posted August 16, 2020 09:44 AM            

I like solid put-together guys, who know what they want and aren’t blowing in the wind! When they speak they should think first and not change their mind after.
Wheh a plan is laid (even if it had nothing to do with me) I don’t want it changing. I want to be able to count on the partner’s words, it strengthens the rel’ship for me.

They need to be powerful in SOME way
but that doesn’t have to mean money:
Powerful could mean ambitious / has wherewithal.
Or having a job with authority or responsibility requiring skill (so I can admire them too)
Guys with presence / persona. That was the previous one. But he had more ambition for me than for himself like he was my agent somehow. I don’t want that power wielded over ME.

posted January 25, 2021 06:41 PM            

I have a Sagittarius Stellium with Mercury, Saturn, Uranus, & Sun. Saturn forms a conjunction with all of these. Neptune is also in the 6th but in Capricorn @ 5° exactly conjunct Juno.

I need someone responsible, mature & authoritative. I need someone disciplined that can take control of a room just by who they are. I need patience. Their voice must reflect this (mercury) But Sag won't settle for anyone who abuses their power. Someone altruistic, honest who uses their traits diplomatically. They must value my need for freedom and know any control they have over me is because I let them. Being controlling and possessive and insecure is nothing I want. I allow people their freedom and expect the same. I need stimulating conversations. Someone who has their own thing and allows me to have mine. A hard worker who takes care of their health. Someone who inspires me to strengthen those traits that don't come easily to a Sag. I need them to be fun to be around & not to emotional. Who doesn't hold grudges and is willing to resolve issues with understanding in a calm manner then letting it go and moving forward. Someone who can understand that I am female, as rare as it is for me to have an emotional outburst, they need to just realize females do that & not to take it to seriously or personally. Handle it with humor, that always works, don't play into it and get on that wavelength where it affects their emotions. If you can't handle a momentarily heated outburst then I would be afraid to express myself to avoid another negative reaction.

I am not dominant in relationships and I do not like playing that role. I am submissive to my partners & I can't have someone who thinks they can take advantage of that. It is not to be confused for weakness.

Wow I am quite demanding. :-P But hey, I know what I want & I know who I am. & Want someone in the same position.