posted November 24, 2006 06:36 PM              

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The descriptions of Venus in Gemini seem similar to my Venus in Sagittarius.

Crazy thing is I cant accept a marriage proposal either. Im not a committment-phobe, at least I dont belive it. My reason is that I haven't found the right guy yet. Im limited in what Im looking for- finding someone with a similiar culture and religion and having that chemistry is really difficult - And it's not like Ive had a ton of proposals...far from it. Personally, even with a Sag Venus and Jupiter conj IC, I have to get married, and wouldnt live with a guy and have children with him unless we're married. Bf/gf, common-law, what-have you is fine and dandy...for other peeps...it's just not for me.

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posted November 24, 2006 07:03 PM            

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I'm amazed I ever got married..he's very down to earth.. and can be cold himself at times.. which helps.. but we just compromise! I'm sure he doesn't mind a wife that doesn't need all the flowers and crap! LOL I just find it all useless.. i'd much rather him do something fun with me then waste our money! He's not much of a talker though which does drive me crazy... I run my mouth to much! LOL

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posted November 24, 2006 07:28 PM              

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Hey SilverFairy - you said you got bored at times in an earlier post...I think that happens to everyone in a marriage regardless of the position of your Venus...though it's probably most consistent with Gemini. Venus in Gemini would probably fair best in a relationship where they're multitasking and have many things to think and communicate about and tend to. How do keep yourself busy??

Again your description of Venus in Gem resembles mine in Sag...Id rather not waste money on material gifts...That money could be best used for travelling and fun activities.

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posted November 24, 2006 09:55 PM            

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DayDreamer, I brought up the boredom because i have heard comments made about us being flakey I guess you could say.. I was just saying That I do get bored in my relationship.. but I have known my husband for over 10yrs. So even though I get bored now and then.. i was saying I never look around for something better.. No grass is greener on the other side for me LOL

I have Neptune in Sag Opposing my Venus in Gemini... I wonder if that's got something to do with what i've said to resemble your Sag venus.

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posted November 24, 2006 10:08 PM              

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Hi,
venus in cap here...but moon in gemini(and lots of other air placements too, and a loaded 7th house). and i can really identify with u venus in gem/sag folks. boredom is a killer for me. looking for a stable BUT fun relationship, without those conventional dinner dates/flowers/cards and stuff. unconventional is how i like it. emotional is fine, as long as it is not MUSHY/GUSHY. affection tht comes about spontaneously, like whn u just cant help showing it, is wht's ok. no gushy emotional declarations of love for me please.

Sun Cap 7th house
Cancer rising
moon gem 11th house
venus cap 6th house
mars/merc aqua 7th house

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posted November 24, 2006 10:26 PM            

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Yeah Ditto here you guys! I don't think my venus in gemini makes me a commitment-phobe at all. For me it was just the matter of finding the right person. Most people out there will get with anyone just for the sake of being in a relationship. Personally, the very thought of being with someone I'm not that into repulses me....and I'm a 7th house sun. The "Why don't you have a boyfriend?" questions would always annoy me when I was single. It's like, is it so wrong to wait for the right person?

I also second the notion that everyone gets bored in a stale relationship, not just Venus in Gemini peeps. Even so, I'm still loyal.

The last thing I agree with is that Venus in sag is the same way. I once knew a Cappy with this placement who had alot of lady friends and I think is currently in his first serious relationship. I don't mean lady friends in a sexual way either (tsk tsk, dirty minds! ). He just literally had girls that were friends. And I think i was for the same reason that I never dated much.

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posted November 24, 2006 10:33 PM              

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Dulce Luna, do u think it is the sun in 7th tht does it? I thought it was my venus in cap sq saturn, tht made me so picky. (may be tht magnifies it...making me toooo picky...coz i'm still single )

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posted November 24, 2006 10:36 PM            

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Nahhh, I don't think its the seventh house sun. I was just saying how I don't fit my seventh house sun at all. Alot of seventh house suns usually end up in relationships for the sake of being in a relationship sometimes.

I definitely think you're venus square saturn might have alot to do with it and the fact that you're venus is in cap. Although I wouldn't call it being picky, just that you won't settle for just anyone.

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posted November 24, 2006 10:44 PM              

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true true !! i find the very idea so repulsive! and then i hv sun/mars/merc in 7th. they don't make me rush into relationships, but once i am in, whoa!! my last breakup was real hard. so tht is all the more reason for me to avoid getting into a relationship just for the sake of it.

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posted November 24, 2006 10:49 PM              

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Retrograde Venus in Scorpio
Conjunct Sun, MC, and Uranus.

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posted November 25, 2006 09:09 PM            

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Dulce Luna, Now I use to get those too.. I was single for almost 3yrs straight.. I actually enjoyed the single life.. i wanted to be with the right person!

When my husband and I finally decided to fully committ to each other and had matured a bit I was ready! because I spent years learning about myself and who i was... people tend to miss out on that I believe. So it was nice!

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posted November 25, 2006 10:52 PM            

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^^^I think every venus in gemini does that. Look at Jessica Simpson, who ended up divorcing Nick Lachey. I heard some astrologers found out her birthtime and it turns out she actually is a Cancer sun/cancer moon and not a gemini moon. (I'm know, I was shocked myself). But she is a gemini venus. Lots of Nick's drooling groupies think that Jess was evil for divorcing him but I think as a gem venus, she had too. Its obvious to me that she got married way too young and needed her own identity. No one with this placement should ever get married until they know themselves. Otherwise its disaster for us.

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posted November 26, 2006 01:54 PM              

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Ive noticed with two Venus in Aries friends of mine...they fall in love/like very easily...almost like any guy that gives them the time of day (and there are a lot of them)...they're very, actually too trusting of guys. That could have to do with what AI said earlier "seeing love with the purity of a child".

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posted November 26, 2006 03:07 PM              

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wondering about this one: venus in aries in 9th house. but a Venus Sextile Mars (gemini in 11th) at 3°44, Venus Square Neptune (cap 5th house) at 3°07, Moon (virgo in 2nd) Quincunx Venus at 2°36 and Venus Trine Ascendant (leo) at 1°27 would lessen the typical aries in venus traits no? I think it even makes for well rounded expression of venus traits even though aries placement is kind of at odds with venus. I think the particular aspects to venus point towards practical application of aries venus characteristics both positive and negative. The earthy undertones actually dismiss the popular notion that venus arians marry young. the aspect to a planet in gemini allows to see situations where aries venus comes out from many perspectives, softening the placements negatives but also positives and making it more of a neutral placement. I am really interested in learning how aspects effect certian placements however. hmm, I guess you just kind of pick it up aftter lots of reading.

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posted December 12, 2006 04:49 AM              

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libraschoice7 -

Again, you and I have Venus in Virgo, mines is in the 4th House, so what goes on in my home or with my family is important. I think a Venus in Virgo in the 4th placement always keeps one dreaming and fantasizing about a home which is emotionally ergonomic. The house is neat, but quite versatile and pragmatic. A long kitchen counter can also act as a woodworking station. Attractive, durable and useful ..

... Enter a Venus in Aries person ...

They are speed freaks and they really appreciate Venus in Virgo's talent for preparation. It helps make their day go better, but some days, it will seem like there is a stampeed of rams going about the house, with little attention to those little details.

Venus in Virgo learns how to kick back and let the rams ramble along, as the home is ready for that type of activity, should it occur.

How to keep a Venus in Aries person from overtaking the Venus in Virgo's plans for the week, ask politely and say you're cell phone might be off charging if he tries to call.

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posted December 12, 2006 08:39 AM            

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wow, no Venus in Pisces around here?

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posted December 12, 2006 08:42 AM            

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**edit**dp glitch - sorry

wow, no Venus in Pisces around here?

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posted December 12, 2006 04:37 PM            

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I'm Venus in Pisces but definately not typical of that. I'm also Sun and Mercury in Pisces but sometimes think my mother has my birthday wrong lol cos think I'm very untypical, except for caring bit.

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posted December 12, 2006 04:51 PM            

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Venus in Sag here. My venus is unaspected.

I feel that I do occasionally have the odd integration problem and I get bored very easily. When I get bored, I actually get despressed too. I also am incredibly restless, I have noticed that I must travel yearly or I go mad.

I wouldn't say that I am a cheater or a flirter but I certainly enjoy looking at people other than my partner. I look but never touch.

My partner is a gem venus but I wouldn't say he is as easily bored as me due to the rest of his chart.

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posted December 12, 2006 07:18 PM            

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im Venus in Taurus in the 8th and that makes me very intense and rather possessive not to mention jealous when it comes to relationships. But i also like comfortable environments in the nature and stuff.

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posted December 12, 2006 07:28 PM              

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Venus & Mercury in Pisces here...

Thank goodness for Sun in Aries or I will be rescuing every single damsel in distress on my way to hell

Kidding aside, I have quite a soft spot for bad guys with a good heart.

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posted December 12, 2006 09:26 PM            

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My Venus is in Libra and welllll... Its a double standard to me.

To quote Astrology Weekly:

"Venus in Libra indicates that you very attractive to the opposite sex. Your natural charm, social grace, good looks, social ideals and affectionate nature break down all barriers - you will have many opportunities for romance and marriage. To a very marked degree your general well-being and emotional health depend on sound and meaningful relationships - both social and romantic. You do have an affectionate, sensual and romantic nature, but love and sex are not sufficient incentive to marriage - your partner will also have to demonstrate intellectual, social and companionable qualities. You seek harmony and balance in marriage and social life with a desire to please and be pleased. Generally, you are laid-back, easy-going and hate any form of discord - you will go to great lengths to avoid social and domestic conflict."

As you can see, the little piece there just indicated the double standard. Though being in a good relationship comes natural, I have yet to find someone who'll stick around for the long ride Lol!

Lover to all but a Soul Mate to none... *Sigh.* Ah well... Whatever will be, will be. Marriage will come in time. Still got a lot of of growing up to do.

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posted December 12, 2006 09:39 PM            

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LOL u have a lot of Libra influence Xodian, my Venus is in Taurus which is also ruled by Venus so we both have Venuses in their comfy signs. How does that work for you. As for wat u said about LIbra Venus, i find it true to be for my Libra Asc.

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i disagree. Libras search for a perfect partner, they do rule the 7th house. Libras love marriage actually. I think i love it too much...havnt been married yet so wouldnt know

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posted December 12, 2006 10:51 PM            

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Hi- my natal venus is in Aquarius in 7th house
Transit Venus in Sag
Progressed Venus in Taurus 8th House
I have had few good romantic relationships and am so far 'out of the loop', I may never
have another. I believe my behavior in relationships is erratic to say the least-
Any insight? It's winter and my toes are cold!

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posted December 13, 2006 09:32 AM            

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My bf's venus in libra opposes my mars in aries and boy oh boy do I notice how his venus placement effects him.....

Its basically like the battle of the sexes sometimes probably because venus at home in libra is a very feminine placement and mars at home in aries is a very masculine placement. Sometimes he has this idea of what is *lady-like* and my mars in aries just completely throws that out the window just because I feel like it.

Its good that we both have air venuses because I like to talk alot in my relationships. Although, he's chatty in everyday life. Could this be because his venus is aspected and mine isn't? Were similar but so different with Water suns/mutable moons/air venuses. His venus and moon are more togethery/mushy type placements than mine are and it really shows. Mine are mercurial and consider relationships a foreign language.

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