posted December 13, 2006 05:49 PM            

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i disagree. Libras search for a perfect partner, they do rule the 7th house. Libras love marriage actually. I think i love it too much...havnt been married yet so wouldnt know

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Didn't say that Libra's hate marriages . I was just refering to my personal situation and referencing it to the little quote .

posted December 14, 2006 12:18 AM              

http://www.cafeastrology.com/zodiacleo.html#venusinleo

Venus in Leo

When Venus in Leo people are in love, they are proud, even boastful. This position of Venus can turn humble Virgo Suns or retiring Cancer Suns into somewhat demanding lovers. Venus in Leo loves to court and be courted, and they need to feel very special. They are warm, generous, and even grand. Though really quite loyal to their partners (remember that love is THE most important thing in Leo's life), they thrive on attention from the opposite sex. Be prepared for their displays: they will tell you about any advances members of the opposite sex make on them. Remember, they're just showing off to you, and it's likely harmless. It's a different story if you do the same, however. That's when you'll hear the lion roar...and, no doubt, you'll want to keep these cats purring. Venus in Leo wants to appear experienced in love, even if they have little or no experience whatsoever!
Venus in Leo men and women have high expectations, but once you know that these expectations revolve only around how much attention you are giving them, you'll see that they are really quite big-hearted about most everything else. They are threatened by a relationship that appears to have settled too much, or one that's lost its spark. They are also threatened by indifferent or impersonal behavior on your part.

Although their needs for physical expression through sex are generally quite strong, their need for love is perhaps even stronger. It is hard for Venus in Leo people to separate love and sex, and even their most erotic fantasies are infused with love and affection. For this reason, few Venus in Leo folk would last long in a relationship that is mostly sexual. On the flip side, they may last longer in a love-only relationship in the absence of satisfying sex, but they are unlikely to feel very satisfied.

posted April 15, 2022 04:04 PM            

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Originally posted by illusions_fool:
I have Venus in Aries in my 1st House, but I'm really not very independent. I put on a tough front but eventually I have a melt down in front of my love interest and they see I'm not at all like a Venus in Aries should be.

~Rebekka

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posted April 15, 2022 04:08 PM            

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Originally posted by OzMeg222:
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For example,
When he calls you, even if you are feeling bad that day, cheer up your voice, and pretend like everythings going super without him. He may want to upset you by telling a lie that 'there's this girl i really like, what do you think i should do...' attitude, because probably he'll be irritated by your cheerful, happy voice. Dont believe! In fact, with keeping up your cheerful sounding attitude, tell him that you are in a hurry to go somewhere, to meet with someone maybe (dont even tell who you are going to meet) leave everyting open. It's certainly going to work on Venus-Aries guy.

OH MY GOD! I 'broke up' with my pisces-boy (venus and mars in aries) after one of those exact conversations. One minute he was saying he wanted to spend more time with me, the next he's saying he likes someone else, told him I'd had another friend too and he cracked it. Went to leave and he was back to 'ring me'!

Glad I'm out of that situation. 10 months was a long time.

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posted May 01, 2022 12:04 PM            

Painfully sensitive in love, and I don't fall fast but when I do, I fall HARD. And will take more than I should to keep it going.

However, I am able to walk away (not easily, but I can do it) after I've tried and tried and it just can't be salvaged. Zero desire to marry, but do prefer long-term relationships, simply because I take my time. If you're in a hurry, keep moving. And no, I don't want kids, neither.

I don't trust easily (personality and history of abuse), but when I do, I get more snuggly and affectionate than I usually am. I've noticed that sometimes there's something about me that makes others want to protect me.

Alice Sparkly Kat wrote a wonderful analysis of Venus in Cancer, that totally hit home for me, here.

posted November 29, 2022 04:58 PM            

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Originally posted by illusions_fool:
I have Venus in Aries in my 1st House, but I'm really not very independent. I put on a tough front but eventually I have a melt down in front of my love interest and they see I'm not at all like a Venus in Aries should be.

~Rebekka

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posted November 29, 2022 05:04 PM            

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Originally posted by OzMeg222:
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For example,
When he calls you, even if you are feeling bad that day, cheer up your voice, and pretend like everythings going super without him. He may want to upset you by telling a lie that 'there's this girl i really like, what do you think i should do...' attitude, because probably he'll be irritated by your cheerful, happy voice. Dont believe! In fact, with keeping up your cheerful sounding attitude, tell him that you are in a hurry to go somewhere, to meet with someone maybe (dont even tell who you are going to meet) leave everyting open. It's certainly going to work on Venus-Aries guy.

OH MY GOD! I 'broke up' with my pisces-boy (venus and mars in aries) after one of those exact conversations. One minute he was saying he wanted to spend more time with me, the next he's saying he likes someone else, told him I'd had another friend too and he cracked it. Went to leave and he was back to 'ring me'!

Glad I'm out of that situation. 10 months was a long time.

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posted November 29, 2022 05:06 PM            

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Originally posted by DayDreamer:
The descriptions of Venus in Gemini seem similar to my Venus in Sagittarius.

Crazy thing is I cant accept a marriage proposal either. Im not a committment-phobe, at least I dont belive it. My reason is that I haven't found the right guy yet. Im limited in what Im looking for- finding someone with a similiar culture and religion and having that chemistry is really difficult - And it's not like Ive had a ton of proposals...far from it. Personally, even with a Sag Venus and Jupiter conj IC, I have to get married, and wouldnt live with a guy and have children with him unless we're married. Bf/gf, common-law, what-have you is fine and dandy...for other peeps...it's just not for me.

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posted November 29, 2022 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Venus:
I'm Venus in Pisces but definately not typical of that. I'm also Sun and Mercury in Pisces but sometimes think my mother has my birthday wrong lol cos think I'm very untypical, except for caring bit.

Venus

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posted December 01, 2022 04:02 AM            

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Originally posted by AgeofAquarius:
Venus in Cap here.

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Why do people withhold from contributing like this?