posted November 21, 2006 07:17 PM              

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this has nothing to do with astrology, but a friend of mine gave me some advice recently.....the less you give, the more you will get.

Now, I know this is backwards.

But- I have to say, sometimes when it comes to men, acting a little busy, or distracted, or taking 3 days to return a call... DOES WORK.

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posted November 21, 2006 07:34 PM              

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Well with my venus in sagittarius i tend to like foreigner's/different cultural background than myself and vise versa of course, oh, with relationships I don't ever think I would accept a marriage proposal, that is one thing i don't ever see myself doing, i would like a variety of relationships, some meaningful, some flighty, I appreciate variety, maybe thats because of my stellium in sagittarius with venus, i don't know, but my venus at IC well indicates relationships must be a form of security for me, meaning in my future relationships i'll have lots of material and spiritual benefits.

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posted November 21, 2006 08:37 PM              

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My friend's mom has her Venus in Aries. She has her husband on lockdown . Sweet woman---bad temper that lasts for a split second, but totally sweet and very proactive in making sure her loved ones are okay.

(Minor blurb )

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posted November 21, 2006 09:48 PM            

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Venus in gemini here....

I definitely need conversation despite being quiet in real life. Never really fell for the "dumb/meathead" type of guy (maybe I was attracted to a few in the past, but thats it). I don't usually end up with shy guys either...even though I'm shy. People who just want to be physical/sexual all the time lose my interest really fast too. Not only is that boring, its not even real intimacy.

Between you and me, I really like love letters and poems.

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posted November 21, 2006 10:03 PM              

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I definitely need conversation despite being quiet in rela life.

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Me too. Don't find too many ppl who you can talk about anything under the sun with. When you find them though, it's completely and utterly precious.

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Between you and me, I really like love letters and poems.

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Me too. *blushes*

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posted November 21, 2006 10:14 PM            

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Oh I know isn't it....I love that (talkin' till dawn that is )

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posted November 21, 2006 10:48 PM            

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Saying a Venus in Taurus person is like....fill in the blanks... is the same as newspaper Sun Sign Astrology. I'm sorry but you cannot take one placement and say it is this or that. What house is it in? How is it aspected? Only then can you obtain true coloration. I have Venus in Taurus. 9th . Conjunct Sun, and others. In point of fact I have a Stelium Taurus. Does this make me the quintesential Venus in Taurus? Especially since my Sun is at 5degrees? Absolutely NOT!..But I will say that we are VERY tactile. We want to feel it, smell it, and touch it. That means anything to make it real! But it is mental as well. Get into a Venus in Taurus head, our largest errogenous zone.. And you are there forever. But,keep it real please. Do I love the luxury of 500 thread count sheets? OH Yea! Do I love a good bar? Oh yea! But I love a great dive as well. Why? Because it is real. Respect the Taurus Mind by being REAL and you have a friend (or lover) for life. We see through everything as well as a Piscean. Phonies need not apply. KEEP IT REAL.

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posted November 22, 2006 01:49 AM              

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posted November 22, 2006 02:08 AM              

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I'm a Venus in Gemini too.

I'm really fickle in how I feel about people. I could like a guy one day and be repulsed the next day. Like other Venus in Geminis, I'm not the jealous or possesive type. I've thought over this, and I think I value relationships in which communication is cohesive - I like to be listened to and understood, though I'm not really much of a talker myself.

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posted November 22, 2006 02:13 AM            

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When he calls you, even if you are feeling bad that day, cheer up your voice, and pretend like everythings going super without him. He may want to upset you by telling a lie that 'there's this girl i really like, what do you think i should do...' attitude, because probably he'll be irritated by your cheerful, happy voice. Dont believe! In fact, with keeping up your cheerful sounding attitude, tell him that you are in a hurry to go somewhere, to meet with someone maybe (dont even tell who you are going to meet) leave everyting open. It's certainly going to work on Venus-Aries guy.

OH MY GOD! I 'broke up' with my pisces-boy (venus and mars in aries) after one of those exact conversations. One minute he was saying he wanted to spend more time with me, the next he's saying he likes someone else, told him I'd had another friend too and he cracked it. Went to leave and he was back to 'ring me'!

Glad I'm out of that situation. 10 months was a long time.

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posted November 22, 2006 01:08 PM              

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I have Venus in Cancer.
anyone knows anything intresting on this.

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posted November 22, 2006 01:26 PM              

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But- I have to say, sometimes when it comes to men, acting a little busy, or distracted, or taking 3 days to return a call... DOES WORK.

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yeah…it’s called having a life

aaww I’m sorry dividedsky, I just had too - no self control

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posted November 22, 2006 01:29 PM            

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When your Venus is in Cancer, you look for security and safety in partnership. You are the most caring and nurturing of lovers. Your lover is likely to be flattered by your excellent memory for all they say and do—in some cases, he or she could be intimidated as well! Sincerity from your partner is important to you, and you are attracted to people who you consider to be natural and genuine. You are the most intuitive of lovers, finding it easy to "read" your partner's character and feelings. As mentioned above, this can be flattering to many, and cause for concern for others! Which, of course, is fine by you, because the ideal partner for you is comfortable in his or her own skin. Anyone threatened by your "feelers" may not be sincere enough for you!

Appreciation, security, and tenderness are most important to you in matters of the heart. You work hard at accommodating the people you love, taking care of them in every way you can. Because you are not very comfortable with confrontations, you are prone to side-stepping problems. You are easily hurt, but you can work hard at concealing that fact. It is difficult for you to forget any kinds of actions that you consider betrayals on the part of your lover, but you are not one to run away from your commitments. You would benefit from expressing your hurts instead of letting them stew inside of you. In many cases, your partner may not even know that they've hurt you!

Your charm is of the understated kind, and you may not always know just how attractive you are to others! The truth is, no matter how you come across, you fairly ooze sweetness to members of the opposite sex. Of course, not everyone will find that quality attractive, but to those that do, you can be irresistible. It can be difficult for people to stay angry with you. This may be because you have mastered the "art" of playing innocent! You are especially attracted to neediness, and you might work hard at keeping the people you love in a state of needing you. Their dependency on you feeds you, making you feel loved, but you can have a love-hate relationship with that dependency over time. In some cases, Venus in Cancer people might wonder if they've created a monster! You do get off on taking care of your lover, often at the expense of your own needs. It would be helpful if you could detach yourself from some of the problems of your loved ones, even just a little, and recognize that you are not responsible for others' happiness. This concept is difficult for you to learn. You understand it, but living by it is a completely different thing. You observe your partner very closely, and the love you offer holds the rare quality of cherishing.

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posted November 22, 2006 02:07 PM            

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Interesting thread!

I have venus in libra and am seeing somone with venus in Sagitarius. I am a Sag sun and he is scoripio. We have a lot of fun together,lots of talking! and ideas of travel etc. He is american and Im british so we are both into each other cause we're different nationalities too??

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posted November 22, 2006 03:12 PM              

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I can honestly say I have changed since reading the replies. I am going to act super cool and you know what,I feel more independent already; looking out for myself for a change. One last question on Venus in Aries, if they fall in love, would they say it out straight or hold back. THANKS EVERYONE.

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posted November 22, 2006 03:17 PM            

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Venus in Virgo here(service of love), Venus in Aries are pretty upfront and to the point on who and what they want, they are definitely not afraid to show their passions. I found them to be too demanding and forceful for my tastes even though they can be quite charming.

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Moon in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Cancer
Ascendant in Cancer

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posted November 22, 2006 03:33 PM            

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Venus in Cap here.

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posted November 22, 2006 03:56 PM              

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lol venus in scorpio here. jeez, and with mars in libra, loving me is so so difficult.

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posted November 23, 2006 03:49 PM              

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Thanks Ingrid

that is 100% me

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posted November 24, 2006 04:10 AM              

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AriesPink
Venus in Aries will never hold back
The posts in this thread are very childish "Aries Venus is sooooo bad, blabla". The worth of such posts is just 0.

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posted November 24, 2006 11:42 AM            

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My Venus is also in Gemini (My moon is also in Gemini)~

My friend told me a funny thing the other day. He was telling me how I am when I like someone,

"When you like someone friend OR more, you don't really differentiate that much in terms of behavioral cues [hugging, being affectionate]. The only way to really tell is really by the frequency of topic subjects when talking to you."

And I thought, "Oh! That's so true!"

Also I tend to fly through interests. I'll be interested in one guy one day because I see "potential", then I meet another guy a week later that I also see "potential" with and I become interested in him too... or if I like someone and get rejected or see that it wouldn't work, I'll be sad for a week then move on, but it's not that I can't be loyal to anyone; I'm plenty capable of commitment it's just a means of looking for the right person.

Or like SLAYER said I just might be "hopeless" hahahaha.

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posted November 24, 2006 11:52 AM              

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Venus in scorpio, with Mars in leo...so Idon't do shallow or one night stands ( How I wish I did sometimes), and I'm not classiaclly romantic either, dinner dates are a real turn off for me! I want unusual ( though that is probably my mercury/uranus conjunction). However I seem to go for romantic men! I really can't handle petty men though.

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posted November 24, 2006 02:58 PM            

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I have Venus in Gemini as well, It's in my 7th house... I have been married for 5yrs. I am very committed and knew who i was going to end up with when I was in my late teens...I am more on the silly side... I love when we joke and talk about non sense.

I'm not a flirty kind of girl, Actually I barely notice when guys like me.. and I could careless either. I do get bored in my relationship at times.. but not wondering eye kind of bored.. and I am not super affectionate either... Not big on cards and anniversaries.. My husbands Venus is in Libra and he's much more romantic then i could ever imagine myself being.. I don't like being touched or hugged on all the time.. drives me nuts!

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posted November 24, 2006 03:55 PM              

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Silverfairy, I think I know how you feel. I'm Venus Gemini in the 7th too. I've always avoided relationships because I was never into that 'mushy' kind of love. I'm scared that if I do enter a relationship, I would never be affectionate enough. I don't think I'm flirty either, but I think it's because I choose not to. Then again, I have Venus/Saturn Opposition.

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