posted December 29, 2006 02:42 PM              

I like much younger men

And to be perfectly honest it is not JUST sex...it is to do with a different more vibrant energy....I have always related to youth culture....and also I now think it is genetic. My grandad on my mothers side and grandmother on my fathers side died at a very great age. Both were extremely "young". My Scorpio grandma said to me once "I cant stand being with old people, can you"....she was 82 at the time!!!

Seeing as we didnt have any male input here, I asked my younger Virgo husband what he thought and he said, sometimes women who go out with much older men (20 years plus) is for this....and he rubbed his hands together....meaning money.

Maybe he was thinking of the "sugar daddy' thing

Interesting to hear a man's point of view anyway!

posted December 29, 2006 02:59 PM              

I know what you mean girl....I was being a little err....extreme there

Its just that I kept having visions of the little old 80 year old grandad with the 21 year old 6ft bride on his arm.....

Not that she is after his money or anything...

No offence to you ladies who prefer older men.......forgive my exuberance

I LOVE YOUNG MEN
I LOVE YOUNG MEN
I LOVE YOUNG MEN

posted December 29, 2006 03:02 PM              

I think I understand what you mean. Some people need youthful vibrant energy, some people need more solid and grounding energy of older age (which might make sense for Air placements). I don't think the choices we make here are entirely conscious either.

posted December 29, 2006 03:06 PM              

I was just gonna ask about the deeper meaning of the age gap.....

Anyone have any theories...on older men and younger ones? Why we would be drawn etc!!??

posted December 29, 2006 03:19 PM              

"ooh i feel faint all of a sudden.....gotta go home so I can debate with knowflakes about men and age gaps"

Go on I dare ya

posted December 29, 2006 03:41 PM              

Maybe some other time......

Thanks for coming back anyway

posted December 29, 2006 03:48 PM              

Men who are mature and are stable emotionally and financially and are successful, are very very attractive to me. Especially business men...yummy.

posted December 31, 2006 04:32 PM            

Usually the attraction to older women/men revolves around the fact that they have had the opportunity to experience life more than their younger counterparts and therefore have more to talk about as such.

posted January 01, 2007 04:04 AM              

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posted January 01, 2007 05:03 AM              

With a 37 year old

I have had male friends in their 20s who I know have been "interested" in me....

Why?

I think what X said is true....experience and confidence too. Also I have felt more sexually fulfilled since I turned 40.

So no Virgoman, 43 aint too old at all.....I only started to "bloom" since I turned 40!!!

posted January 01, 2007 05:27 AM              

For me, younger men seem to have less baggage, no ex wives, children etc, they seem more open to learning and experimenting too...of coure this is generally speaking. I know older men, who like me, have retained a childlike curiosity, and it is lovely to see!

I was at a fancy dress party on Saturday night. It was a 60s and 70s theme. I dressed like a hippy with love and flowers painted on my face and outrageous clothes.

I noticed there were a lot of younger men there staring at me (probably in disbelief lol ). They seemed somewhat intrigued and a little scared lol!!!

There is an innocene in younger men that I see reflected back at me.

I am, in part, still innocent and not jaded like some of my generation.

Thats what it is.....freshness, anticipation, enthusiasm, not "resigned" to life.

posted January 01, 2007 10:08 AM              

Now I'm with a sweet Leo who's 14 yrs my senior, but he's so young at heart. He fits the Leo description so well. The guys my age and younger completely turn me off. I still find myself getting hot and bothered at the sight of Sean Connery and Mel Gibson.

They just have this aura about them. I can't explain it it's just a complete turn on for me.

God Bless Older Men!!!!!

posted January 01, 2007 10:21 AM            

I am attracted to an individual for who they are regardless of age, but have had a more soufull connection with men around my age or older.

Have dated a man 6yrs younger and that was not bad, alot of the same musical interests, etc. but WAY too emotionally immature for society let alone a relationship--not an age thing necessarialy, just him.

I dated a man 11 yrs my senior and while we clicked astrologically (amazing synastry) and intellectually and maturity, the generation gap esp. with music was aparant and I love music so much that I envisioned that to be a potential problem. I like mosh pits, he liked talk radio! There are also health issues regarding sexual encounters that some older men--I am talking getting into the 50ish crowd here--experience and for a woman coming into her prime of sexual experience, was a bit frusterating!

posted January 01, 2007 12:05 PM              

it's what LG writes of -- we live in the eternal now -- she refused to judge or classify people based upon age.

for those who have achieved immortality, she lexigrams 'orange', the fruit being an esoteric symbol among immortals ~

NO ANGER
NO RAGE
NO AGE

it's the reason we add essential oil of orange to our moisturizers.

posted January 02, 2007 05:57 AM              

Didnt you say it happened 15 years ago, or did I read that wrong?

Maybe you give yourself permission now to go out and meet another lady, who you will be happy with...

posted January 03, 2007 07:26 AM              

It saddens me to read your posts. Every woman I know yearns for a man who will love them as much as you seem to love this girl... it seems such a waste to love so much and not be loved in return.

Unfortunately, I seriously doubt that a woman would accept that her man is head over heels in love with someone else so you're pretty much out of luck there.

You have so much love to give... if you open your heart up, you might find that there are more than just broken heart out there... and perhaps find happiness with someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved.

MM