking a dumb q
my venus is in scorpio in 7 house
and his mars in virgo in dont know which house guess 8th
is this opposition or sextile or are both worng pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee advise
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jani_jean
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posted November 16, 2006 02:04 AM
sorry forgot the otehrside
my mars is in capri in 9 th house
his venus in leo in ??
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Lauren
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posted November 16, 2006 02:41 AM
I’ve had all of these aspects lol.. Venus/Mars conjunction. I was Venus. This happened twice. One guy was nice. The other needs to be committed. This conjunction was opposite our generational Plutos in both cases. I did find this very attractive and I wouldn’t say it was purely sexual. The second guy played out every single negative Mars and Pluto trait ever written lol possessiveness, jealousy, anger, revengefulness.. you name it.. he done it.. An astrologer would have a field day with him. Venus/Mars square – I had this with my ex and I was Mars. He was very attracted, I saw him as a friend to start but it slowly became more than that. I wouldn’t say it was ever a flash in the pan thing with him but I was/still am very close to him (our moons are conjunct though). Venus/Mars opposition – My step bro has his Venus exactly opposite my Mars.. not mentioning his own Mars squares my Venus (and Pluto is involved as usual being generational) I’ve never ever been even slightly attracted to him but there’s always been friction between us.. so I’m not sure.. repressed attraction? lol I certainly hope not. When I first met him he said some things I found out from one of his friends, so I know he *was* attracted back then. It slowly morphed into mutual dislike though. Considering we have trined Suns and sextile Moons.. I’d say it’s specifically the Venus/Mars thing causing trouble. Venus/Mars sextile – I was the Mars again. This guy was much too attracted for his own good and my good and everyone’s good, but his Venus was also exactly conjunct my Pluto so that’s probably why. We were friends for a fair while but then it got bad. I feel so sorry for him actually. I posted about him in the Pluto thread. I wouldn’t say I was ever attracted but I did care about him. Venus/Mars trine – I have this with the guy I’m currently dating and YES we were both instantaneously attracted. I made a thread about him a while back. We only met once and he cancelled his flight.. he was meant to be leaving but he’s staying a while longer, so we’ll see what happens I love the way he approaches me. IP: Logged |
Arnicka
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posted November 16, 2006 02:46 AM
I like Venus [me] square Mars [him] and thats pretty much it. Ive had the conjunction but I wasnt attracted [both ways] and the opposition of his Mars to my Venus, and another where his Venus was square my Mars -- nope, nothing. But my Venus Capricorn square his Mars in Aries which is coincidentally conj my MC, plus his Venus being in Pisces in my 8th, woah! Sparks! Encountered 2 men who had this combo. This must be the difference from the others. Also to be noted my Venus is square a Mars Saturn Pluto conjunction -- who knows if this plays into the friendships where the attraction was one sided, as in not on my part. Also have never noticed in synastry my mars opposed their venus so have no opinion on this. Ive noticed the most intense sexual attraction always seems to be the ones with Venus in cancer late degrees: it would square the Mars saturn pluto conjunction plus be opposed to my venus, possibly Moon as well. But Im not that attracted to them :/ Any other women notice that men with Venus square their Mars to be VERY sexually attracted to them?    IP: Logged |
Lauren
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posted November 16, 2006 02:57 AM
Well my ex who I'm friends with now had his Venus square my Mars, like I was saying. He's always been attracted but nothing like the ‘Mars conjunct my Venus’ guy (the one who needs to be committed lol)) or the guy with his Venus conjunct my Pluto. With Mars conjunct Venus it was instantaneous from their side (both of them).. like within secs of seeing me. This didn't happen with any of the other aspects.. or they just didn't make it as obvious. The guys I had the conjunction with had Mars in Taurus though.. maybe it’s the sign as well.
Arnika, with you it would be Mars in Capricorn.. maybe they’d be more *restricted* with showing attraction.. I have Mars in Cap and I’m pretty wary. IP: Logged |
Arnicka
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posted November 16, 2006 03:17 AM
Hi Lauren,Yea the sign should play into it as well. Its so easy for me to run away with a few facts! Regarding my Venus to their Mars in Cap, I just dont find them to be very good looking [the men I mean I dont notice the women] something too...stodgy too slow plus the one sexual experience I had with a mars in cap man: not good. Hardly made any noise, was just very technical about it. Maybe its my moon in cap but I like the moans etc plus a lot of talk [7th house merc in aqua?]. OK this is getting too personal  but thanks for the response. edit:
Oh I see more of what you mean: I probably would never know that theyre interested in the 1st place. Very possible! Didnt think of that. IP: Logged |
Lauren
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posted November 16, 2006 03:44 AM
Hey,I know what you mean. I have moon in Cap as well. I've never met a guy with Cap Mars as far as I know though lol Good point about the looks thing. I didn't think of that. I guess if I looked different,they wouldn't have been as attracted regardless of where my Venus was. quote:
Oh I see more of what you mean: I probably would never know that theyre interested in the 1st place.
Yeah that's what I was thinking. They might be too rigid when it comes to anything sexual. I'm not but I'm a girl. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7
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posted November 16, 2006 12:59 PM
Thats a real good point you brought up about looking at the signs Venus and Mars are in to also determine...IP: Logged |
LILYGIRL
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posted November 16, 2006 01:25 PM
My spouse and I have mars trine venus--his venus and mars in H7 mine in H5. Affection yes --defintely but zero sexual burn ever. A constant source of distraction is a friend whose Mars Squares My Venus and My Pluto Squares his Venus. (his mars is 7th house, my venus 5th house)I find that dueling duo insanely, ridiculously sexually intense and provocative in a tantric mind bending way. We both lead decent committed lives to others. And frankly I would hate for us to ever get stuck anywhere alone. I should also say what make it doubly odd is that this guy is very outwardly gentle almost lipid soft (pisces) but that excruciating intense vibe between us sort of totally rips that softness away. IP: Logged |
CrankyCap
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posted November 16, 2006 01:44 PM
Of the two men I've felt most fired up, hot for, attracted to, obsessive, etc...one of them had his venus in aries square my mars in cap. That one was definitely hot for a long time.The guy I'm seeing now...I'm STILL trying to figure out where the insane passion/intensity and physical attraction is coming from. It was instant pretty much from the second we met, and the fire has not quit sparking since...nor does it show any signs of stopping anytime soon. We don't have any of the traditional mars-venus aspects other than a venus-venus square, and a mars-mars near conjunction. However, his mars conjuncts my sun which I've read can be a strong indicator for passion, but I was also curious if a mars-pluto square would come into play on this?? We both have mars square pluto in our individual charts as well as mutually. Does anyone know if that aspect could cause an intense physical attraction? IP: Logged | |
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