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Angelhead
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posted May 16, 2010 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Angelhead     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here are the synastry aspects I share with the man in my life:

His mars is conjunct my pluto
My mars is trine his pluto
My conjunction venus mars falls in his 8th house and my venus is conjunct to his jupiter (8th house)
My jupiter is square his pluto
My pluto is trine is jupiter
His moon and eros are in my 8th house
My venus is trine his pluto
My venus is trine his mars
My venus and mars are opposed his neptune
His sun is square my venus
My moon is trine his venus
My juno conjunct his juno
His juno conjunct my pluto
My venus and mars are trine his juno
His pluto conjunct my juno
His chiron is in my 5th house
My lilith is conjunct his true node
My lilith is conjunct his uranus in his 1st house
His lilith is in my 5th house
his lilith is opposite my lilith
My eros is opposite his psyche
we also have a grand trine: my chiron, our neptunes and his saturn

we share other aspects but these ones seem to be the most sexual ones!!

The relationship is highly sexual, and I would say he is sexually obsessed with me. So much so that I always wonder if he does love me...

Let me know what you think


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yuajah
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posted June 09, 2010 01:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for yuajah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well for me personally, i have mars in scorpio...this has me sexually obessesed...period!!! But mostly Ijust show it when I am with my partner. Scorpio is also a secretive sign...so I dont usually reveal this side of myself to just anybody. just something to consider...I love these topics it give me things to write about for my web site in the near future.
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MyVirgoMask
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posted June 10, 2010 01:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol, it's so funny how people keep associating Scorpio only with sexuality.

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Buzzorific
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posted June 14, 2010 11:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Buzzorific     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Loving this thread!

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bopbop
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posted June 21, 2010 04:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bopbop     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I haven't read all the replies, but Mars (male) conjunct Moon (female). Holy moley!

His sexual attraction to me is far greater, I discovered he'd been obsessing over me for several months before I even noticed him. I've rarely had a man act so intensely infatuated.

Here are the prominent aspects he has to my planets (his first):

Moon opposition Jupiter, square Uranus, square Chiron
Venus conjunct Jupiter, square Uranus, square Chiron
Mars opposition Sun, conjunct Moon, square North Node
Saturn square Venus, conjunct Chiron, conjunct Lilith
Neptune square Venus (Sat/Nep opposition in his natal)
North Node conjunct Mars (in my 8th house)
Lilith square Venus

There are actually no major Pluto aspects in the synastry within a tight orb, though his Pluto falls in my 5th house. He has Sun opposition Moon, with Moon conjunct Pluto natally. I have Sun opposition Moon both squared by Pluto natally. Our Mars are in the same sign (Capricorn), Venus in opposite signs (Pisces and Virgo) and my Venus and his Moon in the same sign (Virgo).

Best. Sex. Ever. In any case. Extremely sudden, intoxicating and complex, I suppose because natally speaking we can both handle obsessions... and natals are important in the assessment. For instance, my chiron is conjunct lilith natally, and the darker side of sex and desire, being an independent, "unavailable" woman is connected to healing and wounding... and this person has all his personal planets closely square to my chiron/lilith, and his Chiron square my Mars and his Lilith square my Venus. I mean that spells inevitable lust to me, for better or worse. In addition, he has a Pisces stellium, with Sun/Merc/Venus all conjunct. Neptune would be particularly influencial, and his Neptune is square my Venus and opposing my Ascendant, while my Neptune is square his Sun (agh).

Also notice: squares are sexy lol

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posted June 23, 2010 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Buzzorific     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a composite done of my and my ex. He was AMAZING!

Our Sun, Venus, and Mars where all conjunct almost exact and opposing our Uranus.

HOTHOTHOT!!!

Still gives me a shiver.

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posted October 13, 2010 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was looking for information on the mars neptune aspect in synastry when I came across this thread. I'm in a very sexually obsessive relationship right now and we have an exact mars neptune conjunction in his 8th and an exact venus uranus conj again falling in his 8th and to exeggerate matters jupiter is in the middle of the two conj affecting them both. We can not get enough of eachother!

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PlutoSquared
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posted October 16, 2010 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSquared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can you post the synastry chart?

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Cynnared
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posted October 22, 2010 02:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cynnared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How bout this......person A has Mars/Pluto/Uranus in Virgo opposite Person B's Venus in Pisces oh and might as through in a square from Person's B Jupiter/Neppy conjunction in Saggy. Sadly the composite shows a Tsquare with venus/moon and saturn.....unrequited love yet one strong sexual attraction.

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posted July 18, 2011 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Ha.

His Moon-Eros in Aries opposite his natal Mars, conjunct my Sun-Pluto, conjunct his Lilith (dominant female sexuality).

His Pluto-Psyche is also conjunct my Venus-Ascendant. Our Eroses are quindecile.

And that's the tip of the iceberg ....

-A.

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posted July 19, 2011 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saraintheski     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by neptune5:
Pluto in someone's eigth house, or venus in someone's eighth house, although pluto would be more potent, also mars in someone's 8th house.

venus ,pluto in the 8th mars almost in the 8th ..:P

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Saraintheski
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posted July 19, 2011 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saraintheski     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by neptune5:
Pluto in someone's eigth house, or venus in someone's eighth house, although pluto would be more potent, also mars in someone's 8th house.

venus ,pluto in the 8th mars almost in the 8th ..:P

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Saraintheski
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posted July 19, 2011 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saraintheski     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by neptune5:
Pluto in someone's eigth house, or venus in someone's eighth house, although pluto would be more potent, also mars in someone's 8th house.

venus ,pluto in the 8th mars almost in the 8th ..:P

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Saraintheski
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posted July 19, 2011 01:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Saraintheski     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
also mars conjunct pluto in synastry drives me wild

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Thell
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posted July 19, 2011 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Thell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by neptune5:
Pluto in someone's eigth house, or venus in someone's eighth house, although pluto would be more potent, also mars in someone's 8th house.

Who would be the obsessed one? The one who's Pluto/Venus is in the other's eighth house, or the one who's eighth house has the other's Pluto/Venus in it?

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MertSerimer
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posted July 20, 2011 01:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MertSerimer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think pluto should not be enough for it only because i hava natally PLuto in 8th. So Will i have Sexual Obsession with ENTIRE GENERATION LOL? :d

Maybe i have sexual obsession

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Taineberry
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posted July 20, 2011 04:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Taineberry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
IMHO the two that stand out in synastry are :

Venus quindecile Mars. Quindecile is "the" aspect of obsession. Gives unrelenting drive.

and

Eros conjunct Psyche.

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laurenbabiiee7
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i have venus in scorpio conjunct pluto in scorpio sextile ascendent which is aries (mars) and let me tell you i am allllways so horny no matter what i often have guys telling me im worse than them or i think like a guy when it comes to sex..its deffinately interesting hahah

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Jounia
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posted August 29, 2011 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jounia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by neptune5:
Pluto in someone's eigth house, or venus in someone's eighth house, although pluto would be more potent, also mars in someone's 8th house.

Hi,newbie here, so if his pluto falls in my 8th house, that would mean I would find him very sexually attractive?

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posted August 30, 2011 09:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 01, 2011 05:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just looked up the synastry of a very sexually intense relationship I had and found these:

(from cafeastrology)

Conjunction Mars - Pluto

Positive aspect: Enormous physical passion. The sexual attraction is intense and insistent. They want to be around each other as much as possible. Their sexual relationship evolves with time, instead of dissolves.

Trine Sun - Pluto

Positive aspect: It's love-at-first-sight, the great passion: they will be drawn to each other like two magnets, they will always have to see and touch each other. Very good sexual understanding, typically very passionate. It must be said that this type of relationship may not last forever, it may not develop into a quiet and tender love. If they part, it is close to impossible to stay friends because of the constant reminder of the passion that once existed. It's all or nothing with them. If they part, one will suffer when the passion of the other dies, it will be a very difficult time to live through. However, if they stay together, there is strength to gain from each other.

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posted September 17, 2011 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i vote for Venus-Pluto - it's terrible for the Venus person especially, almost like suffering because you want so badly to just be with the other person. i have had this twice, and right now the orb with this guy is 0.5 so it's hard to handle. I know he feels something for me since he has stated that, but it can't possibly be the obsession i'm having for him. I almost just want it to go away it's so hard to handle sometimes. we're in the workplace together so it's tough to see him walk by - I just want to sexually attack him, lol

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posted September 17, 2011 09:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BelligerentPygmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For what it's worth, an ex of mine has mars-pluto conjunct and my venus fell right on that conjunction, along with my Neptune falling in his twelfth house. Manifested as weird dreams about me of a sexual nature.

Not a nice guy, so you can imagine how I feel about that...*shudder*.

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posted January 26, 2012 02:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IndigoDirae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bopbop:
I haven't read all the replies, but Mars (male) conjunct Moon (female). Holy moley!

His sexual attraction to me is far greater, I discovered he'd been obsessing over me for several months before I even noticed him. I've rarely had a man act so intensely infatuated.

Here are the prominent aspects he has to my planets (his first):

Moon opposition Jupiter, square Uranus, square Chiron
Venus conjunct Jupiter, square Uranus, square Chiron
Mars opposition Sun, conjunct Moon, square North Node
Saturn square Venus, conjunct Chiron, conjunct Lilith
Neptune square Venus (Sat/Nep opposition in his natal)
North Node conjunct Mars (in my 8th house)
Lilith square Venus

There are actually no major Pluto aspects in the synastry within a tight orb, though his Pluto falls in my 5th house. He has Sun opposition Moon, with Moon conjunct Pluto natally. I have Sun opposition Moon both squared by Pluto natally. Our Mars are in the same sign (Capricorn), Venus in opposite signs (Pisces and Virgo) and my Venus and his Moon in the same sign (Virgo).

Best. Sex. Ever. In any case. Extremely sudden, intoxicating and complex, I suppose because natally speaking we can both handle obsessions... and natals are important in the assessment. For instance, my chiron is conjunct lilith natally, and the darker side of sex and desire, being an independent, "unavailable" woman is connected to healing and wounding... and this person has all his personal planets closely square to my chiron/lilith, and his Chiron square my Mars and his Lilith square my Venus. I mean that spells inevitable lust to me, for better or worse. In addition, he has a Pisces stellium, with Sun/Merc/Venus all conjunct. Neptune would be particularly influencial, and his Neptune is square my Venus and opposing my Ascendant, while my Neptune is square his Sun (agh).

Also notice: squares are sexy lol


Dude, I can totally relate to this. My Lilith is opposite my Chiron, actually, and it never even occurred to me how - yes! - wounding, cathartic, healing - sexual obsession seems to be. My Venus is also in Virgo, in the 12H.

Oh, wow, my Lilith is also square his Venus-Eros. I'm the Mars, though, in conjunction to his Moon. His Mars squares my Moon-Uranus exactly, though. In maybe 2 minutes of air-time, (we first spoke on the radio) we were wildly flirting with each other. There's more to THAT story, but the fact that he just - BAM - was what ALWAYS got me. And then the fact that -I- responded so intensely and immediately? Wow. I hadn't been expecting to do that. 'Course all that particular energy is Sag, so ...

His Saturn's -also- conjunct my Lilith. My NNode opposes his Mars; his NNode opposes my Moon-Uranus. It's my Venus, rather than Mars, in his 8H. Wow, this is a bit eerie now. (My Lilith's in Scorpio; where's yours?)

This is rather illuminating! And, uhm, further confirms my 'fear'. That we're the kind of people, underneath all our respectfulness and propriety to hit a point after a certain scene - and then it's on like Donkey Kong.

I need to check my transits this summer for likelihood of getting it on on a film set -- and not in that 'while the cameras are rolling' kind of way.

... Ho-boy.


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posted March 08, 2013 01:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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. Jupiter helps strengthen an attraction(like Jupiter conjunction Venus), it helps to be tolerant and forgiving of someones shortcomings. After all how can you stay attracted to someone if you can't except their 'achiles heel'. An aggravated Jupiter just adds to an obsession(being excessive

Definitely Jupiter-Venus. Look no further than that if you have this in a chart, forget about the other aspects- this is it, lol.

I was obsessed with someone whose Venus conjuncts my Jupiter & there's a guy whose Jupiter squares MY Venus who is the one doing the obsession. This is very powerful and not very pleasant to have. His Jupiter (guy who is obsessed with me) also conjuncts my Moon.

Conjunction, Square and oppositions are very, very obsessive..it sucks when it's one sided.

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