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Sweet Stars unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 09:25 AM I haven't dated a young guy in a long time until now. Since I was young I have always liked older men. Maybe my Capricorn descendant or the fact that I didn't have my father growing up. ------------------ ---------- Gemini/Cancer cusp Cancer Ascendant Mercury Gemini Taurus Moon *29 Venus Taurus Mars Libra IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 09:27 AM for you Sweet Stars x IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 09:30 AM I know a lot of older guys who are very childish and immature. I know a lot of young guys who are childlike and mature... Maybe because we are devloping our consciousness, people are coming in "wiser". I am amazed at what some 20 years olds know that some 80 year olds dont!! IP: Logged
Sweet Stars unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 09:32 AM Thanks Sue. It's kind of funny that I had a crush from the age of 12-16 on a priest in my old school, named Father McGurl when I was younger. He must have been 50 at the time. Like if he was really gonna date me ROFL. ------------------ ---------- Gemini/Cancer cusp Cancer Ascendant Mercury Gemini Taurus Moon *29 Venus Taurus Mars Libra IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 09:34 AM And please forgive me folks if I sound intolerant But.... The thought of an old man with a young girl, makes me feel quite sick But an older woman with a younger man somehow (to me) seems quite erotic.... Dont know why.... Aaahhh I know....it is because a man is sexually peaking at 18 whereas a woman does so somewhere after the age of 30.... Scorpios and sexuality hey? Shame on me..... x IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 09:36 AM Sweet Stars I am sure YOU of all people could entice a man of the cloth LOL!!! Bad girl you.... IP: Logged
Sweet Stars unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 09:36 AM ahahahahahha ------------------ ---------- Gemini/Cancer cusp Cancer Ascendant Mercury Gemini Taurus Moon *29 Venus Taurus Mars Libra IP: Logged
alanabelle86 Knowflake Posts: 40 From: Somewhere over the rainbow Registered: May 2009	posted December 29, 2006 10:22 AM I've mentioned this before that one of my friends is not attracted to men our age.. Her first boyfriend was when she was 16. He was 58. Her current boyfriend and love is 49 and she's 20. She has Aquarius DC, with Saturn in the 4th, Uranus on the cusp of 4th and 5th.... Mars and Neptune in Cappy, in the 5th house IP: Logged
SLAYER unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 11:11 AM between 30-50 is what i look for. but as i said before, older men's bodies are sexier if they keep their body still in well shape after all those years. I wouldnt be atracted to a man whose body is not in shape. alanabelle86- Saturn, Scorpio, 4th house Mars, Scorpio, 5th house Pluto, Scorpio, 4th house Neptune, Capricorn, 5th house Uranus, Sagittarius, 5th house Saturn opposition Mercury/Moon conj. Aquarius DC sharing some of similar placements with your girl friend sue g- I totally understand why you feel sick about men being with younger girls. You probably visualize images of perversion because of child porn spotlight all around the world. I myself find it enourmously disgusting and share your concern about it, if that is what you meant. I believe if the girl is full of legal age, the love relationship with older men is normal. IP: Logged
Kamilla unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 11:34 AM My boyfriend is 17 years older than me and he has a body to die for. Of course, he is at the gym 3-4 times a week. Has to stay in shape to look good on his Harley . One day we were going through all his biking gear and I made him model black leather chaps for me. JUST chaps...lol. Let me tell you, that was a picture I won't forget. But then, I also love to see him in a suite and tie running some important meeting in his office. I think some of you girls, would agree that's such a turn on I think Saturn in 7th House has a lot to do with attraction to older people. I have this placement and I definitely feel it. My ex-husband was 15 years older. I tried to date guys closer to my age after I got divorced but I didn't like the way I felt around them. IP: Logged
SLAYER unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 12:19 PM Where are all men on LL? why do you avoid yourself from sharing your experiences with younger girls or older women? We also want to know what you think about this issue. IP: Logged
SLAYER unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 12:20 PM Kamilla, Lucky you IP: Logged
Gemini Nymph unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 12:45 PM I generally feel that women who take issue with older men dating younger women do so out of insecurity and a fear that they themselves could be "discarded." I don't deny that men do and have "discarded" older women, including wives and mothers of their children, for a younger woman. However, I think this scenario is far more complex than often assumed, and while some older men can be as selfish and reckless as anyone else, I think older men who do pursue relationships with younger women often get unfairly blamed for sins they haven't commited. It's not always automaatically a case of a older man going through a mid-life crisis and immaturely throwing off responsibilties and obligations. I find most men who do this do so for the same reason I pursue relationships wiht older men - we want to experience life in new ways, and we have a hard time doing that with people within our own age group. Moreover, as a woman who likes older men, even men over 50 (the guy I'm courting right now is nearing 60, and does indeed look his age - I'm 35, and look about 28), I can't be hypocritical and I won't judge men who make the choice to date younger women. Some people can and should be in relatioships with people outside their own age group. Anyone who has a hang up about it needs to get over themselves. as far as I'm concerned. I am far too Uranian to think we should limit our experiences of life just because a bunch of gossips or old hags are off in the corner tsk tsk'ing us with a disapproving eye. Social conventions be damned, espeically if they get int he way of one's self-discovery and happiness. IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 01:01 PM We must come from very different cultural backgrounds cos where I am, it is very popular to see older women with younger men... Discarded.....not at all....... These younger men are in awe of their older lovers...... Just look in magazines and on tv, it is on the increase.... The new rock and roll one might say... An old man whose sexual prowess is diminishing next to a young one who is in his prime.... Nah.......NO competition.... I had a psychic reading recently and the reader said to me, "there will always be at least one man waiting for you.....but for some strange reasons they are ALL YOUNG"!!!! lucky me! IP: Logged
teaologist unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 01:10 PM My first bf was not that much older than me, only about 8 yrs. I was 19. Not that old compared to ages stated here, but some of our friends and family members were still a bit put off. I have Uranus in 5th, which I understand gives us a tendency to bring home shocking dates. Must've been the tattoos. Here are my placements: Venus/11th opp Uranus/5th Neptune in 5th Aqua on DC and 8th h cusp No Cap placements, but: Sun opp Saturn Moon sq Saturn Saturn in 4th Stellium in 10th (Sun, Merc, Mars in Taurus) I think it might help to add that my Venus in Gem seeks a man who is very intelligent, but my Mars in Taurus seeks a... well, 'manly' man. The combo will immediately turn down machismo though... blech! I kinda know what you mean Slayer, about wanting to find a man who is strong. Well I'm not so 'strong' per se, and some support is always nice. But my ex was verrrry emotionally dependent on me. It didn't make much sense, with him having had all that history under his belt, and me being all apple-eyed. I tried to support him as best I could. Given that, I've decided that age and maturity def aren't always on par with each other... At this point, I just want a guy who has a stable job and is well-educated, somewhat emotionally self-sufficient (or at least didn't expect me to be a mind reader), and will understand my occasional need for silence and solitude. And we should be able to cut coupons together while watching cartoons (without that scene looking a bit off-key... meaning no daddy figures)! IP: Logged
SLAYER unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 01:12 PM There is an increase in the number of female celebrities who are dating with younger men in my country too sue g. I think this shift has to do with Aquarian age. Dont you think so? IP: Logged
SLAYER unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 01:18 PM 'we want to experience life in new ways, and we have a hard time doing that with people within our own age group.' Gemini Nypmh--quote definitely fits with me IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 01:19 PM Yes I do think its to do with the Age of Aqua SLAYER And women getting hornier too, of course When a younger man and older woman are seen together, the first impression many onlookers get are, she is with him for sex....that is what people have said about me and my man.....hahahaha....we have lasted 18 years.....SOME GOOD SEX HEY? We are at last coming fully into our sexuality (excuse the pun) x IP: Logged
Sweet Stars unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 01:21 PM I know women who liked older men and some who like younger men. I know men who like younger women and some men who like older woman. I notice my mom likes younger men. My sister also. Everyone has their own taste ------------------ ---------- Gemini/Cancer cusp Cancer Ascendant Mercury Gemini Taurus Moon *29 Venus Taurus Mars Libra IP: Logged
sue g unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 01:52 PM Sweet Stars Maybe you arrange for yer mam and sister to have a night on the town with me..... Can you imagine.......POOR BLOKES IP: Logged
Kamilla unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 01:53 PM Quote: "An old man whose sexual prowess is diminishing next to a young one who is in his prime.... Nah.......NO competition...." Sue, We are not talking 70-80 senior citizens here...lol... and guys in their 40s and 50s who actually KNOW what they are doing can leave some 20 years old with nothing to show but neverending hard-on and a lot of enthusiasm far behind . But then, of course, like it was said, it's all the matter of opinion As long as people make each other happy who cares about age difference. After a while you just stop thinking about it IP: Logged
jupitersgirl Knowflake Posts: 108 From: Registered: Oct 2009	posted December 29, 2006 02:01 PM . IP: Logged
amisha121877 unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 02:14 PM To Each His/Her Own Gemini Nymph - I enjoyed and appreciated what you posted IP: Logged
neptune5 unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 02:30 PM with what i mentioned earlier, my capricorn cusp 5th house and saturn in 5th. I have neptune in 5th too, as well as true node. How do neptune and true node influence how older men are more drawn to me, and vise versa? ------------------ Virgo Rising 8'57, Sagittarius Sun/4thH 3'26, Pisces Moon/6thH 8'22 "People see you as an object, not as a person, and they project a set of expectations onto you. People who don't have it think beauty is a blessing, but actually it sets you apart" - Candace Bergen "Beauty is eternity gazing at itself in a mirror." - Kahlil Gibran IP: Logged
SLAYER unregistered	posted December 29, 2006 02:35 PM Jupitersgirl, We dont judge people's life experiences with age. Of course ! a man who is in his mid-twenties could be full-grown, and pretty well-matured and educated and wiser enough than his peers. Nobody says anything on that !! , but i believe also that nobody here deserves and needs that you coming here and giving lecture on morality. The situation may not be ethic and healthy according to your own sense on the subject, but this does not give you the right to insult people. We are questioning unusual relationships here. This is a choice issue. You either agree or not agree, it is up to you. It is so childish and absurd for you to say that a man who is in his fifties cant have a healthy love relationship with a girl who is in her twenties. You accuse everybody with perversion who date with men pretty older than them. This is not nice of you. Are we all perverted people? Are we not healthy people? What the hell are you exactly trying to mean? IP: Logged

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